A 25-year-old mechanic, who lost both his parents, was taken in by his older brother and his wife. His life took a devastating turn when he was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma. Unable to work and undergoing chemotherapy, he was kicked out by his brother and left to fend for himself. Now, after two years, his brother wants to attend his wedding, but the mechanic is hesitant to forgive and forget.
Living with Big Bro

Paying the Price

Cancer Diagnosis

Seeking a Specialist

Brother’s Wife Turns Cold ❄️

Kicked Out

Friend to the Rescue

Relatives Disappoint

Brother’s One Hospital Visit

Fast Forward 2 Years ⏭️

Brother Wants to Attend Wedding

Brother’s Hurt Feelings

Wife’s Sudden Change of Heart ❤️

No Invitation

Criticism and Forgiveness

Brother’s Perspective

To Forgive or Not to Forgive?
After being disowned by his brother during his battle with cancer, this mechanic is now facing the dilemma of whether to invite him to his wedding. His brother claims to be hurt by the exclusion, while his wife, who once turned her back on him, now encourages reconciliation. The mechanic is torn between forgiving and forgetting, or standing his ground and keeping his brother away from his special day.
Brother sided with controlling wife, kicked out sibling during cancer treatment

“Forgive and forget”? Nah, they left you to die. NTA!

Brother prioritized party over supporting sibling during cancer treatment

NTA. Family treated you like trash during cancer treatment. No invite.

“NTA: Kicked out during cancer, now wants wedding invite? No way!”

Send them this post and ignore them for a few decades

NTA. Brother’s sudden interest in wedding feels insincere and self-serving

Cut toxic family ties, embrace happiness. ✨

INFO: How did the situation build up before all this happened?
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Shocking! Brother kicks out cancer patient, now wants wedding invite?

Brother’s treatment of cancer-stricken sibling questioned; compassion and perspective needed

Cut out the negativity and cherish your true family

NTA. Share your special day with those who truly love you.

NTA. Don’t invite him, he hasn’t even met your fiancee

Chemo weakens you, but this person’s wedding won’t be ruined!

NTA. Brother kicked you out during cancer treatment, now wants invite

NTA. Forgiving brother? Wedding not time for public reconciliation.

Choose yourself over them on your special day
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“NTA – Brother kicked him out during cancer treatment, now wants wedding invite “

Brother’s disrespect during cancer treatment, now wants wedding invite

Brother kicked him out during cancer treatment, now wants wedding invite

A special seat for the person who abandoned me during my life-death situation?
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Brother abandoned during cancer, now wants wedding invite

Invite who you want to your wedding

Family betrayal during cancer treatment, now seeking wedding invitation

Heartless brother kicks out cancer patient, deserves no wedding invite

NTA: Brother used you for money, kicked you out during cancer treatment. No obligation to forgive and forget. Be happy

NTA. Brother’s an a**hole, relatives too. Congrats on wedding!

Friend who took you in is more like family
