Ever had a dinner plan turn into a friendship feud? Meet our 31-year-old storyteller, who found herself in the eye of a storm after a sushi night with her friends. What was meant to be a casual dinner plan turned into a heated debate, all thanks to a seafood allergy. Let's dive into the story that's got everyone talking! 🍣🚫🔥
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Diply | Diply
A Regular Dinner Gathering 🍽️
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New Friend on the Block 🆕
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The Seafood Dilemma 🦞🚫
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Sushi Place Opens Up 🍣
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The Sushi Proposition 🍣💡
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The Allergy Reminder 🚫🔔
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notpickyaita | notpickyaita
The Sushi Night 🍣🌙
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notpickyaita | notpickyaita
The Word Spreads 📢
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notpickyaita | notpickyaita
Accusations Fly 🗣️🔥
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notpickyaita | notpickyaita
The Fallout 💥
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notpickyaita | notpickyaita
Seafood Allergy Sparks Unexpected Conflict Among Friends 🍣🚫💔
What started as a simple dinner plan turned into a full-blown friendship feud. Our storyteller, a 31-year-old woman, found herself in hot water after a sushi night with friends. The bone of contention? A seafood allergy. Kate, a new addition to the group, couldn't partake in the sushi feast due to her allergy. When our storyteller and a few others decided to visit the sushi place without Kate, accusations of exclusion and division flew. Now, the once harmonious group is divided, with everyone taking sides. Let's see what the internet thinks of this sushi saga! 🍣🚫💔
NTA - Seafood allergy sparks debate over dinner plans 🍣
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alreadystrong | alreadystrong
Handling a food allergy conflict with grace and consideration 🚫
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Kenobi4President | Kenobi4President
NTA. You nailed it when you said that this isn't middle school and that you're allowed to do things outside of the group. 🚫
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ImpressiveCollar5811 | ImpressiveCollar5811
NTA: Friend drama over exclusion leads to future isolation 🚫
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StAlvis | StAlvis
NTA: Going to dinner with select friends is totally fine! 🚫
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blueberryxxoo | blueberryxxoo
NTA. Friends being possessive over dinner plans? Ridiculous 🚫
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Admirable-Frog-3748 | Admirable-Frog-3748
Accommodating food allergy while still enjoying seafood. NTA! 👏
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Imaginary_Being1949 | Imaginary_Being1949
NTA. Friends acting like middle schoolers 🚫🤷🏻♀️. Valid reasoning, toxic situation 🚫
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halleymariana | halleymariana
Avoid the drama, stay cool if they mention it. 🚫
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Jmac_files | Jmac_files
NTA: Friends acting like teenagers 🙄
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vrindumb | vrindumb
NTA - Going out separately to include everyone, no harm done! 🚫
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FearTheTooth | FearTheTooth
NTA. Embrace life's limitations, not everyone can do everything 🚫
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dwells2301 | dwells2301
NTA. She's acting very shellfish 🦐 Jen and Kate can't sea that OP did nothing wrong.
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Alpacalypto | Alpacalypto
NTA: It's okay to have separate hangouts with friends 🚫
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NarrativeScorpion | NarrativeScorpion
Teenage drama queens trying to control your social life? NTA!
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National-Zombie3303 | National-Zombie3303
Shift dinner meeting to accommodate allergies, but don't ban seafood 🍣
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sumg | sumg
NTA- Going behind friends' backs to eat seafood? Ridiculous control.
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Go wherever you want with whoever you want! 💪
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Cogitoergoanxietatem | Cogitoergoanxietatem
Jen's not the a**hole, but is she going too far? 🤔
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reallyephemeral | reallyephemeral
NTA. You're entitled to socialize with subgroups of your friends. 🚫
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Katja1236 | Katja1236
NTA for making your own plans and being independent. 🙌
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PresentTiffany | PresentTiffany
Choosing a restaurant shouldn't spark drama. NTA, keep exploring!
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super_grace_gale | super_grace_gale
NTA. Allergies shouldn't stop others from enjoying seafood. Geek Social Fallacies.
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IllustratorSlow1614 | IllustratorSlow1614
NTA. Friends can do separate activities and accommodate allergies. 🚫
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mfruitfly | mfruitfly
NTA You could have been more open and had a dinner for all inviting everyone and allowing Kate to decline. If I were Kate I would eat before and have side dishes with you to be social. 🚫
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gastropodia42 | gastropodia42
"You can't please everyone all the time" - Wise words! 👍
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Chickenmel | Chickenmel
NTA, but this could be the end of the dinner group. Let it. I don't need friends like Jen and Kate. 😤
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Mabelisms | Mabelisms
NTA! People can eat and hangout with whoever they want!
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HistorySweet9902 | HistorySweet9902