Imagine growing up in a religious household with a father who preached good Christian family values, yet cheated on your mother all the time. Now, imagine your brother, who you suspected might be gay, ends up cheating on his wife with another man. This is the story of a man who faces a moral dilemma when his brother finally accepts his sexuality, but at the cost of breaking his wife’s heart.
The Religious Household

Brother’s Struggle to Please Dad

Discovering the Browser History

The Silent Support

The Fear of Coming Out

Years Pass, Still No Coming Out ️

Enter Julie, the Angelic Wife

Julie’s Impact on the Family

The Cheating Revelation

The Three-Year Affair

Confronting the Brother

Brother’s Defense

Accusations of Discrimination

Cheating is Cheating

Feeling Guilty

Is There Ever a Free Pass for Cheating?
Caught in the middle of a family drama, our protagonist is left feeling guilty after confronting his brother about cheating on his wife. His brother defends himself, saying he was struggling to accept his sexuality, but is that really an excuse for cheating? As the story unfolds, we’ve gathered the top responses from the internet to see what people think about this complicated situation.
NTA. Uncle cheated on wife, expected acceptance due to his sexuality

“NTA, it’s not about who he cheated with or what gender he’s into, it’s about being unfaithful to his wife!”

“NTA. Cheating is cheating no matter your justification. “

Cheating is never justified, even if you accept your sexuality

NTA. Brother’s struggle doesn’t excuse cheating on his wife

NTA. Cheating is cheating, no matter who with.
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NTA. Betrayal hurts, regardless of sexual orientation. Cheating is unacceptable.

NTA – Wife doesn’t deserve cheating, struggling with sexuality?

NTA. Discovering his sexuality doesn’t excuse years of cheating.

“Cool motive, still murder.” NINE NINE!!

NTA. Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender. He betrayed his wife.
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Cheating is never okay. NTA for calling it out!
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Brother plays victim after cheating. NTA recommends eye-opening book.

NTA. Cheating is cheating. Genitals don’t excuse infidelity.

NTA. Cheating is cheating, and she deserves better

Calling out cheating and using sexuality as an excuse

NTA: Discovering oneself shouldn’t come at the expense of others

NTA for calling out his cheating, not his sexuality

Cheating is never okay! Divorce first!

NTA. Brother’s selfishness hurts innocent party and family.

Cheating is cheating, no matter the gender.

NTA – Cheating on wife while using her as a ‘beard’.

Brother cheats on wife after accepting his sexuality

Caught him red-handed! NTA for exposing his secret browsing history

Cheating brother’s sexuality revelation shocks and angers commenters

Supporting a brother’s coming out journey while acknowledging the pain.

Cheating is never justified. NTA for calling it out!

Supportive sibling encourages brother to embrace his sexuality while condemning his actions.

Choosing deceit over honesty in marriage leads to unnecessary pain

Accepting his sexuality doesn’t excuse cheating. Honesty is crucial.

NTA – Cheating is never justified

Brother’s betrayal shattered our relationship. Trust lost, bond broken

“Being gay doesn’t excuse cheating. NTA for calling him out!”
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Brother cheats on wife after accepting his sexuality

Brother cheats on wife, defends himself with Spacey defense. NTA
