Imagine this: You're overjoyed when your sister-in-law decides to throw you a birthday BBQ, especially since you haven't celebrated your birthday since you were 13. You happily agree to help her prepare for the party, but things start to unravel in a way you never expected. Let's dive into this rollercoaster of a story! 🎢😲
Birthday BBQ or Cunning Con? Woman's Shocking Discovery at Her Own Party! 🎂🔍
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The Exciting Invitation 🎉📞
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Cleaning Chaos 🧹🏠
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The Forgotten Birthday Girl 😳🎂
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The Birthday BBQ That Wasn't: A Tale of Deception and Disappointment 🎂🔍
Our birthday girl, Harper, was thrilled when her sister-in-law decided to throw her a birthday BBQ. Little did she know, she'd end up cleaning the house, buying the food, and discovering the party wasn't for her at all. Instead, it was for her sister-in-law's cousin's anniversary! The final straw? She was asked to clean up after a party she had no part in. Harper's story is a wild ride of unexpected twists and turns, leaving us all wondering: Who's really in the wrong here? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐💭
NTA. SIL used OP for cleaning and buying food for fake party. Stand your ground! 🚩
TRGerry | TRGerry
Did she really have $300 stolen? Who's the a**hole here?
METH-OD_MAN | METH-OD_MAN
NTA. She used you, your money, time, and effort 😱
Buying_Bagels | Buying_Bagels
NTA - Cleaning someone's house for 5+ hours? No thanks! 😅
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NTA and holy hell is she manipulative trash. 😲
virobacter | virobacter
Spineless OP gets called out for being a pushover. 😱
Daydream_machine | Daydream_machine
NTA - Cut her off! 🚫 Talk to your husband! 💑
maddylucy | maddylucy
YTA for being a feckin doormat. Stand up for yourself! 😡
Flocceenaucee | Flocceenaucee
YTA for buying food and cleaning for your own party. 🤦♀️
markdmac | markdmac
Woman conned her own birthday party, husband upset but neutral. 😭
mael0004 | mael0004
Demand justice! Sue her for the bill and cleaning services! 💥
live-is-sti | live-is-sti
"Holy f**k, SIL's entitlement is through the roof! NTA. 🤬"
SlitheryPringle | SlitheryPringle
NTA. What a giant AH. She made you pay for the $300 worth of supplies and made you clean 5 hours and it wasn't even for you. Very clear cut case. I would've cussed her out very pointedly in front of everyone. I would've embarrassed her. It's the least she deserves. What a s**t person. 😡
theyoungreezy | theyoungreezy
Is this BBQ party real or just a cunning con? 🤔
Thistime232 | Thistime232
Does OP's husband not care about her? 😱
Noregsnoride | Noregsnoride
NTA. Uncover her true colors and clarify with family members! 😊
Antwerpanda | Antwerpanda
Expressing frustration and disbelief at a shocking revelation! 😱
Felonious_Minx | Felonious_Minx
Shocking betrayal! NTA victim of gaslighting at own party! 😱
vifi2234 | vifi2234
OP stands up against SIL's outrageous request. NTA! 🙌
heartshapedtattoo | heartshapedtattoo
NTA: Con artist friend ruins birthday BBQ, ignore her and move on. 🙄
bamf1701 | bamf1701
NTA. SIL is AH for expecting you to do anything for your own party. Celebrate with friends instead! 🎂
ColorfulToes | ColorfulToes
Woman discovers shocking party deception by her own family! 🤯
highwoodshady | highwoodshady
Shocking betrayal at birthday BBQ! 😱🔍 NTA uncovers sinister plot.
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Shocking con woman ruins birthday BBQ, beware of future scams! 😱
SpunkyRadcat | SpunkyRadcat
YTA for not smelling 💩 sooner. Just go nc 🙄
MC1R__ | MC1R__
$300 lesson learned: always expect a 'catch' and dodge it! 🚶
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"YTA because this is fake. If you hadn't included the line about doing yard work and landscaping, I might have believed the beginning, the 'spent $300 for my own party' was when you went over the line from plausible to fantasy. BTW, if you paid for the food, you'd know exactly how much it cost, not a guesstimate." 😒
tendiesinvesties08 | tendiesinvesties08
Woman discovers shocking manipulation at her own birthday BBQ! 😱
cricket73646 | cricket73646
Leaving her at the store? Savage move! 🤪
IceIceBaby1818 | IceIceBaby1818
Generous offer! A surprise gift for her birthday? How sweet! 💍
thiccy_vicky | thiccy_vicky
Seeking revenge on a cunning party crasher? Here's the plan! 🤪
Viperbunny | Viperbunny
Trust your instincts! 🤔 Listen to that little voice inside.
