Surprise Houseguest: When Love, Loyalty, and Leases Collide 🏠💔

Diply Social Team
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Imagine living peacefully with your partner, and then one day, you're blindsided by an unexpected houseguest. No, it's not a long-lost friend or a distant cousin, but your partner's mother, complete with all her belongings! 😲 This is the predicament one woman found herself in, leading to a heated argument and a truckload of tension. Let's dive into this dramatic tale of surprise moves, miscommunication, and the question of who really calls the shots at home. 🏠💔

A Peaceful Coexistence Shattered 💔

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The Unexpected Houseguest 🚚

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The Bombshell 💣

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Confusion and Conflict 😕

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The Ultimatum 😡

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The Homeowner's Dilemma 🏠

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A Question of Respect and Communication 🗣️

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The Boyfriend's Defense 😤

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The Drive Home 🚗

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The Silent Treatment 😶

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The Root of the Issue 🌳

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The Final Question ❓

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When Home Sweet Home Turns Sour 🍋

In a whirlwind of events, our homeowner found herself in the middle of a domestic drama. She thought she was offering a temporary refuge to her boyfriend's mother, only to discover she was expected to become a long-term landlord! 😱 With her boyfriend's lack of communication and his mother's sudden move, she felt disrespected and blindsided. As she grapples with her feelings, she questions her reaction to the whole ordeal. Was she too harsh or justified in her response? Let's see what the world thinks about this unexpected houseguest hullabaloo... 🌍💭

NTA. Houseguest's secret living arrangement leads to eviction 😱

Naughtyexperiences | Naughtyexperiences

NTA for kicking out partner; turned it around on me 😒

alrightbrother | alrightbrother

NTA. They planned this. They knew you would not be OK with it and they decided to lie to you. That is not OK and they lies prove he knew it was not OK. If they are willing to pull this crap then you can do better for a BF. 💔

MasterK999 | MasterK999

NTA. Your bf's surprise houseguest is a major violation 😱

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NTA, your manipulative boyfriend and his surprise houseguest 😱

worldundertwisted | worldundertwisted

Stunned silence after a trick move - is this a dealbreaker? 😳

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

BF's surprise houseguest: NTA, extremely inconsiderate and disrespectful 😒

cstatus94 | cstatus94

NTA. Inconsiderate houseguests and a disrespectful boyfriend. Time for a talk! 💔

Cyrinne | Cyrinne

NTA. Grotesque behavior should not be tolerated 🙅

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

🚫 NTA: Surprise houseguest? Time for them both to move out!

teresajs | teresajs

Dump them both! 👎 Your BF's mommy comes first! 👮

loulou160616 | loulou160616

🐮 NTA! Angry for you. Manipulative BF and houseguest. Set boundaries! 💔

DiscoPartyMuffin | DiscoPartyMuffin

NTA, but now you're in for a difficult eviction battle! 😱

milee30 | milee30

🚫 Don't let her in! Set boundaries now to avoid trouble later.

sirharryflashman | sirharryflashman

NTA. Lack of communication and respect for your generosity 🙅

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NTA, but why lie? Communication and honesty are key ✉️

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Know your tenant laws! Give her a tight deadline 👍

wind-river7 | wind-river7

NTA. Kick them out. Can I move in too? 😂

jaywinner | jaywinner

NTA - Kick her out ASAP, consider ending the relationship 👎


Manipulative partner: NTA, break free and stay strong! 💔

themadhatterwasright | themadhatterwasright

"NTA. Your whole life will revolve around him and his mom. Sit down and have a serious talk about your privacy and future together. 🏠💔"

jimsmythee | jimsmythee

🚩 NTA. Boyfriend acting entitled, lied to his mother. Consider leaving.

airinnnn_n | airinnnn_n

They planned this behind your back. Your house, your rules. 💔

Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama

OP's boyfriend tricked her into letting his mom move in 😱 NTA

friendlily | friendlily

Evict them both! NTA. 🚩

ooo-a-throwaway | ooo-a-throwaway

Unilateral invasion of your house? NTA, that's plain rude 😠

bihan_diablo | bihan_diablo

Gender stereotypes and mama's boy - not great boyfriend material 🙄

phdoofus | phdoofus

BF's mom moves in unannounced, BF manipulates, OP holds the cards 😎

concretism | concretism

You got sandbagged! Set boundaries before it gets worse 😱

bunnypxr5 | bunnypxr5

BF deceives OP to move his mother in. NTA. Big deal 😱

scout1982 | scout1982

"NTA. Kick them both out and find a new boyfriend." 💔

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🤬 Outrageous houseguest situation! You have every right to be pissed off!

alrightbrother | alrightbrother

Boyfriend's mom overstays welcome, time for a reality check! 😈

st_ukufu_tinporta | st_ukufu_tinporta

NTA. Be careful, she might trap you with a pregnancy 😱

UltraCuteOfDeath | UltraCuteOfDeath

NTA. Run. 👏

D3712 | D3712

Stand up for yourself! It's time to have that talk. 👊

flashaahahaah | flashaahahaah

NTA, but watch out for being a doormat 🙉

tpondering | tpondering

Dump his a**! Love, loyalty, and leases collide 💔

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NTA: Kick them both out, it won't get better 🚫🧳

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

NTA. Find a new place or your bf can leave 💔

B0r0B1rd | B0r0B1rd

NTA. Kick him out and bring his mom too! 😊

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🤬 You don't owe her housing. Your BF disrespected you. NTA.

