Ever felt like you're doing more than your fair share in a relationship? Meet our culinary queen, who loves to cook but has found herself in a domestic deadlock with her boyfriend. Despite not living together, she spends a significant amount of time at his place due to her online classes. They've divided chores, but there's one sticking point: the dishes. Let's dive into this dishy drama! 🍽️😮
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After a heated exchange over a sink full of dirty dishes, our culinary queen took a stand. She refused to cook until her boyfriend cleaned up. This led to a deep conversation about the value of time, roles in their relationship, and the importance of shared responsibilities. The boyfriend, previously oblivious to her feelings, now understands her perspective. They've decided to work on their chore-sharing system, but she's adamant about not doing him any 'extra favors'. Will this new understanding lead to change, or is it the end of the road for this relationship? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔
"Boyfriend acting like a child, OP should find a real man. 👭"
somedayillfindthis | somedayillfindthis
NTA. Boyfriend wants a live-in maid, not a partner. 🚫🧹
knitstaby | knitstaby
NTA, unbalanced chores and he values his time over yours. 😔
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NTA. Stand your ground and don't let him guilt you. 💪
coastalshelves | coastalshelves
Avoid kitchen power struggles! Take turns and communicate openly. 👨🍳👨🍼💋
Dragaril | Dragaril
"NTA. You're still a guest in his house. Share the load! 👍"
FragrantLynx | FragrantLynx
Unpaid maid or girlfriend? NTA takes a stand! 🤯
Muladach | Muladach
"Now you can finally clean the kitchen"? This is your future! NTA 😎
Darcy-Pennell | Darcy-Pennell
Stand your ground! Don't let him take you for granted. 💪
hemiguy76 | hemiguy76
Gender roles and household chores: Who's responsible? 👮👯
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"Believe Maya Angelou, your boyfriend's selfishness is a dealbreaker!"
kimjong_unsbarber | kimjong_unsbarber
NTA. Stick to the agreement - cook or clean, not both! 👨🍳👨🍽️
Unique-Ad1498 | Unique-Ad1498
NTA. Boyfriend shirking dishes, forcing you to cook. Selfish and childish. 🙅🏼
Mysterious-System680 | Mysterious-System680
Don't be his bang maid forever! Stand up for yourself! 💪
HotConfusion | HotConfusion
Not the a**hole. Stand your ground, girl! 💪
9okm | 9okm
Take a stand! Demand fairness in household chores. 💪
Skippy2716 | Skippy2716
NTA - Unfair division of chores, boyfriend taking advantage of you.
castielx78 | castielx78
NTA! Stand your ground and let him face the music! 🎵🎶
angeliniana | angeliniana
Dating little boys: Woman puts boyfriend in time out! 👫
vv212 | vv212
"NTA - Boyfriend needs to step up his cleaning game!"
mh6797 | mh6797
Boyfriend expects girlfriend to be his maid, time to move out! 🚫
h_witko | h_witko
Dump the baby and find a real adult partner! 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
OP gets called a 'bang-maid' in brutal comment. Ouch! 😱
Ripley_Roaring | Ripley_Roaring
Commenter calls out unfair division of labor, questions woman's actions.
crock_pot | crock_pot
NTA, red flag! Boyfriend expects chores in exchange for staying.
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Dishwasher saves relationships! NTA's advice leads to 11-year love.
Revellry | Revellry
NTA. Stand your ground and prioritize your own needs. 💪
DelsMagicFishies | DelsMagicFishies
"Girl, open your eyes! You deserve better! 😂"
my_greenebeans | my_greenebeans
"NTA I get that you need him now but for me this would be a serious red flag for a long term relationship. How will you live together if he expects you to work and do all the chores? 🚨 Cooking alone takes at least 30 minutes a day, the dishes do not. There is no reason you should have to vacuum or clean the bathroom for a place you don't stay in for the majority of the week. Helping with a monthly deep clean or something similar would be more appropriate. 🤔 I highly recommend an article called 'It's More Than Just Cooking'. It really helped me put tp words a lot of feelings around cooking I struggled to express. 👉 [Read the article here](https://theweek.com/articles/864481/much-more-than-cooking)"
exhauta | exhauta
NTA, consider long-term implications. Can he handle more responsibilities? 🤔
FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes
NTA. Stand your ground! Don't let him take advantage of youj. 💪
annabananafin | annabananafin
NTA. Bluntly ask him why he thinks it's okay to shift the household balance.
codeverity | codeverity
Don't let him guilt you into doing his agreed-upon task! 🙌
jcaashby | jcaashby