tcbymca | tcbymca
NTA: Cutting ties with a user at family gatherings 👍
iluvcats17 | iluvcats17
NTA: Cleaned up after party, deduct clean-up from owed money 👍
awill237 | awill237
NTA, Don't let her take advantage of you. Stand up!
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NTA, stand up for yourself! 🚫✋ Block her and move on.
Leek5 | Leek5
SIL's manipulative behavior ruins birthday BBQ. NTA deserves better! 😡
yamamotosdragon | yamamotosdragon
NTA. You did more than enough, she's the huge a**hole. 😠
grumphergusellbiner | grumphergusellbiner
SIL's audacity ruins birthday BBQ, OP not the a**hole! 😡
MsRenee2020 | MsRenee2020
She's the a**hole, and everyone agrees. Not the a**hole.
maddr_lurker | maddr_lurker
Demanding reimbursement for forced expenses and a sincere apology. 💰
Nikkerdoodle71 | Nikkerdoodle71
NTA. She's awful. 😡
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SIL drama at birthday BBQ! Next year will be better! 😊
bihan_diablo | bihan_diablo
NTA. Guest of honor used and deceived, seek repayment 💰
shainelin | shainelin
SIL's cunning con exposed! NTA takes a stand. 😱
LilliannaWinterWolf | LilliannaWinterWolf
🎉 NTA, but seriously, what's up with your husband's birthday game?
Jaykaybabay | Jaykaybabay
NTA. She sounds like a user. 🙋
Maggie_Mayhem_1 | Maggie_Mayhem_1
NTA - Beware of the con woman SIL! 🚫🕵️♀️
Jillypepper72 | Jillypepper72
Commenter vents frustration at entitled homeowner's messy house. 😡
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Expose the truth! NTA. Share receipts and tag her on social media. 👀
nano2492 | nano2492
Husband's party oversight? NTA but where's the celebration for you?
ThatGirl_Tasha | ThatGirl_Tasha
NTA. Take back the food, kick some shit, and leave! 💪🏻
notastepfordwife | notastepfordwife
Cousin used her at birthday BBQ. Not cool. 😠
irritablethoughts36 | irritablethoughts36
SIL wins the A-hole of 2020 award! NTA! 😂
EarlGrey1881 | EarlGrey1881
Hosting duties gone wrong! NTA, vent away! 😜
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Party drama! Woman defends herself against accusations. 😎
TroubleLevel5680 | TroubleLevel5680
NTA - Cutting ties with someone who can't see their mistakes 🚫
nightglitter89x | nightglitter89x
NTA. Self-reflection and therapy can help you set better boundaries.
lulububudu | lulububudu
Family drama at the birthday BBQ! 😱
paradisebot | paradisebot
Confused about a surprise birthday party with strangers? 🤔🎉
StainlessHinge | StainlessHinge
ESH. SIL is a massive AH for lying and manipulating you to throw a party for people you don't know. Everyone is an AH because there's still a pandemic going on and 30+ people in someone's home and backyard for a party is irresponsible. That being said, I hope someone is able to throw you a wonderful birthday next year to make up for this year and previous years when it wasn't celebrated. 🎉
jaywinn | jaywinn
🗑️ Your SIL is human trash. Trashy family drama unfolds.
Autismos12345 | Autismos12345
Awkward family dynamics at play during birthday BBQ 😳
JayknightFr | JayknightFr
Make sure your loved ones celebrate your special day too! 💚
wufwolf | wufwolf
Curious commenter seeks validation for not being the a**hole. 🤔
gigibuffoon | gigibuffoon
User questions self-respect and advises confronting SIL earlier. 🤔
scook16108 | scook16108
🤯 Shocking story! Woman owes $300, trash her place, NTA!
Thosewhocanteach | Thosewhocanteach
NTA. She definitely is. 😎
bizianka | bizianka
