Wedding Hijacked by Surprise Proposal: Homophobia or Bad Timing? 😲💍

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Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have a guest steal the spotlight with their own surprise proposal. That's exactly what happened to one couple, who found themselves in the middle of a heated debate about whether the proposal was an act of homophobia or just plain bad timing. The couple's friend, J, proposed to his boyfriend, G, just minutes after the bride and groom exchanged vows. But when the groom called J out for his actions, J accused him of being homophobic. 😳👰🤵

The Wedding That Almost Wasn't 📅

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A Small Ceremony and a Big Surprise 🎉

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Meet J and G, the Surprise Guests 🤵🤵

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The Unexpected Proposal 💍

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Tension in the Air 😬

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Defensive Accusations 🛑

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G Tries to Calm the Situation 🤗

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Standing Up for Politeness 🗣️

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J and G Leave the Party 🚶‍♂️

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Friends Take Sides 🤷

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The Real Issue 🎯

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Seeking an Outside Perspective 🧐

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A Wedding Derailed: Homophobia or Just Bad Manners? 🚂💥

So, was J's proposal at A and B's wedding an act of homophobia, or simply bad timing? The internet is divided on this one, with some arguing that J's actions were in poor taste, while others believe that the couple's sexuality shouldn't have been brought into the conversation. One thing's for sure: this wedding will be remembered for more than just the happy couple's vows. 😅💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation...

NTA. Proposal at wedding: Inappropriate and inconsiderate. Homophobia accusation unfounded.

MeanAssMIL | MeanAssMIL

NTA. J brought up homophobia, OP responded. Proposal etiquette matters.

sonja_says | sonja_says

👏 NTA for calling out the selfish proposal at the wedding! 💍

SmartassMouth89 | SmartassMouth89

NTA: J's poorly timed proposal made it about his sexuality. 🚫💍

Hellhound265 | Hellhound265

NTA for calling out bad proposal etiquette at a wedding! 👏

LosAngelesCourier- | LosAngelesCourier-

Using sexuality/race as a defense? NTA, but let's discuss discrimination.

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Engaging caption: NTA. Proposal at someone else's wedding? Major faux pas! 😲💍

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Proposing at someone else's wedding? Not cool! NTA for speaking up.

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NTA. Proposing at a wedding? Rude! Not homophobic, just inconsiderate. 😲

PotentialityKnocks | PotentialityKnocks

NTA: Gay man accused of using victim card at wedding.

tesdfan17 | tesdfan17

NTA: G's reconsideration is not your fault, J should reflect 👏

princessunplug | princessunplug

Wedding hijacked by surprise proposal? NTA says it all! 😲💍

didnotimprovethecake | didnotimprovethecake

Friend's wedding proposal: NTA, big No No without approval 😲

Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama

NTA. Wedding proposal stolen, not homophobic, just bad timing. 😲

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NTA. They brought up their sexuality first by saying that the bride was homophobic-and it's definitely bad taste to propose to someone at another person's wedding. Did anyone else notice that G is 'reconsidering' his relationship with J all because OP 'ruined' his proposal? If the whole relationship is going to get called out over something as flimsy as this, I'm not sure why they bothered to step on someone else's happy day to get engaged. 😲💍

Lahzerban | Lahzerban

NTA for criticizing proposal at wedding, not mentioning sexuality 👍

Sluaghlock | Sluaghlock

NTA - Engaging comment about surprise proposals at weddings 💍

maggienetism | maggienetism

NTA. LGBTQ+ status should not be used as an excuse. 👍

Kendranin | Kendranin

NTA shuts down homophobic comment, sparks debate on sexuality.

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Etiquette debate: Proposing at a wedding 😲

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