Drumroll, Please! A Family Torn Apart by a Drum Kit 🥁

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Ah, the sweet sound of sibling rivalry! 😅 Meet Luca, the birthday boy who begged for a drum kit, and Jessie, his younger sister who found her rhythm on the very same drums. 🥁 Everything was in harmony until Luca decided to march to a different beat, leaving his drum kit to gather dust. Enter Jessie, who started to make some noise, and suddenly, the drum kit wasn't just a birthday gift anymore—it was the epicenter of a family feud! 🎵🔥

The Birthday Boy's Beat 🎂🥁

drumaita | drumaita

From Drummer to Gamer 🎮

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A New Drummer in Town 🌟

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Drum Set Drama 🥁💥

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Parents Lay Down the Law 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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Family Feud Intensifies 🌪️

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The Drum Dilemma 🤔

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A Symphony of Sibling Rivalry 🎶

So, here we are, stuck in a conundrum where a birthday gift has become a symbol of sibling rivalry. Luca, the birthday boy, has abandoned his drumming dreams, while Jessie, the budding drummer, is left in a tough spot, torn between her newfound passion and her brother's wrath. 😥 The parents are left to play mediator, trying to keep the peace while encouraging their kids' talents. The question remains: should they sell the drums and buy Jessie her own, or should they convince Luca to share? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this drum dilemma... 🎵

NTA. Help him explore his emotions and grow emotionally 👨‍🎓

poseselt | poseselt

Sibling jealousy and control over possessions, but nobody's the a**hole. 🥁

Traveling_GrizzlyB | Traveling_GrizzlyB

Sibling rivalry over drums: jealousy, effort, and setting boundaries 🥁

bexecuter | bexecuter

Understanding the struggles of parenting a passionate 12-year-old drummer 🥁

Gear_Lights | Gear_Lights

Engaging comment and reply about sharing family musical instruments 🎷

IsTheHorseSmart | IsTheHorseSmart

NTA: Help Luca understand the consequences of quitting the drums 🥁

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Gift-gone-wrong! NTA for not wasting money on unused drum kit 🥁

lmusic87 | lmusic87

NTA. Son should learn value of money. Daughter could 'buy' drums.

emnozz | emnozz

YWBTA if you sell your son's drums to buy your daughter's drums 😡

Austinite-intraining | Austinite-intraining

"NTA, it's like handing down a bike to a younger sibling 🚲"

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sibling rivalry and insecurity may be causing his frustration. 😔

DoctorNinjaSpy | DoctorNinjaSpy

Fair solution: Split ownership of drum kit, benefit from sister's lessons 🥁

w0mba7 | w0mba7

NAH: Kid doesn't want to share drum kit, sister's interests ignored 🥁

Beanisbae | Beanisbae

Selling kit for sister is wrong, save money for him 👍

henchwench89 | henchwench89

NAH. Parenting a 12-year-old is tough, but communication is key 👍

curlywirlygirly | curlywirlygirly

Engage your children in problem-solving to resolve the drum dilemma 🥁

Germane7 | Germane7

Engaging comment: NTA - OP gave son opportunities, sister needs expression too 🥁

heyitsta12 | heyitsta12

Selling his birthday gift for your daughter? Not cool! 😠

CleverFern | CleverFern

Parenting advice: Teach lessons about sharing and communication with Luca 🥁

An-Anthropologist | An-Anthropologist

Offered money for drum kit, he refused. Selfishness at play.

FakeGeekSquirrel | FakeGeekSquirrel

Sibling solution: Trade items to foster communication and bargaining skills! 👍

toadsarepeople2 | toadsarepeople2

Sell the drums, teach Luca a lesson, NTA 👍

Pollypocketful | Pollypocketful

NTA. Teach him to share and be fair. 🙌

sam-s_22 | sam-s_22

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