Man Keeps Trans Friend's Identity Secret from Girlfriend, Sparks Trust Issues 😲

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Imagine having a tight-knit friendship with someone for years, only for it to cause trust issues in your romantic relationship. That's exactly what happened to this guy when his girlfriend started feeling uncomfortable about his close friendship with his female roommate. Little did she know, there was a secret he was keeping to protect his friend's identity. What unfolds next will leave you questioning if he was in the wrong for not being upfront with his girlfriend. 😲

Meet the Roommate

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The Transition

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Growing Discomfort

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L's Wishes

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Bad Experiences

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Hiding the Truth

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Suspicion Arises

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Movie Night

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The Confrontation

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Cheating Fears

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The Fight

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L's Change of Heart

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The Revelation

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Months of Uncomfort

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Anger and Secrets

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Did He Cross the Line? 🤔

After months of growing discomfort, our protagonist's girlfriend finally confronts him about his close relationship with his female roommate, L. Little did she know, L is a transgender woman, and he had been keeping her identity a secret to protect her. When L gives him permission to reveal the truth, his girlfriend is furious that he didn't tell her sooner. She feels betrayed and believes that knowing L's identity would have eased her worries. Now, he's left wondering if he was in the wrong for not being upfront with his girlfriend. Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this tangled web of trust and secrets. 💬

NTA for keeping trans friend's identity secret, but toxic gf

SevsMumma21217 | SevsMumma21217

"NTA for not outing someone without their consent" 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

GF's insecurity leads to outing trans friend, trust issues arise 😲

nicolasbaege | nicolasbaege

NTA. Friend's secret sparks trust issues. Girlfriend's insecurity is concerning 😲

Flat_Summer | Flat_Summer

Keeping secrets can spark trust issues. NTA for respecting boundaries 👍

Xenavire | Xenavire

Protecting a friend's identity: NTA, privacy matters 🙏

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NTA. Keeping your friend's secret was the right choice. Your gf's strange reasoning and jealousy are concerning 😲

sadartchick | sadartchick

ESH, but girlfriend's controlling behavior is a huge red flag 🚨

CicadaFriend | CicadaFriend

Controlling girlfriend raises red flags, NTA for keeping secret 😲

Mysterious_Weird987 | Mysterious_Weird987

Respecting your friend's choice and navigating trust issues 🙏

Dunka_Chino | Dunka_Chino

NTA: Boundaries and trust issues arise when hiding friendships 😲

VitalityVixen | VitalityVixen

GF's opinion changes when she learns L is trans 🙄

Sinnohgirl765 | Sinnohgirl765

NTA. Respecting friend's privacy and trust, girlfriend needs understanding.

bunnytooties | bunnytooties

Respecting boundaries and protecting a friend's identity. NTA 👍

delboy5 | delboy5

NTA: Trust issues arise when friend's secret is revealed 😲

AILYPE | AILYPE

NTA. Respecting boundaries and evaluating trust in relationships 👍

fallenknight91 | fallenknight91

"NTA. Honoring your friend's privacy shows loyalty and trustworthiness. Your GF's insecurity is unwarranted. 😎"

rapt2right | rapt2right

Respecting boundaries, but trust issues may arise again 😔

Mysterious_Willow952 | Mysterious_Willow952

NTA. Good on you for respecting your friend's privacy 👍

WiseBat | WiseBat

Respecting boundaries: NTA for keeping your friend's secret 🙌

ughneedausername | ughneedausername

NTA - Girlfriend's trust issues are causing unnecessary conflict 😔

endlessotter | endlessotter

NAH. Insecurities and failed communication. Commendable friendship, but trust issues.

Sn1bbers | Sn1bbers

Defending the friend's decision while acknowledging concerns and attraction

googoogly | googoogly

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