A Heartbreaking Tale of a Daughter's Plea: Did She Go Too Far? 💔

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Imagine living thousands of miles away from your family, facing life's most challenging moments with only your spouse by your side. Now, imagine your mother refusing to visit you, even after a life-threatening event. This is the heartbreaking reality for one woman who moved from South America to the UK 15 years ago. After her mother's refusal to visit her during her first pregnancy, she hoped things would change when she suffered a tragic miscarriage and almost lost her life. But the response she got was not what she expected... 😢

A New Life in the UK 🇬🇧

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A Plea for Support 🙏

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A Mother's Refusal 😔

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A Terrifying Ordeal 😱

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A Second Chance? 🕊️

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Another Disappointment 😢

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A Painful Decision 💔

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A Lonely Battle 😞

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The Final Straw 🥀

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Finding Comfort in Loved Ones ❤️

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A Heartfelt Question 🤔

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A Sad Realization 😔

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Moving On 💔

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A Final Thank You 🙏

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A Heartbreaking Decision: Was She Right? 💔

After years of longing for her family's presence in her life, this woman finally made a heartbreaking decision. She cancelled her mother's ticket after a near-death experience, feeling that her pleas for support were falling on deaf ears. Despite the emotional turmoil, she found solace in her husband and children, the only ones who seemed to genuinely care for her. As the holiday season approaches, she's left questioning her actions and seeking validation. Was she right to cancel the ticket? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💬

"NTA. Clear favoritism. You're showing them the same contact they showed you."

Bitbatgaming | Bitbatgaming

Recognizing narcissistic traits in my mom was eye-opening. 😍

mslisath | mslisath

"NTA I had to build my own support group 💔"

ScarieltheMudmaid | ScarieltheMudmaid

Expats share their experiences and support for OP's situation. NAH.

Fangehulmesteren | Fangehulmesteren

NTA: Moving away and shattered illusions of family visits 💔

Glass_Physics_3631 | Glass_Physics_3631

NTA. Cut ties, thank friend, and move on. 💔

journeyintopressure | journeyintopressure

Finding a new family: NTA's journey to healing and support 💔

SecretJealous4342 | SecretJealous4342

Invitations rejected, no reciprocation. NTA. Spend holidays with family. 💔

charleyismyhero | charleyismyhero

NTA. Cherish your friends, distance yourself from toxic family. 💔

Legitimately-Weird | Legitimately-Weird

NTA, but did she really resent OP for moving away? 🤔

Pasdusername | Pasdusername

Finding healing and self-mothering after a narcissistic mother. 💔

yellwat | yellwat

Daughter's plea: Not the a**hole. What did she do?

elderoriens | elderoriens

Mother prioritized sister's holiday over daughter's childbirth. 😱

NotHisRealName | NotHisRealName

Unpopular opinion: you moved away, it's on you to travel back. But refusing to settle for scraps anymore. 💔

Ok_Chance_4584 | Ok_Chance_4584

NTA - Heartbreaking plea for mom's support after 15 years. 💔

suigeneristhang2765 | suigeneristhang2765

Heartbreaking favoritism and financial strain. Stay strong! 💔

riverat_beauty_queen | riverat_beauty_queen

OP's plea for love and connection: Family vs. chosen family ❤️

CandThonestpartners | CandThonestpartners

Heartfelt empathy and understanding from fellow Canadian living abroad ❤️

Infinite-Term-6500 | Infinite-Term-6500

NTA: Family didn't care when you almost *died* 😱

purple235 | purple235

NTA, your disappointment is valid. Is your mother avoiding travel? 😳

AppeltjeEitje1079 | AppeltjeEitje1079

NTA! Your family hasn't visited in 15 years. Live happily! 💔

Rydw_in_hoffi_coffi | Rydw_in_hoffi_coffi

Heartbreaking plea for grandparents' presence during first grandchild's birth

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896

Heartfelt support and encouragement for a grieving daughter. 💔

NakedRandimeres | NakedRandimeres

Heartbreaking story of a daughter seeking comfort from her mom 💔

urnerdnextdoor | urnerdnextdoor

Heartbreaking story of a daughter's plea for support during pregnancy. 💔

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INFO: Mother's priorities questioned, sister's holiday takes precedence over daughter.

BrilliantParamedic63 | BrilliantParamedic63

Living abroad: your decision. Family not visiting: their decision. NAH.

