A House Divided: When Love, Friendship and a Guest Room Collide 💔🏠

Diply Social Team
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Meet our homeowner, a 30-year-old woman, deeply in love with her girlfriend and eager to take their relationship to the next level. But there's a twist - her friend and current roommate isn't quite ready to share the space with the girlfriend. The roommate's discomfort has nothing to do with the girlfriend's behavior or attitudes, but rather an unexplained feeling of unease. 🤔💔 Let's dive into this intriguing tale of love, friendship, and the unexpected challenges of cohabitation.

A Homeowner, A Girlfriend, and A Roommate

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A Friend in Need

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The Uncomfortable Request

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The Search for a Reason

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The Homeowner's Stand

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The Emotional Outburst

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The Unexpected Revelation

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The Emotional Rollercoaster

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The Path to Resolution

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The Future Looks Bright

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A Night of Healing

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A Tale of Unrequited Love, Friendship, and Thin Walls 🏠💔

Our homeowner's life takes an unexpected turn when her roommate confesses to being in love with her since college. The discomfort around the girlfriend was not about her, but about the roommate's unrequited love and a storm of emotions. After a heart-to-heart talk, tears, laughter, and a lot of ice cream, they reach an understanding. The roommate will seek professional help for her emotional turmoil, and the girlfriend will continue to visit, albeit with a newfound awareness of the thin walls. Let's see how the internet reacts to this unique situation.

Roommate's jealousy and possible feelings for OP or girlfriend 💔

BeebeeYotch | BeebeeYotch

Bet on your roommate's crush? NTA, let your gf come over

FORESKIN_KING | FORESKIN_KING

Engaging in drama and nonsense, can't wait for the reveal! 😂

StAlvis | StAlvis

Friend's discomfort with OP's girlfriend remains unexplained. NTA.

snicketysnackety | snicketysnackety

Jealous friend needs to deal with her own issues 🙅

Jetro99 | Jetro99

NTA. Roommate's strange behavior suggests romantic feelings for OP. 💔

Clydefr0g8 | Clydefr0g8

NTA. Your house, your rules. Let her be mad 😎

DwightDEisenhowitzer | DwightDEisenhowitzer

Roommate's motives questioned. Possible financial, personal, or hormonal issues at play.

bouganvilea25 | bouganvilea25

NTA: You're not the a-hole, but is your roommate?

TogarSucks | TogarSucks

Entitled houseguest causing drama. Time to set some boundaries. 🙌

spicybEtch212 | spicybEtch212

Jealous friend? Red flags waving. Be suspicious. NTA! 👍

GloryIV | GloryIV

NTA. Roommate needs to chill and stop being entitled 🙄

archaeoloshe | archaeoloshe

Roommate uncomfortable? Find a new place! 🙌

teresajs | teresajs

NTA- No reason given, no banning the gf 👏

VerdeEyed | VerdeEyed

Friend's behavior may be related to personal issues or privacy concerns 🙏

onawingandaswear | onawingandaswear

You're NTA for setting boundaries in your own home. 🏠

The_Amazing_Ammmy | The_Amazing_Ammmy

Choose your side: girlfriend or friend? Privacy is at stake.

Mandarinette | Mandarinette

Questioning one's own actions in a complicated living situation 😕

bandit3288 | bandit3288

Evicting her would be extreme, but things did get weird 😳

jackytheripper1 | jackytheripper1

Real friends don't ask for this 👍

cinnamngrl | cinnamngrl

"Uncomfy"? The awkwardness of repeated discomfort in this comment section. 😳

gnomewife | gnomewife

Roommate drama: NTA, but someone needs to move out 😱

mouse22222 | mouse22222

Defending your love: NTA, your home, your rules! 💔

SomeoneSomewhere1984 | SomeoneSomewhere1984

Take charge of your house! NTA 🏡

Niraena | Niraena

No good reason? Let's hear the juicy details! 🤪

Aqua-Regis | Aqua-Regis

Own the house, own the rules! NTA for inviting GF! 💔

BoundaryStompingMIL | BoundaryStompingMIL

NTA. Friend's transphobia may be masking her own feelings 😐

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NTA, give her a formal eviction notice to end the misery 🚫

ScammerC | ScammerC

NTA, but a complex situation that needs open and honest communication 👍

Queen_beeeeee | Queen_beeeeee

Roommate crush causing jealousy? NTA, but prepare for fallout 💔

DeadlyDomi | DeadlyDomi

Living rent-free? Definitely NTA! 🏠💸

Frenchie1001 | Frenchie1001

Roommate drama: irrationality, secrets, and guest room tensions 🤷‍♀️

MyBoldestStroke | MyBoldestStroke

NTA. Your house, your rules. Roommate needs to deal with it 👍

orangefreezepop | orangefreezepop

Clear communication is key in avoiding unnecessary conflicts. 📱

greenprotomullet | greenprotomullet

A potential love triangle? NTA, but is there more? 💔

PlushieTushie | PlushieTushie

🔥 Drama Alert: Manipulative houseguest causing chaos. Time to take action!

fakesloover | fakesloover

Mysterious events and secretive friends - what's really going on? 🤔

brewerybitch | brewerybitch

🚫 NTA. Bizarre behavior! Ask 'roommate' to move out ASAP! 😬

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Roommate's discomfort with girlfriend stems from unfamiliarity and jealousy. 🙅

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"NTA. Roommate's overreaction might be due to unrequited feelings 💔"

distracted_x | distracted_x

NTA. Roommate needs to get over herself and move out. 🙄

aarbelai25 | aarbelai25

Roommate drama: NTA, beggars can't be choosers 🙏

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Roommate doesn't pay rent, but wants to control guests. NTA! 👏

releasethe_mccracken | releasethe_mccracken

Roommate's jealousy? Drama in the house! 😱

IndividualDismal1722 | IndividualDismal1722

Evicting the roommate? Not the a**hole! 🙌

Mike06110815 | Mike06110815

Supportive comment about transitioning and understanding roommate's struggles. ❤️

Jerkrollatex | Jerkrollatex

NTA post gets boring, stop saying “uncomfy” 😒

OhOkYeahSureGreat | OhOkYeahSureGreat

Heartwarming update makes this NTA comment a must-read 💔

FinitoHere | FinitoHere

Love triangle resolved! 🥰 Friendship and romance prevail in the end.

PonderWhoIAm | PonderWhoIAm

Your home, your rules! 🏡 Stand your ground, NTA!

AstroBoyTurf | AstroBoyTurf

NTA. Boot your roommate. No progress without honesty. Treat yourself 💁‍♀️

My_reddit_throwawy | My_reddit_throwawy

Roommate in love? Awkward! Time to find new living arrangements 😅

Feeling-better2day | Feeling-better2day

Confusion over OP's roommate's discomfort with OP's lesbian girlfriend 😔

Mirewen15 | Mirewen15

Roommate drama? 🤔 Secrets, crushes, and trust issues revealed!

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No rent, no say! NTA holds all the power 👏

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Commenter questions OP's self-doubt, advises self-reflection and self-compassion. 🤔

Kamikaze_Bacon | Kamikaze_Bacon

Not the a**hole. Share your story of love and friendship clash! 💔

headoftheasylum | headoftheasylum

NTA. Awkward situation with a friend crashing at your place 🤷‍♀️

evhanne | evhanne

Living rent-free but dictating guests? Not cool. NTA 👍

anngrn | anngrn

Open-mindedness is key to resolving conflicts. 👍

chiropterra | chiropterra

Not the a**hole. What happened? Tell us more! 😮

dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle

Hidden secrets? NTA, but something's fishy 🤔

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