Sister Plans Daring Escape from Religious Mission for Brother: Heroic or Meddling?

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Picture this: you're 19, studying at a university, and you've just discovered a shocking secret - your 16-year-old brother doesn't want to follow the religious path your devout parents have laid out for him. He's expected to embark on a two-year religious mission, a tradition he's dreading. You're the only one he's confided in, and you're torn. Do you help him escape his impending fate, risking your parents' wrath and possibly your relationship with your younger siblings? Or do you stand by and watch him walk a path he doesn't want to tread? This is the dilemma faced by one young woman, who's now asking: is she wrong for wanting to help her brother? 🤔👫

The Family's Religious Background

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A Change of Beliefs

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The Pressure of Expectations

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A Brother's Secret

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The Escape Plan

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Facing the Consequences

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The Moral Dilemma

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The Ultimate Question

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A Sister's Dilemma: To Save or Not to Save?

Caught in a whirlwind of faith, familial expectations, and personal beliefs, our protagonist, a 19-year-old student, is faced with a heart-wrenching decision. Her younger brother, expected to embark on a two-year religious mission he dreads, has confided his fears in her. She's hatched a daring plan to help him escape, but the consequences could be severe. Their devout parents would be furious, and she risks losing contact with her younger siblings. Yet, she believes no one should be forced into life-altering decisions against their will. Now, she's left wondering if her planned interference is the right thing to do. 😮👫💔

"NTA. Once financially independent, parents will limit contact anyway. 📝"

too-cute-by-half | too-cute-by-half

NTA. Empathizing with the situation and offering practical advice. 👍

rayray394 | rayray394

NTA. Missionary experiences can be stressful, indoctrinating, and financially burdensome. 💪

bridewiththeowls | bridewiththeowls

NTA, Plan ahead to protect siblings. Good luck! 🤞

Desert_Fairy | Desert_Fairy

Helping brother escape religious mission: NTA, freedom of choice 🙌

SoMuchMoreEagle | SoMuchMoreEagle

Former Mormon RM shares the harsh reality of missionary life 😔

DM-Mormon-Underwear | DM-Mormon-Underwear

Helping brother escape religious mission: NTA, but prepare for consequences ✊

Watcher2727 | Watcher2727

NTA. Convincing parents for gap year before mission. r/exmormon can help.

RoseTyler38 | RoseTyler38

NTA. Plan ahead and be prepared for potential obstacles 💪

Titanchu | Titanchu

NTA: Parents' religious pressure on brother sparks supportive discussion. 👏

ThexGreatxBeyondx | ThexGreatxBeyondx

NTA, help your brother escape religious mission without blame. 💪

the_witch_askew | the_witch_askew

Supportive sibling plans daring escape for brother, but faces consequences 😮

Thrwforksandknives | Thrwforksandknives

Supportive sibling helps brother avoid religious mission with clever plan ✨

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Mormons: Heroic or Meddling? NTA for helping brother escape 🙌

musiclovingcat | musiclovingcat

Supportive sibling offers escape from unwanted religious mission 🙌

lordcdp | lordcdp

NTA! Check out r/exmormon for helpful planning and support! 🙌

dogsaregreat6 | dogsaregreat6

Exmo's plea to save brother from religious mission resonates deeply.

bella0520 | bella0520

NTA. Parents are insane, controlling, and verbally abusive. Hang in there 👏

JustHereForTheLauf | JustHereForTheLauf

NTA. Plan ahead to support yourself and help your brother. 👍

partylupone | partylupone

Empathetic outsider supports sister's plan to save brother from mission.

BaddestPatsy | BaddestPatsy

Supportive sibling offers escape plan for brother's religious mission 🚀

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Devout member supports sister's escape from religious mission. Parents are crazy.

Quarky-Beartooth | Quarky-Beartooth

👏 Good on you for rescuing him from that racist cult!

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Escaped Mormon empathizes with sibling's daring escape from religious mission ✊

libymamas | libymamas

NTA. Brother's escape plan: job, savings, parental control challenge. Help!

terrapharma | terrapharma

NTA, prepare for a shitshow and becoming pariahs to your family.

