Man's Dilemma: Girlfriend's Girls' Night In HIS House? 🏠💃

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Ever been in a situation where your significant other wanted to throw a party at your place...without you? 🤔 That's the conundrum facing our friend here, a 35-year-old homeowner, when his girlfriend of four months wanted to host a girls-only night at his place. She lives in a small, poorly maintained apartment, and they usually hang out at his much nicer house. But she doesn't live there, and they're not close to moving in together. So, when she asked him to make himself scarce for an evening of female bonding, he wasn't exactly thrilled...😬

The House Rules 🏠

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The Proposal 💡

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The Twist 🔄

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The Standoff 💥

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The Accusations 🤬

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The Clarifications 📝

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The Aftermath 🌪️

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The Sleepover Plan 🛏️

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The Family Connection 👨‍👦

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The House Party Standoff: Who's Right? 🏠🎉

Caught in a classic case of 'my house, my rules', our homeowner is now grappling with a girlfriend who wants to host a girls-only night at his place, sans him. She's not looking to use his resources, and she's not threatening to end their relationship over this. She just wants a fun night with her friends, who would also sleep over. He could spend the night at his dad's place, but he's not comfortable with the idea of a party happening at his house without him. Is he being overly possessive or is he justified in his stance? Let's delve into the internet's take on this intriguing situation...🕵️‍♀️

"It's your house only. Of course you're treating it as your sole possession because it is!" 🏠

theaa2000 | theaa2000

NTA. Girlfriend wants to use your house for a party but kick you out? Entitled much? 😑

elepheyes | elepheyes

"NTA it's your house and she doesn't live there. 🙅 Let her complain all she wants; until she's paying the bills mortgage, she has nothing to stand on."

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NTA. She needs to calm her tits. 😂🤣

Chelular07 | Chelular07

'Controlling and possessive,' sounds like she is projecting her own behaviour. Red flag indeed. 👍

untroddenpath | untroddenpath

NTA. Homeowner asserting boundaries. Red flags a-poppin'. No moving in.

Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305

NTA. It's your f**king house! Sounds like she needs a reality check. 🤯

lexkixass | lexkixass

"NTA - super duper NTA. It's pretty unreasonable to even ask your bf of 4 months to leave his house so that you can invite your friends round while he's not there. But for her to continue to push and pressure past that first no, is way into a**hole territory. Of course you're possessive over your house.. it's literally your house. No way would i be letting my bf that doesn't live with me, use my house to host his friends while i'm not there." 💁‍♂️💔

singing_stream | singing_stream

NTA. Concerns about property, privacy, and alternative locations. Suspicious motives?

BRhNicole | BRhNicole

NTA. Girlfriend wants to host friends in your place? Not cool! 🙄

rmric0 | rmric0

"NTA. The minute she used the word controlling she became the a**hole."

dart1126 | dart1126

NTA. It's your house. Take control! 💪

DZHMMM | DZHMMM

NTA: Protect your home, your stuff, and your homeowner's policy! 🙌

Farwalker08 | Farwalker08

Your house, your rules. She can have it elsewhere. 💃

villa1919 | villa1919

NTA. Possessive over your own valuable possession? 4 months in? Nope. 🙄

CheesyPestoPasta | CheesyPestoPasta

NTA. Girlfriend's entitlement sparks debate. Home, her say?

talkinlikeateen | talkinlikeateen

Your house, your rules. Don't let her take advantage. 💃

SillyLotus1 | SillyLotus1

NTA! Girlfriend's girls' night in HIS house? That's entitled! 😳

Still-Contest-980 | Still-Contest-980

NTA: Controlling and possessive over house, concern over entitlement.

bubbletrashbarbie | bubbletrashbarbie

NTA stands up for his boundaries, drops controlling girlfriend. 👏

yesimreadytorumble | yesimreadytorumble

NTA. She is out of line. 🙅

Affectionate_Life644 | Affectionate_Life644

Party in my house? No way! Not after 4 months! 😳

zoned-out28 | zoned-out28

"NTA. Watch out for entitlement. It's your house, after all! 😎"

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Emotionally manipulative girlfriend wants girls' night in HIS house? NTA

pupperoni42 | pupperoni42

Girlfriend wants girls' night at his house? NTA, ridiculous request 🙄

PoopyPogy | PoopyPogy

NTA. Asking SO to host event without them? Too soon. 🙅

Visible-Fee-2482 | Visible-Fee-2482

Girlfriend's girls' night in his house? NTA, that's super weird! 😳

Prestigious_Blood_38 | Prestigious_Blood_38

NTA - Entitled girlfriend? Relationship might be in trouble. 😕

simoneofthevalley | simoneofthevalley

🏠 NTA accused of being 'controlling' over his own house?

