Meet our feisty couple, Alden and his wife, both hardworking nurses in Canada. They’re juggling their finances to support their families back home and their newborn son. But when the wife suggests they start saving for their son’s future education, things take a dramatic turn. Alden, already helping his brother through college, feels the pressure. The ensuing argument leaves them both questioning their actions. ♀️
The Financial Setup

The Birth of a New Responsibility

The Proposal and the Pushback

The Heated Exchange ️

The Escalation and Aftermath ️

The Silent Treatment ️

The Outside Perspective ️

The Unexpected Twist

The Resolution?

A Financial Feud: Who’s in the Right? ♀️
In a whirlwind of emotions and finances, our couple Alden and his wife find themselves at odds. With a newborn son and families back home to support, they’re stretched thin. When the wife suggests starting a savings plan for their son’s future education, Alden, already burdened with his brother’s college fees, feels cornered. Their fiery exchange leaves them both questioning their actions and seeking outside perspectives. But just when you think you’ve got the full picture, a twist emerges. Alden’s family needs more help for his uncle’s Covid treatment, adding another layer to this complex financial drama. So, who’s right, who’s wrong, and what happens next? Let’s see what the internet thinks…
Putting family first and cutting expenses for the win!
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NTA, communication issues? Time for a marriage counselor!

NTA: Husband’s obligation to son vs. brother’s promised support.

NTA, but why not cut expenses and contribute incrementally?
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NTA: Brother’s college vs. son’s fund. Compromise needed.

Putting your child first is always the right move!

Financial pressure causing tension, but no assholes here.

Initially thought YTA, but changed my mind after considering subscriptions

NTA suggests reducing combined acct to fund education, encouraging extra work

NAH, but can they find a compromise?

Helpful advice on RESP contributions for future financial planning.

Financial disputes after having a baby? Clear communication is key!
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Understanding both sides: A family feud over finances

Engaging advice on RESP contributions and grants for your husband
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ESH and YTA clash over financial responsibility.

YTA demands husband contribute to education account, sparking financial conflict.

The shifting priorities of parenthood: a delicate balancing act.

NTA – Dad should contribute more. Others manage it easily.

Husband feels unappreciated and ignored, not just about money.
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NTA. Prioritizing your child’s needs over video games and savings.

NTA: Brother should find alternative ways to pay for college.

NTA. He contributes to child’s future. What about the remaining 88%?

NTA flips out over child’s education savings?
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Financial strain causing tension between parents over shared expenses
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NTA. Priorities change when becoming a parent. New financial system needed.

Sibling financial dispute: Should brother repay? Prioritize family needs.

Choosing stress relief over child’s education? NTA, but priorities…