ShaktinCO | ShaktinCO

Unspoken mission of religious missions: Retaining, not recruiting members. 🤔

Elfich47 | Elfich47

👏 Helping a brother escape a cult. You're a hero! 👏

LucretiusCarus | LucretiusCarus

Seek advice from your mom's sister who has firsthand experience! ✨

TheRealOdd | TheRealOdd

🙌 Helping someone escape a cult: heroic or meddling?

jtho2960 | jtho2960

NTA: A challenging situation for all. Encourage independence and explore options. ✊

cocoagiant | cocoagiant

NTA! Escape religious mission, protect brother from financial prison. Good luck! 👏

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Supporting a sibling's religious mission against judgmental parents. 💪

littleducky08 | littleducky08

NTA: Build a support system, secure important documents, and stay strong 💪

eboneau | eboneau

Helping sibling escape cult: heroic or meddling? You decide! 💪

thrwayjust4uridiocy | thrwayjust4uridiocy

Escaping religious mission: NTA stands up for religious freedom! ✊🙌

andersenWilde | andersenWilde

Ex-JW supports delaying mission to help younger brother. NTA!

Yesadejess | Yesadejess

NTA: Daring escape from religious mission, going out with a bang!

BardicInclination | BardicInclination

NTA. Reach out to your aunt for possible assistance. 🙌

Louriox | Louriox

🏃‍♀️ Prepare for the worst, save up, and stay strong! 💪

SuluSpeaks | SuluSpeaks

Sneaky sibling plots college escape for brother's mission success! ✨

harnort | harnort

Escaping religious mission: NTA's grateful bond with sister ❤️

thisstickofgum | thisstickofgum

NTA. Brave escape from religious mission for brother. Choose your path 👍

Ermithecow | Ermithecow

Supporting brother's escape from religious mission despite potential family conflict. ✊

briannaellison | briannaellison

NTA. You're an awesome sister! 🌟 Good luck to you both!

Toirneach | Toirneach

NTA: Respect your brother's agency, but consider talking to parents.

miriamec | miriamec

Escape from a cult: Prayers and support for a daring rescue ✊🙏

crittersmama19 | crittersmama19

🤫 A daring plan to rescue a brother from a religious mission

anna-nomally12 | anna-nomally12

Supportive ex-Mormon shares personal experience and encourages sister's intervention. 👏

micmac5454 | micmac5454

Escape from religious mission: NTA, do what you can! ✊

ichbinschizophren | ichbinschizophren

NTA. Escaping religious mission, sibling support, Utah beauty. 👏

Moosestacheio | Moosestacheio

NTA: Help your brother escape religious mission, seek support from others.

MyBroPoohBear | MyBroPoohBear

Be a hero and help your brother escape! 🦸‍♂️

Cabbibal420 | Cabbibal420

Supportive comment from fellow cult survivor, wishing them well! ✨

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NTA. Helping someone escape a cult: a heroic act 👏

HRHArgyll | HRHArgyll

👏 NTA - Be the hero and save your brother!

historyguru1776 | historyguru1776

NTA plans escape, sets up secret communication for younger siblings 🚀

Txidpeony | Txidpeony

📱 Give your siblings a lifeline and escape religious pressure. #NTA

drakeotomy | drakeotomy

🙏 Help him escape the cult! He needs your heroic intervention!


NTA, brave escape from religious mission; doing so much good! ✊

blackshuckart | blackshuckart

Supporting brother's religious freedom, but careful planning is crucial. 👍

kostis12345 | kostis12345

Supportive comment encourages sibling to escape religious mission 🏃‍♂️

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🆘 Help your brother escape a cult-like religious mission! 🏃‍♂️

Radman25426 | Radman25426

Understanding the struggle of escaping a strict religious environment. 💚

myleftboobisaphlsphr | myleftboobisaphlsphr

Escape from cult: NTA! Get out while you can! 🏃‍♂️

CuntfaceMcgoober | CuntfaceMcgoober

Empathy for siblings understanding parents' irrationality and supporting their brother.

WatInTheForest | WatInTheForest

Mormonism: Cult or Choice? NTA's heroic escape plan sparks debate.

Charley_Goji | Charley_Goji

Supportive ex-mo encourages sibling to escape oppressive religious mission ✊

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Escaping religious mission: Be a hero, prioritize children's safety! NTA 👏

BroadswordEpic | BroadswordEpic

Escaping the Mormon cult: A heroic rescue mission for freedom! ✊

spicydropout | spicydropout

🌍🙅 Forced religious missions: Nightmarish interviews and random locations. Support matters.

YoungFoott | YoungFoott

Rescuing siblings from a cult? 🆘 NTA, but stay safe!

ashweee43 | ashweee43

USA Mormons vs. Local Mormons: Who's More Hardcore? 🤔

Diegostein | Diegostein

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