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

Girlfriend wants party in his house without him. Seriously? 😠

ImportancePale9920 | ImportancePale9920

NTA: Set boundaries! It's your house, know your worth 💪

ChocCreampuff | ChocCreampuff

NTA. It's YOUR house. She called you controlling. 🤔

DarkmatterBlack | DarkmatterBlack

Girlfriend wants girls' night in his house? NTA, your place!

Void_watcher3000 | Void_watcher3000

Not the a**hole for questioning girlfriend's girls' night in his house? 💃

TeaLoverGal | TeaLoverGal

NTA- Assert your ownership and set boundaries. 🙌

InfamousFail7 | InfamousFail7

Assertive comment defends ownership of house with fiery language

alien_from_unami | alien_from_unami

Confused commenter declares NTA. What's the dilemma?

Ok_Ranger_1796 | Ok_Ranger_1796

Girlfriend wants party at boyfriend's house? NTA says no!

Apotheuncary | Apotheuncary

You're right, she's wrong. 🙅

ButterscotchOk7516 | ButterscotchOk7516

Girlfriend wants girls' night at his house. He objects. NTA.

ummyea---Iguess | ummyea---Iguess

Defending your home turf: NTA, your house, your rules. 💪

s0me_us3r_name | s0me_us3r_name

NTA: It's their house, kicking them out is unfair 😡

Shealyth | Shealyth

"NTA: Trust your gut, it's your home too! 💪🏼"

Texascoastalsunshine | Texascoastalsunshine

NTA: Girlfriend wants party at his house, he's uncomfortable. 🏠

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

NTA Dude.. Running you out of your own home 😱

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NTA. It's your home and you have a right to say no. How would she feel if you wanted a guys only night at her home?!? 😳

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NTA: It's your house! Don't let her guilt trip you. 🚫

Spoopyowo | Spoopyowo

Don't be a doormat! It's your house, not a party venue! 😡

Resagarden | Resagarden

NTA. Girlfriend's entitlement to your home for girls' night is wild. 🏠

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Setting boundaries: NTA stands firm on girls' night in.

CuteBat9788 | CuteBat9788

NTA: Don't let a con artist take advantage of you! 🚩

No-Agent-1611 | No-Agent-1611

Mindblowing entitlement! NTA for not allowing girls' night in.

crimvel | crimvel

Not the a**hole for wanting boundaries in your own home 👏

EBSD | EBSD

🚩 NTA: Is this a red flag? Is she entitled?

BobzyBadass12345 | BobzyBadass12345

🚩 NTA. Red flag alert! Run for the hills, my friend!

Existing-Two-2574 | Existing-Two-2574

New girlfriend wants to use his place for girls' night? NTA

Maoricitizen | Maoricitizen

NTA. Stranger danger! 🚫🚫🚫

hcfort11 | hcfort11

Your house, your rules! You're not the a**hole here! 👍

Chipmunk_rampage | Chipmunk_rampage

Man rightfully defends his house against entitled girlfriend. 😡

eThotExpress | eThotExpress

Entitled girlfriend wants girls' night in his house after 4 months? NTA

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

NTA. Assert your boundaries and protect your personal space. 🙌

Shmambom | Shmambom

Commenter criticizes misuse of language in gender dynamics argument.

JackThreeFingered | JackThreeFingered

NTA suggests girlfriend should rent a space for her party 💃

jessieo387 | jessieo387

Outrageous request and behavior! NTA for standing your ground. 😡

WeeAccident | WeeAccident

NTA: Girlfriend wants to host party at your house? 🏠

Livid_Tutor_1125 | Livid_Tutor_1125

NTA: It's your place, you have every right to say no 👍

KawaiiNative | KawaiiNative

NTA. Girlfriend overstepped boundaries by making a big deal about it.

Kiernla | Kiernla

Defending your territory: NTA for being possessive over your house! 💪

RED-HEAD1 | RED-HEAD1

NTA. It's your house. Not a good start for relationship 👍

Cybermagetx | Cybermagetx

NTA, it's your house! Don't let her kick you out! 💃

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NTA. Girlfriend wants control over HIS house. Discuss long-term goals. 👍

0B-A-E0 | 0B-A-E0

Respect her space and let her enjoy girls' night out! 👭

oobatubaa | oobatubaa

Girlfriend not entitled to his place. NTA! 🙌

Working_Confusion751 | Working_Confusion751

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