Luminous_Echidna | Luminous_Echidna

Heartless or Justified? Choosing between Love and Loyalty 💔

wacko-warlock | wacko-warlock

Boyfriend's surprise houseguest? NTA! You deserve better 💔

Mirianda666 | Mirianda666

NTA. Being cheerful doesn't make you an a**hole 😊

HighPriest2012 | HighPriest2012

NTA - Don't let her become a tenant! Time to talk.

monsignorbabaganoush | monsignorbabaganoush

NTA. Seeking support from online communities for relationship advice. 💔

nikflip | nikflip

Congrats, you got played! Set boundaries or move out 💔

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

🚫 NTA: Kick them both out! No love, no loyalty.

sophieinaus | sophieinaus

NTA but r/JUSTNOSO might help with your SO problem 😉

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🚩 Trust issues: BF's changing stories about his mother's stay.

tquinn04 | tquinn04

🚫🏠 Kick them out ASAP! What a nightmare situation!

goodvibess2020 | goodvibess2020

NTA, your bf lied and snuck his mom in, 💔

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Stand up for yourself and show your boyfriend who's boss! 💪

MiaOh | MiaOh

NTA for paying mortgage. Boyfriend freeloading and taking advantage 😡

Marie1420 | Marie1420

NTA for not sticking up for yourself, have a stern talk with your boyfriend. 💔

rustyshackleford1301 | rustyshackleford1301

NTA: Kick her out! No one wants family overstaying 🙄

Vitruvian_man21 | Vitruvian_man21

Supportive comment. OP is not the a**hole. 👏

thatssallfolkss | thatssallfolkss

NTA. Boundaries matter. Discussing guests is crucial for harmony. 🙌

jdragonz | jdragonz

Dump him! NTA, kick them both out 💔

RedWomanZ | RedWomanZ

Know your rights! NTA, but check tenancy laws first. 💪

Cosmic42Otter | Cosmic42Otter

Protect your space! Take charge and reclaim your special place. ✊

Neon_litez | Neon_litez

NTA- Set boundaries with a written agreement and confront your bf 🚨

The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username

NTA. Boyfriend's disrespect and manipulation. Time to cut ties. 💔

ghostforest | ghostforest

NTA, protect yourself legally and end the situation promptly 🚨

gaysaucemage | gaysaucemage

NTA! Kick them out and let them figure it out! 👊

sylkyn | sylkyn

Gaslighting partner? 🤔 Protect your home from potential squatters! 🚨

alt-tuna | alt-tuna

NTA, charge rent, kick them out! 🚫👍

Azas23 | Azas23

Know your rights: Research tenancy laws before it's too late! 🛠

rescuesquad704 | rescuesquad704

Shocking surprise houseguest! Unbelievable story of love and betrayal 🤯

myscreamgotlost | myscreamgotlost

NTA: Kick them out and let them be homeless together 😷

mira-on-the-wall | mira-on-the-wall

NTA, time for a fresh start without the drama 💔

CountrySax | CountrySax

Dump his a** 👎

TemporaryTortellini | TemporaryTortellini

Take control of your house and find a better partner 💔

agiantaloeplant | agiantaloeplant

"NTA. Nobody should move in without 100% agreement from both."

nightmareonelmm | nightmareonelmm

NTA. Make sure she leaves before she gains tenant rights! 🚫

made_you_think | made_you_think

Protecting my sanctuary: kicking disrespectful bf out 😡

Frozen_Twinkies | Frozen_Twinkies

NTA: Evict them both! 👋

cunthead11113030 | cunthead11113030

🏠 Unexpected houseguest sparks tension and questions about boundaries.

QueenBee0414 | QueenBee0414

A week's stay was too much? Not the a**hole here! 😂

bekahed979 | bekahed979

NTA. Take charge and set boundaries. Avoid a messy situation! 🙌

greenhouse5 | greenhouse5

NTA. Dude planned on moving HIS mother into YOUR house 😱

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OP's BF secretly moved his mom in without her consent 😱

gobsmacked247 | gobsmacked247

BF's disrespectful move: Set a firm date or face indefinite stay 😡

Dana07620 | Dana07620

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