Auntie of the Year or Selfish Sibling? Woman Refuses to Switch Work Shifts for Nephew's School Run

Diply Social Team
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Picture this: you're a young, independent woman who loves her job and the freedom that comes with not having kids. Your daily routine is just the way you like it, especially your early morning work shift. Then, out of the blue, your sister asks you to switch your beloved shift to take your nephew to school. What would you do? 🤔 Let's dive into this real-life dilemma that's stirring up quite the debate.

Living the Child-Free Life 🚫👶

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An Unexpected Call 📞

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The Proposed Solution 💡

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Uncertain Duration ⏳

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The Counteroffer 🔄

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Rejected Offer ❌

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Family Intervention 👵

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The Final Stand: Family or Freedom? 🤔

Caught in a whirlwind of family obligations and personal preferences, our early-bird heroine stands her ground, refusing to switch her work shift. She offers a compromise, but it's swiftly rejected. Now, she's facing the wrath of not just her sister, but her mom too, who believes in the power of family sacrifices. Will she cave to the pressure or continue to prioritize her freedom? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

Stand your ground! Don't let entitled family take advantage of you. 👊

Feisty_Audience_9870 | Feisty_Audience_9870

NTA: OP's job is just as important, sister needs to accept that 🙌

Caspian4136 | Caspian4136

"NTA! Don't engage with them, stick to your compromise. 👏"

TrekkerOne | TrekkerOne

NTA. You offered a solution, not your problem. 💁‍♀️

Trice316 | Trice316

NTA - Refusing to change work schedule for unnecessary childcare 👍

Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879

"Hell no, you're NTA! That is an utterly RIDICULOUS request!" 😡

leslielaughs | leslielaughs

NTA. Help offered, but she dragged your mother into this 🙄

k2d | k2d

Parents should make sacrifices for family, not just grandparents. NTA

misspoofy | misspoofy

Grandma can handle the school run if she's so concerned 😏

ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong

NTA! No kids, no responsibility. Stand your ground! 💪

Sad-Contest-82 | Sad-Contest-82

Stand your ground! 🙅‍♀️ You're not responsible for her choices. #NTA

TrayMc666 | TrayMc666

OP learns the hard way: family on info diet 😬

naraic- | naraic-

NTA. Not your kid. 🙅‍♀️

tetrisphere | tetrisphere

Generous aunt refuses entitled sister's unreasonable request. #NTA 🙅‍♀️

debdnow | debdnow

"No" is a complete sentence. 🙅‍♀️ Your sister's responsibility, not yours.

forsuresies | forsuresies

NTA. You offered a compromise, sister rejected it. 🙅‍♀️

ParticularReview4129 | ParticularReview4129

🤔 NTA: Overnight watch or independent kid? What's the deal?

CatteHerder | CatteHerder

Sister's refusal to compromise sparks debate on family sacrifices. NTA

cinderparty | cinderparty

NTA: Parent asks family for help, tattles to mom. Pathetic.

Glenn_Coco69 | Glenn_Coco69

Father needs to step up! 😱

NewfromNY | NewfromNY

NTA. Generous offer, let the parents figure it out. 👍

k1p1coder | k1p1coder

NTA, not your kid, not your problem. Sis needs to figure it out. 💁‍♀️


Father should step up. Aunt's request is unreasonable. 🤔

Odd-End-1405 | Odd-End-1405

NTA. Ryan can take his own kid to school. 🤷‍♀️

DrMindbendersMonocle | DrMindbendersMonocle

NTA 🙅 You set a boundary and maintained it. Em needs to find a different solution. 😄

Thortok2000 | Thortok2000

NTA. Stand your ground! It's not your problem! 💪

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Taking responsibility for your own children, NTA. 💪

susanbarron33 | susanbarron33

NTA. Private school, no school bus. Coddling or caring?

damoflances | damoflances

Compromise rejected. Beggars can't be choosers. 🤷‍♀️

Oldgamerlady | Oldgamerlady

NTA. Your kids, your responsibility. Your compromise was fair. 👍

trees1nthewind | trees1nthewind

NTA. Family sacrifices for each other. Em and Ryan are parents.

nope-111 | nope-111

🔥 Auntie refuses to rearrange life for entitled sister's demands. NTA!

MDKG-1974 | MDKG-1974

Nta - No a-hole here, Auntie of the Year 🌟✨

Ladykaesong | Ladykaesong

Stand your ground! 🙌 Don't rearrange your life for others!

