Woman Refuses to Quit Dream Job for Boyfriend's Career - Selfish or Justified? 😲

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Imagine finding your dream job, only to be asked to quit it for your partner's career. That's the dilemma a 27-year-old woman is facing as her boyfriend wants her to give up her job so he can pursue his dream career. She's already moved multiple times for him, but now she's finally found a job she loves and has built a life in their new town. Is she being selfish for not wanting to quit her job, or is it time for her boyfriend to support her happiness? 🤷‍♀️

The Beginning: Love and Compromise

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First Move: Chasing a Better Job

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Second Move: Family Matters

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The Deal: Kids and Moving

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Third Move: A New Life

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Dream Job Found: Happiness at Last

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History Buff: A Perfect Match

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Building a Life: Friends and Family

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The Issue: Boyfriend's Dream Career

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The Ultimatum: Quitting Her Job

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Promises and Reality

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Her Struggle: Happiness vs. His Career

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His Frustration: Work and Life

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Caught in a Dilemma: Love or Career?

This woman has already moved multiple times for her boyfriend's career, but now that she's found her dream job, he wants her to quit it so he can pursue his own dreams. She's built a life in their new town and fears that moving again will lead to depression. Her boyfriend accuses her of being selfish and ungrateful, but she feels she's already made enough sacrifices for his happiness. Let's see what the internet thinks of this complicated situation... 😬

NTA - Boyfriend manipulates OP with kids and constant uprooting 😲

kikivivi01 | kikivivi01

NTA for refusing to give up dream job for boyfriend's career 😲

theirothermother | theirothermother

NTA - OP stands up for herself and finds happiness. 👏

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NTA: Prioritize your own happiness, not his. Don't be trapped! 😲

privacyishard | privacyishard

NTA - Consider a long distance relationship while he figures it out. 🙏

CakeisaDie | CakeisaDie

NTA: Don't let him manipulate you with empty promises! 😲

Berrysama32 | Berrysama32

"NTA. He's always chasing new jobs, causing problems in marriage." 😲

convertingcreative | convertingcreative

Boyfriend's job troubles may be a red flag for relationship. 🤔

pcnauta | pcnauta

NTA: Boyfriend needs to accept his job and stop searching 😲

DemiDinosaur | DemiDinosaur

INFO: Is he committed? If not, girl, move on! 🚪🚶‍♀️💨

narutogirl805 | narutogirl805

"NTA. Stand your ground and consider if he's worth it. 😲"

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NTA. BF is selfish and ungrateful. Your needs matter 👏


NTA: Pursue your dreams and don't let anyone hold you back! 💪

introverted_smallfry | introverted_smallfry

Is the boyfriend the problem? 🤔

figstea123 | figstea123

NTA. Manipulative jerk? No thanks! You made the right call. 🙌

LoganDeLuca2004 | LoganDeLuca2004

NTA: Boyfriend's selfishness jeopardizes dream job and relationship. 😲

RamenNoodles620 | RamenNoodles620

NTA. Manipulative boyfriend needs to sort out his life 😲

MentalPackage5 | MentalPackage5

NTA for prioritizing your own happiness and career goals 👏

Terryfoldyholds | Terryfoldyholds

Don't let his unhappiness control your dreams. You're NTA! 👏

BelliAmie | BelliAmie

NTA - Plan your life first, don't uproot for someone uncommitted. 🙌

MlmMem | MlmMem

NTA. Pursue your dreams, you deserve it! 👏

Embarrassed-Bridge-8 | Embarrassed-Bridge-8

NTA - Job is tough, he needs to grow up! 🤪

StreetSniper420 | StreetSniper420

"NTA. He used kids to manipulate you into moving last time. 😲"

onomatopoeiano | onomatopoeiano

Partner's job-hopping causing strain, therapy needed for happiness and stability. 🙏

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Couple faces job and relationship challenges, but finding solutions 👍

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NTA. Moving for partner's career without considering your needs 😲

helpthe0ld | helpthe0ld

Boyfriend prioritizes his happiness over yours. NTA! 😊

TallCombination6 | TallCombination6

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