We all have that one friend who’s dating someone we just don’t get. But how far would you go to express your puzzlement? One woman’s quest to understand her friend’s choice of partner led to a dramatic fallout that has left her questioning her actions.
A Friend in Denial
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The ‘Perfect’ Man and His ‘Imperfect’ Wife
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The Unseen Charm?
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The Unreciprocated Hints
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The Pregnancy Effect
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The Uncomfortable Video Call
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The Unavoidable Question
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The Unexpected Response
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The Aftermath ️
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A Friendship on the Rocks over a Love She Can’t Understand
In a tale as old as time, our protagonist finds herself in a whirlwind of drama after questioning her friend’s choice of partner. She sees a mismatched couple, he sees love. After a tense video call and a series of harsh judgments, she’s left blocked and bewildered. ♀️ Now, she’s facing backlash from her friends and grappling with the possibility of losing a cherished friendship. Let’s dive into the top responses from the internet to this tangled web of love, friendship, and judgment…
“I’d be open to dating him”
“He’s never caught any hints”
YTA, get over yourself.
YTA for judging his wife’s looks and meddling in their relationship

YTBAE – You’re the biggest a-hole ever! Don’t be jealous.

YTA comment shames wife, but others defend her with fire
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YTA for trolling or lusting after someone who clearly rejects you

YTA for being bitter and trying to break up a marriage

“YTA. That’s his PREGNANT wife and you’re dropping hints? “

Love lost: The painful realization of never truly having someone.
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Envious commenter judges someone’s relationship based on looks. YTA

“YTA: Beauty fades. Stupidity is forever.” ♀️

“YTA, unless you’re a troll.” A fiery exchange of insults.

Trolling or not, YTA. Harsh judgments abound.
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Envious much? Your low blow towards his pregnant wife is despicable.

YTA 100%. Life isn’t all about looks

Envy and bitterness led to a harsh judgment. YTA

Nice guys finish last, but what about the elusive “nice girl”?
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Jealousy and judgment: YTA insults her, support your friend instead

Jealousy and pettiness make YTA uglier than a double chin

Jealousy turns friend into a**hole. No second chances.

YTA: Married man, bad friend, and unrequited love drama.

Unmasking the Troll: Is OP’s behavior too outrageous to be true?

YTA: Jealousy, insults, and possessiveness – a toxic friendship ♀️

Jealousy? Not a good look.
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“Oh, honey. You’re learning that some people are put on this Earth for purely decorative purposes, and you might be one of them. YTA, 100%.”

YTA gets called out for his lack of self-awareness

YTA, you’re jealous and bitter. Let them enjoy their happiness

YTA: A troll’s oblivious and rude comment seeks negative attention

Heartbreak: Accepting rejection and moving on.

Don’t be a jealous ex! Beauty is in the eye
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Jealousy and harsh judgments: YTA for disrespecting their relationship

“YTA and a legbeard.” A female “nice guy”.

Friendship or something more? The YTA’s secret desires revealed!

Gender confusion, obsession, and harsh judgment. YTA, obviously.

Insanity in the comment section!

YTA. Mind your own business and let him be happy.

Mind your own business and let him be happy

A troll spreads negativity in the comment section

Obvious troll, let’s downvote this shit!

YTA. Disrespecting his relationship? You’re making a fool of yourself!

YTA wants to break up friend’s marriage for personal gain

Jealousy blinds you to her happiness. Accept and move on.

Judgmental commenter receives backlash for harsh and biased opinions.

Engaging comment: A**hole judgment vs. genuine curiosity

Your friend’s wife is ugly? Well, your soul is uglier!

“YTA. You asked someone what they saw in their SPOUSE.”

Different definitions of beauty? Maybe he sees more than you

Commenter is exhausted by the OP’s behavior.

Predictable rejection: YTA for not giving him a chance.

A scathing judgment on the OP’s questionable actions and character.

Skeptical reader questions the authenticity of the article.

Toxicity alert! YTA for not letting him be happy

“STFU and don’t ever ask them this…..aww crap. You already did.”

The ultimate troll: a masterclass in trolling

YTA – A serious accusation sparks disbelief and intrigue.

A messy love triangle with harsh judgments. YTA for sure

YTA. Your ugly behavior is jealousy. Be happy for them!

Insensitive comments about looks can cost you friendships.

Envious judgment: YTA for sure, they’re happy.
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A troll wreaks havoc in the comment section

Harsh judgment! YTA gets called out for ugliness inside.

“He’s never caught any hints” Honey, he caught them. He just didn’t want you.

Bruh, YTA. No explanation needed.
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Gender swapped nice guy post? YTA, harsh judgments
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YTA: Your superficial beliefs have cost you a loving family.

Doubting the authenticity of online posts? Welcome to the internet!

Blocked for being a jealous, shallow YTA. Good riddance!