Cat_Lilac_Dog22 | Cat_Lilac_Dog22

NTA: Your nephew, not your responsibility. Family being manipulative 👍

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NTA and perfect shift for school run, makes zero sense 🤷‍♂️

Corduroycat1 | Corduroycat1

NTA. Don't be the chauffeur! Let Timmy find his own way 🚌🚶‍♂️🚲

Triscuitmeniscus | Triscuitmeniscus

Grandma should change her schedule, not the aunt. NTA 🙅‍♀️

International-Fee255 | International-Fee255

NTA. Accommodating aunt vs. unyielding sister: Who's in the right?

xanneonomousx | xanneonomousx

Don't be an unpaid babysitter! You're NTA for refusing. 😊

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

NTA. Em needs to work harder to solve her problems 😤

Turbulent_Message637 | Turbulent_Message637

"NTA. Your sister's unrealistic expectations are a goofy AH move."

AndSoItGoes24 | AndSoItGoes24

NTA. The parents need to step up and sort out their child care. And the grandparents need to either provide alternative childcare directly, themselves, or shush up and stop trying to pressure you into doing it. 🙅‍♀️

Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda

NTA: Sister's entitlement crosses the line. Boundaries are important! 👏

travelkmac | travelkmac

NTA - Shutting up mom with volunteering. 😏

Lis4lollipop | Lis4lollipop

NTA, you said no and came up with a compromise 😎

Ok_Yesterday_6214 | Ok_Yesterday_6214

NTA - Auntie of the Year or Selfish Sibling? 🌟

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089

NTA. Not your kid, not your problem. 🤷‍♀️

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Auntie's love for niblings, but not responsible for parenting duties. 💛

217EBroadwayApt4E | 217EBroadwayApt4E

Parents need to respect others' time and find alternatives. 🙅

Smurfs_are_real | Smurfs_are_real

Mom defends refusing to switch work shifts for nephew's school run 🚫

AzraelleM | AzraelleM

NTA. Your sister's request is unreasonable. You have the right to say no.

Ok-Context1168 | Ok-Context1168

Sibling rivalry and tattling? 🙄 Definitely not the a**hole here.

kavalejava | kavalejava

NTA. Don't sacrifice for someone else's responsibility. 🙅‍♂️

journeyintopressure | journeyintopressure

Family sacrifices for each other? FFS 🙄 What is your sister sacrificing? NTA

nerdgirl71 | nerdgirl71

Sister's entitlement is astounding. You're definitely NTA in this.

hannahkelli | hannahkelli

Sibling entitlement: NTA, sister's demands and mom's enabling discussed. 😤

Broken-Butterfly-313 | Broken-Butterfly-313

NTA - Child's parents have options, not the auntie.

Fancy_Avocado7497 | Fancy_Avocado7497

NTA. Find a daycare for the nephew's school run 🚌👶

Hour_Context_99 | Hour_Context_99

NTA. You offered help, they need to figure it out. 🤷‍♀️

KickIt77 | KickIt77

Parental manipulation? NTA stands firm against sibling's demands. 🚫🔄

Shadow_84 | Shadow_84

Parenting fatigue: NTA refuses to switch work shifts for nephew

PsychologicalMonk354 | PsychologicalMonk354

NTA. Impressive offer to drive nephew, entitled sister is wrong.

Dumbfounded_brunette | Dumbfounded_brunette

NTA: Auntie refuses to switch shifts, calls out lazy dad 👏

Shnipi | Shnipi

NTA - Your time, your choice. Don't let entitlement ruin it! 👏

Leahthevagabond | Leahthevagabond

NTA: Family doesn't mean you can push off childcare 🚫👪

Typical_Phase_952 | Typical_Phase_952

Bus or bust? Dad's exhaustion vs nephew's school run 🚌

dck133 | dck133

Rare parent expects everyone to cater to their demands. NTA 🤣

tat2dbanshee | tat2dbanshee

NTA. Family sacrifices, they can take it or leave it. 💪

Signal_Historian_456 | Signal_Historian_456

Stand your ground! 🙌 NTA for prioritizing work over family.

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

NTA. You offered a solution, she turned it down. Not your problem 😎

RevolutionaryCow7961 | RevolutionaryCow7961

Mom's got this! NTA for not switching work shifts 😎

tomtomclubthumb | tomtomclubthumb

NTA, stand your ground and prioritize your own life and work 🙅‍♀️

FPFan | FPFan

NTA, not your child, not your problem. 🙅‍♀️

DBgirl83 | DBgirl83

NTA. Let Em figure out her dilemma herself. 🙄

Niccels11 | Niccels11

NTA. You're not responsible for her child. 🙅‍♂️

I_luv_sloths | I_luv_sloths

NTA. No way! The nerve to ask for a shift change!

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