The Great Roommate Debate: Dad Refuses Daughter's Request to Share Room with Boyfriend on Family Vacation 🏖️

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Imagine planning a family vacation, only to have it turn into a heated debate over room assignments. This is the predicament one father found himself in when his adult daughter insisted on sharing a room with her boyfriend during their family holiday. As the one footing the bill, the dad stands firm on his decision, but his daughter believes he's treating her 'like a child.' Let's dive into this family drama that's got everyone talking. 🎭

The Family Vacation Plan 🌴

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The Boyfriend in Question 💑

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The Roommate Request 🛏️

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The Daughter's Counter-Argument 🗣️

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Dad's Firm Stand 🚫

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The Unmarried Clause 💍

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The Financial Ultimatum 💰

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Mom's Take on the Matter 👩

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The Final Verdict 👨‍⚖️

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The Room Arrangements Explained 🏨

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The 'No Sex Time' Clause 🚫💏

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Dad's Rules or No Vacation: The Roommate Dilemma 🏖️🔥

In a world where traditional values meet modern expectations, one dad finds himself at the center of a fiery debate. His adult daughter, eager to share a room with her long-term boyfriend during a family vacation, is met with a firm 'no.' The dad, who's footing the bill, insists on separate rooms unless the couple is married, sparking an intense family conflict. Despite his daughter's protests, the dad stands his ground, asserting his rules apply under his roof or in a hotel he's paying for. His wife sides with him, but their daughter feels they're treating her 'like a child.' As the holiday approaches, the question remains - will the daughter accept her dad's rules or opt out of the vacation? 🤔

"YTA. She's 23 and has been dating him since she was 20. A family trip is not going to be the deciding factor in whether or not they have sex. You're setting expensive boundaries solely so you don't have to deal with the thought of your adult daughter having a sex life." - 🔥 Sparks fly as commenters debate parental boundaries!

wobblebase | wobblebase

"YTA. She's an adult, been with the guy for years 😱"

EmeraldJonah | EmeraldJonah

Dad, it's 2021! Let your adult daughter live her life! 🙌

GearsRollo80 | GearsRollo80

"YTA. Stupid hill to die on. Encouraging sneaking around. 😂"

bugsdoingthings | bugsdoingthings

"YTA. Parents are hypocrites. Let her be with her partner. 💔"

stienbabe | stienbabe

INFO: Have you told your wife this is a family trip?

PositivelyTruth | PositivelyTruth

Controlling dad refuses daughter's request to share room with boyfriend 😡

Valakris | Valakris

"But she IS our child..." - Dad refuses to let 23-year-old daughter share room with boyfriend on vacation. YTA 😱

thepolishurbanlegend | thepolishurbanlegend

🤔 Treating the boyfriend as a future son-in-law matters. Think twice.

zugzwang_03 | zugzwang_03

YTA. Dad's traditional values clash with daughter's independence. 👮

WorldlyDrawer | WorldlyDrawer

"YTA. Let them share a room, it's not a sex-cation! 😳"

footfaceball | footfaceball

Outdated views? YTA gets called out for room-sharing refusal 😱

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

YTA. Ageism and immaturity accusations fly in heated comment section! 👊

Josella-Playton | Josella-Playton

Dad's in for a surprise 🙈 when his daughter finds out

firefighter_chick | firefighter_chick

Dad's overprotectiveness jeopardizes relationship with daughter and boyfriend 🙅

yodiggitydonut | yodiggitydonut

YTA, respect her privacy and her long-term relationship. 🙅

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"YTA They are adults. Three years into a relationship. They are having sex. She's not a child. Someone is going to screenshot this and it will show up under r/insaneparents because you are acting insane." 💥🔥

reddirtanddiamonds | reddirtanddiamonds

Expect the unexpected on this family vacation. 😳

xanif | xanif

YTA for not considering your daughter's comfort and safety 😠

AzraelHC | AzraelHC

Respecting traditional families, NTA for separate rooms on vacation. 👏

can_i_change_this_ | can_i_change_this_

Real issue: cramming 2 nieces, nephew, son in one room 😫

ur_not_cool | ur_not_cool

YTA. Let them enjoy their privacy and relationship 💔

CupilCutlass | CupilCutlass

"YTA. Your rules are dumb and archaic 🙄"

LaCienegaBoulevard | LaCienegaBoulevard

Dad's overprotective? Let her be! 🙄

Marrsvolta | Marrsvolta

"Playing house" obsession? Let her be, YTA. 🙄

chiquitabrujita | chiquitabrujita

YTA for disrespecting your daughter's relationship and treating her like a child. 👎

Maerchenmord | Maerchenmord

Curious about the dad's double standards and restrictions on daughter

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YTA for making her stay with her 18 yo brother 🙄

DandyWarlocks | DandyWarlocks

YTA. Ridiculous? Let's see what others have to say...

Bug_squished | Bug_squished

Parent's strict rules strained relationship with daughter and her partner 💔

chipsnsalsa13 | chipsnsalsa13

YTA. Let your daughter make her own decisions! 🙌

GoatGoatGadget | GoatGoatGadget

YTA. Let them decompress together. It's about their relationship 💑

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Does sharing a room with a boyfriend mean extra costs? 🤔

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Dad's refusal to let daughter share room sparks heated debate 😱

vaskebj00rn | vaskebj00rn

"Dad, YTA. Let your daughter live her life. 🙅🏼"

NorthernLivin | NorthernLivin

Sharing a room with family instead of boyfriend? Awkward! 😬

lesbian_moose | lesbian_moose

"YTA. Doing it in a house full of family? Ew! 😷"

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"YTA. Can't control her anymore. Let her make her own decisions 🙄"

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YTA. Treating them like kids 👶, not inviting them 👋

Madam_Cholet | Madam_Cholet

Should they share a room? Serious relationship vs. family space. 🤔

wobblebase | wobblebase

"YTA. Time to accept she's an adult or see less of her."

KitchenCellist | KitchenCellist

"YTA. Let your ADULT daughter and her ADULT boyfriend share a room."

MasterK999 | MasterK999

Parental control or respect for adult relationships? 👨‍👩‍👦

MinionsHaveWonOne | MinionsHaveWonOne

YTA, control freak! Respect your daughter's privacy and independence! 😠

swampy_pillow | swampy_pillow

Sleeping in the same bed ≠ automatic sex. NAH.

adlittle | adlittle

"YTA. Hope she bails on the trip." 😡🚫

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Sharing a room isn't just about sex, it's about comfort and connection. 👭💖

havesomeconcealer | havesomeconcealer

Engaging comment questioning the logic of separating couples on vacation.

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"YTA. Treating adult children like irresponsible teenagers 😒👨‍👩‍👧👧👦. Cut the umbilical cord!"

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NTA. Parents and in-laws handled similar situation, no objections. Enjoy the trip and let daughter have her privacy. 💑

chalk_phallus | chalk_phallus

"YTA. If I were in her shoes, I just wouldn't go." 👠

GenericUser69143 | GenericUser69143

YTA - Daughter wants to share room with boyfriend on vacation 😒

GhostShimmer | GhostShimmer

YTA- Condescending post. Let adults live by their own rules 👍

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"YTA. Making a big deal out of nothing. Let them be."

jasminel96 | jasminel96

YTA, but they're adults and in a proper relationship 👭

Kakiston | Kakiston

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