When love and cohabitation go smoothly, it’s a beautiful thing. But what happens when an unexpected guest turns up and turns everything upside down? Meet our hero, who thought he was signing up for a blissful life with his girlfriend, only to find himself sharing a roof with her mother. And not just any mother, but one with a penchant for meddling, high-end groceries, and a ‘my way or the highway’ attitude. Let’s dive into this wild ride of unexpected roommates and grocery list battles.
The Move-In: Love and Financial Support

The Surprise Guest: Mom’s Moving In!

The Mother of All Problems: Mom’s Personality

The Cake Incident: A Taste of Things to Come

The Arrival: Day One Drama Begins

The Grocery List: High-End Taste on a Low-End Budget

The Checkout: The Price of Peace

The Escape: A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed ♂️

The Aftermath: Who’s the Bad Guy Here? ♂️

The Great Escape: Was He Right to Flee? ♂️
Our protagonist found himself in a pickle when his girlfriend’s mom moved in, bringing with her a whirlwind of drama, entitlement, and a grocery list that would make a gourmet chef blush. He tried to voice his concerns, but was met with dismissal and accusations of being insensitive. ♀️ With tensions rising and his peace of mind dwindling, he did what any sane person might consider – he packed his bags and moved out! ♂️ Now, he’s left wondering if his actions were justified or if he’s the villain in this tale. What do you think? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this intriguing situation…
NTA – Unfair living situation, OP moves out and stands up for themselves

NTA: You escaped the love nest ♂️

NTA. Unilateral decision, no obligation to pay for mom’s food

“NTA – it needs to be a joint decision to move anyone else into a couple’s home. Every time. It’s a two yeses, one no decision. It’s also okay to say that you’d be okay with one person and not another. Because people are different. I feel like that’s a pretty ‘duh’ thing.”

NTA: Girlfriend’s mom moved in, now she expects you to pay

NTA. Time for a new girlfriend?

Choosing to live with girlfriend’s mom vs. dad: 2 different things

NTA – Uncomfortable living situation with girlfriend’s mom. What’s next?

NTA stands up against unfair living arrangements with fiery response.

NTA: Moving out was the best move for your relationship
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Girlfriend’s mom moves in, takes advantage, and tries to control. NTA.

NTA – Girlfriend’s mom added to food list without consent

“NTA. Your needs should come first. Consider ending the relationship. “

Lucky escape from toxic relationship
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NTA. Girlfriend’s mom moved in, revealing relationship priorities

NTA – Massive red flag: girlfriend’s mom moves in against your wishes
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NTA – You shouldn’t have to pay for unwanted guests

NTA helps GF financially, but draws the line at supporting her mom.

NTA. Boundaries crossed: girlfriend’s mom moves in without consent.

NTA – You deserve a say in who you live with

NTA: Girlfriend’s mom moves in without consulting, your feelings don’t matter

NTA, but GF’s mom is manipulating her. Good for you!

NTA: Boundaries ignored, now expected to care for girlfriend’s mom? ♂️

Victory! You outsmarted them and came out on top!

Ex’s side of the story: Homeless mom, mean boyfriend, financial struggle. NTA.

NTA: Nightmare mother-in-law ruins love nest

NTA. Living with her mom would be a nightmare

Curious about her reaction? Let’s find out!

NTA: You deserve a say and shouldn’t be a babysitter
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ESH – GF’s mom moves in, causing tension and resentment.

NTA. GF and mom moving in with grandma

“NTA: You’re not the a**hole for wanting privacy. “

NTA, prioritize your own happiness, not your partner’s narcissistic parent.

GF’s mom moves in: Is it selfishness or love?

NTA. Red flag: GF may not stand up to her mother
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NTA: Girlfriend’s mom moves in, no financial contribution, lease dispute.

NTA. Girlfriend’s entitled mom moves in without your consent. Reconsider relationship.
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“NTA. Paying most, reasonable objections ignored? Time to move on.”

NTA: Girlfriend’s mom moves in, takes advantage. Time to move on!

NTA: She lied, used leverage, and expected you to pay.

NTA: Boundaries respected despite partner’s disregard.

“NTA – Similar nightmare situation, talk to your girlfriend. Good luck!”

Dump her and find someone better. You’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Fast action and partial agreement with supporting mother.

Communication is key! ️ Drop the flags and move on.

Dodged a bullet! NTA for not wanting to pay for mom’s things.

NTA for moving out and charging inflated groceries. Eye-opening wake-up call!

Not the a**hole! Let’s hear the juicy details!

NTA, but communication is key in avoiding tough surprises.

GF’s mom moves in, NTA consults buddy, diminished voice, vetoed power.

Not the a**hole. But what happened next?

NTA: Girlfriend’s mom overstepping boundaries, groceries seem excessive

NTA, but consider her difficult family situation before making decisions.
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NTA. You dodged a bullet with this entitled girlfriend

NTA. Your girlfriend’s mom took over your home and finances.

NTA: You’re covering 60% of the bills, you have a say

NTA: Girlfriend’s mom moving in without consent, major red flag

NTA, but what’s the update?

Toxic girlfriend puts herself first, disregarding partner’s feelings.

“NTA. You have the right to opt-out of that situation.”

NTA: Stand up for yourself and find someone who respects you.

NTA: Boundaries ignored, you escaped the love nest ♂️

NTA makes a power move, leaving girlfriend’s mom in charge.

NTA. You paid more than your share in bills and were expected to cover such a horrible person on top of it? Plus your girlfriend went against your wishes. You made the right choice. I’d rethink the whole relationship. Her choices will always come first.

NTA: Choosing where you live matters, don’t be an ATM

Is it time to reconsider this relationship?
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NTA: You have the right to leave a bad living situation.
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NTA: Relationship warning signs, your concerns are dismissed and unheard
