Vacation Extension Chaos: Is Choosing Family Over GF's Surgery Fair Play?

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Imagine planning a surgery around your partner's schedule, only to have them jet off to extend a family vacation – leaving you to fend for yourself post-op. That's the dilemma Stacey faced when her partner of 8 years decided family time trumped her upcoming tonsillectomy. As she braces for surgery alone, the question arises: is he being a supportive partner, or is this a case of neglect? Dive into the drama of love, health, and family ties that has everyone talking. 😷🛫💔

First-Time Poster, Big-Time Dilemma

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Eight-Year Itch or Solid Commitment?

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Surgical Scheduling Snafu

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Operation Ordeal

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Calendar Conundrum

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Vacation vs. Convalescence

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Caregiver Commitment

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Surprise! I'm Gone

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Family First?

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Sister's Time Off Sparks Conflict

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Stacey's Plea for Presence

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Childhood Recovery vs. Adult Reality

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Dismissive Diagnosis?

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Doctor's Orders Ignored?

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Surprise Sacrifice

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Sister's Support vs. Girlfriend's Grief

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Internet Investigation

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Mother's Mild Intervention

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Friendship Faction

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Anonymity Attempt

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Surgery Solo: When Love Takes a Backseat to Family

In a twist that's left the internet ablaze, Stacey's partner chose an extended family visit over being there for her surgery. Despite planning the surgery around his schedule, he felt a childhood memory of quick recovery was enough to justify his absence. But with Stacey's doctors recommending post-op care and her mother stepping in with a gentle plea, we're left wondering where the line between self-care and selfishness is drawn. As friends take sides and the drama unfolds, it's clear this isn't just about tonsils – it's about priorities, promises, and the pain of feeling second-best. 😕💬👀 Let's dive into the top responses that have everyone weighing in on this relationship riddle.

YTA- Let me count the ways... You suck, be better 😀

TimeForCaffeine | TimeForCaffeine

YTA for prioritizing a 4-week trip over your partner's major surgery 😕

AMerrickanGirl | AMerrickanGirl

Dump him, Stacey! The comment section is on fire 🔥

MaddyKet | MaddyKet

Commitment matters, but consider her safety and feelings too. 😐

AthleticQueer | AthleticQueer

Choosing family over GF's surgery? YTA! Kids bounce back fast.

WineOrDeath | WineOrDeath

Abandoning your girlfriend post-surgery for family? YTA, a**hole.

loloannd | loloannd

You promised to be there for her surgery. Cut the cord much? 🤔

CompetitiveStick6239 | CompetitiveStick6239

Choosing vacation over girlfriend's surgery? YTA, and she deserves better 😔

Similar_Pineapple418 | Similar_Pineapple418

Supportive comments sharing similar surgery experiences and recovery challenges. 😐

Doggers1968 | Doggers1968

YTA. Commitment broken, drama over support. Can he redeem himself? 🤔

TyrannasaurusRecked | TyrannasaurusRecked

Choosing vacation over GF's surgery? YTA. Support matters. 🙄

Puzzled_Juice_3406 | Puzzled_Juice_3406

Choosing vacation over GF's surgery? YTA! She needs you.

jana_kane | jana_kane

Backing out of supporting her surgery last minute is awful 😡

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Backing out of GF's surgery for vacation? YTA. Captain Unreliable 😒

AccessibleBeige | AccessibleBeige

Choosing family over partner's surgery? YTA, lacking support and empathy 😒

Mr_Ham_Man80 | Mr_Ham_Man80

Ignoring doctor's advice for GF's surgery makes you a**hole 😑

captainkaiju | captainkaiju

Stacy, it's time to make a tough decision! 😮

Objective-Law-54 | Objective-Law-54

Flying back ASAP is crucial, hope she forgives you 🙏

puppypeets | puppypeets

Cancelled vacation for GF's surgery, labeled YTA, with detailed explanation.

Otherwise_Window | Otherwise_Window

Supportive comments needed, recovery is tough. Show empathy and understanding.

AliLondonMcM | AliLondonMcM

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