Woman Pressured to Postpone Life-Changing Surgery for Babysitting Duties: Who's in the Wrong?

Diply Social Team
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Imagine being in immense pain, finally finding a solution, and then being asked to delay your relief for babysitting duties. That's the predicament our 23-year-old protagonist finds herself in. She's been asked to put her health on hold to care for her sister-in-law's toddler. But there's more to this story than meets the eye. Let's delve into the details...🔍

The Babysitting Promise

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A Painful Revelation

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The Surgery Dilemma

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The Timing Issue

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The Unexpected Request

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The Complicating Factors

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The Diaper Incident

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The Unnecessary Knowledge

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The Ultimate Question

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The Inevitable Surgery

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A Babysitting Dilemma That Will Leave You Torn

Our protagonist is caught in a whirlwind of emotions and decisions. She's been suffering from a painful condition for a decade and finally has a chance to end her suffering. But her sister-in-law wants her to delay this life-changing surgery to babysit. With her expertise in child development and strained family dynamics adding to the complexity, this story is a rollercoaster of emotions. Let's see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of responsibilities and personal needs. 😮💭

NTA: Put your needs first! SIL can kick rocks 👊

stacity | stacity

Surgery over babysitting: NTA stands up to entitled SIL 👊

Superman530 | Superman530

NTA: Surgery is important, find someone else. 🚫👶

Rstar2247 | Rstar2247

Stand up for yourself! Get the surgery and live pain-free! ✨

napoleon_1066 | napoleon_1066

NTA - Don't let others guilt trip you. Have your surgery! 🧑‍♀️

VixenNoire | VixenNoire

Put your health first! 🌟 You're not the a**hole. NTA

000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe

Taking care of yourself comes first! 🌟 Don't feel guilty!

MbMinx | MbMinx

Your health comes first! 🌟

Dung_Diviner | Dung_Diviner

NTA. Take care of your health, not your sister-in-law's child. 🧑‍♀️

panic_bread | panic_bread

NTA: Life happens, plans change. Flexibility is key. 👍

Parkgate1950 | Parkgate1950

Why postpone surgery for babysitting? NTA, siblings are capable. 👍

Slow-Bumblebee-8609 | Slow-Bumblebee-8609

NTA, prioritize your health! SIL needs to find alternative help 😷

Glittering_Code_4311 | Glittering_Code_4311

Don't delay surgery for babysitting. NTA. 🚫👶

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

Putting your health first is never the wrong decision 💪

ElectronicRub1716 | ElectronicRub1716

Your health comes first! 🌟

yesnomaybe123 | yesnomaybe123

NTA: Don't let babysitting duties ruin your life-changing surgery! 🧐

EquivalentTwo1 | EquivalentTwo1

NTA. Take care of you. Surgery > entitled and ungrateful.

Rooster_Local | Rooster_Local

Put your health first! 🌟 Don't let others hold you back.

coastalkid92 | coastalkid92

NTA- You're not the a**hole for prioritizing your own well-being 🙌

Baileythenerd | Baileythenerd

Put yourself first! 🙌 Take care of your own pain first.

beeka-996 | beeka-996

Woman refuses to postpone surgery for entitled parent's babysitting demands 🚫👶

EugeneVictorTooms | EugeneVictorTooms

NTA. Mocked for helping with diaper? No thanks, I'm out! 😒

Raccoonsr29 | Raccoonsr29

NTA. Major surgery postponed for babysitting? That's just cold. 😳

OLAZ3000 | OLAZ3000

SIL's unrealistic expectations: Does she think everyone has handed off siblings since Adam and Eve? 🤔

granite34 | granite34

NTA. Prioritize your well-being and find alternative support. 💓

betsycrocker | betsycrocker

Don't postpone your surgery for babysitting duties! NTA! 🙏

mintpink11 | mintpink11

NTA. Get your surgery and prioritize your own well-being! 💪

Crawdad29 | Crawdad29

NTA. Unreasonable woman puts babysitting before life-changing surgery. 🙄

Katana1369 | Katana1369

NTA. Your health comes first. SIL is selfish. Schedule surgery.

Aylauria | Aylauria

Daddy can step up and take care of the little one. 👍

No-Names-Left-Here | No-Names-Left-Here

Stand up for yourself! 💪 Set boundaries and demand respect.

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NTA. Your health comes first! 🏥💪

lascivious_chicken | lascivious_chicken

Not the a**hole for prioritizing your own health and well-being 💪

Rgirl4 | Rgirl4

Put yourself first! 🙌 NTA. Take care of yourself!

KayKoe012 | KayKoe012

NTA. Put yourself first! 🙌 Your health matters the most. 💪

Comprehensive-Hand60 | Comprehensive-Hand60

Put your health first! 👍

Poison-Dart-Frog89 | Poison-Dart-Frog89

NTA. Find alternate babysitter. Inconvenient, but not enough for TA.

daily_moodz | daily_moodz

NTA. Prioritize your health. SIL is entitled. Family can help.

thebabes2 | thebabes2

NTA prioritizes health over babysitting. Good luck with surgery! 🍀

Sea-Ad3724 | Sea-Ad3724

NTA: Mom should care for her own children, not burden others.

giraffecat1228 | giraffecat1228

Putting yourself first 👍

eric987235 | eric987235

Hilarious banter on childbirth and babysitting duties! 😂

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