Sharp-Egg3386 | Sharp-Egg3386

Family ties: Who's responsible for maintaining them? 💔

Bright_Ad_3690 | Bright_Ad_3690

INFO: YTA for moving far away from your mother 🌍

Lows-andHighs | Lows-andHighs

Daughter refuses to see mother. Not the a**hole. 💔

Kmur4kits | Kmur4kits

NTA. Seek support from church and build new family connections. 💔

Nester1953 | Nester1953

NTA, but could their fear of flying be a hidden factor? ✈️

GratificationNOW | GratificationNOW

Longing for family visits, distance can't keep hearts apart. ❤️

SavageChokeDealer | SavageChokeDealer

Heartfelt apology from NTA commenter. 🙏

AdventurousDoubt1115 | AdventurousDoubt1115

NTA. Wishing you a speedy recovery! 🙏

Ok_Professor2620 | Ok_Professor2620

Parents need to learn to treat all their kids equally. 💔

Fit_Butterscotch7103 | Fit_Butterscotch7103

Empathy for the daughter dealing with a difficult mother. 😔

cstarh408 | cstarh408

Consider your mom's fear of travel before judging. NTA 💔

JulesSherlock | JulesSherlock

NTA, prioritize your well-being and surround yourself with supportive people. 💔

No-Mango8923 | No-Mango8923

Mom favors sisters due to emotional boundaries. NAH. 🚩

Instant_Karma_638 | Instant_Karma_638

Heartwarming support and sisterly love from across the globe! 💔

Accomplished-Dog3715 | Accomplished-Dog3715

Cut toxic ties and focus on your own happiness. 🙌

Bored-Viking | Bored-Viking

Heartbreaking plea for validation and closure from distant family.

Dipping_My_Toes | Dipping_My_Toes

Empathy and boundaries: NTA, focus on those who care 💔

bcismycopilot | bcismycopilot

Heartbreaking: Parents have a favorite child, make your own family. 💔

Here_WolfyWolfyWolfy | Here_WolfyWolfyWolfy

OP's church friend adds to the drama 🤯

newmacgirl | newmacgirl

NTA: Mother's resentment towards daughter's choices causes unnecessary drama. 🙅

B1tchPyre31 | B1tchPyre31

Heartbreaking plea for acceptance from estranged mother yields disappointment. 💔

Substantial-Air3395 | Substantial-Air3395

Cutting toxic family ties: Focus on those who truly care 💔

shellyrad | shellyrad

OP is NTA, but has a bigger 'created' family. 💔

Blacksmithforge3241 | Blacksmithforge3241

Heartbreaking loss, unsupportive family. Find love in chosen family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

megtuuu | megtuuu

Daughter upset her mom can't drop everything for a hug 😢

Cent1234 | Cent1234

Heartbroken daughter seeks closure and distance from unsupportive mother. 💔

BlobulousPesto829 | BlobulousPesto829

Daughter's plea: Not the a**hole! 💔

PA_Archer | PA_Archer

Daughter's plea: Not the a**hole. Heartwarming story. 💔

Ok-Abbreviations4510 | Ok-Abbreviations4510

NTA. Heartbreaking tale of family abandonment and grief. 💔

FeistyIrishWench | FeistyIrishWench

Heartbreaking plea for a caring family. You deserve better. 💔

ThatsItImOverThis | ThatsItImOverThis

Begging for love rarely ends well. Find support and move on. 💔

JMarchPineville | JMarchPineville

Heartbreaking loss, unsupportive mom. NTA, you deserve better. 💔

Applesintheorchard | Applesintheorchard

Lonely spouse shares disappointment in distant in-laws. 💔

Additional_Buyer_110 | Additional_Buyer_110

Moving overseas? YTA. Now live with the consequences. 😢

UsernameUnremarkable | UsernameUnremarkable

Kind friends, good husband, little care from family. NTA 💔

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

Cut toxic people out of your life for your own well-being. 👍

Mata_El_Maricon | Mata_El_Maricon

Heartbreaking plea: Daughter's absence in near-death incident ends relationship. 💔

Silent_Syd241 | Silent_Syd241

Moved far from home, frustrated with lack of family support. 💔

Jaded-Combination-20 | Jaded-Combination-20

A heartwarming plea for a mummy cuddle ❤️❤️

FineAppearance1648 | FineAppearance1648

Church friends care, mom's the a**hole. Get money back. 💰

NerdyGingerGamerGirl | NerdyGingerGamerGirl

NTA, but she's not really your "mom" anyway. 🤷‍♀️

cecilpenny | cecilpenny

NTA! Embrace your supportive church friend and set boundaries with mom.

curious382 | curious382

Heartbreaking story of neglectful parent. NTA. Therapy can help. 💔

Goda6511 | Goda6511

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