Imagine being financially stable and wanting to do something nice for your mom, who's been insecure about her looks for years. You decide to pay for her long-desired plastic surgery, and she's over the moon. But then, your girlfriend finds out and she's not happy. Not one bit. She thinks you should've used that money to help her pay off her college debt. Now, you're caught in a whirlwind of drama, with friends taking sides and your relationship on the rocks. Let's dive into this emotionally charged story...🌪️💔

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Mom's Long-Held Insecurity 😔

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Caught Between Mom's Self-Esteem and Girlfriend's Debt 😵
In a whirlwind of emotions, our generous hero finds himself in a tight spot. He wanted to help his mom overcome her insecurities, and he did - by funding her plastic surgery. But his girlfriend, upset that she wasn't consulted, believes the money could've been better spent on her college debt. Now, he's caught in the crossfire, with friends siding with the girlfriend, and him wondering if he did something wrong. As the drama unfolds, we're left wondering - where does the balance lie between doing something nice for a loved one and considering the financial needs of a partner? Let's see what the internet has to say about this...💭
NTA. Girlfriend's entitlement to OP's money is a huge red flag 🚨

TastingTheKoolaid | TastingTheKoolaid
NTA: GF upset OP used money for mom's surgery instead of her 🙄

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
NTA. GF's entitlement and gold digger behavior is a major red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

BananaInAPajama | BananaInAPajama
NTA for paying for mom's surgery, but good luck with gf 😮

JBrewd | JBrewd
NTA: Generosity for mom, but GF's entitlement raises eyebrows 😮

Soft-Potato-8282 | Soft-Potato-8282
Girlfriend wants tens of thousands of dollars, insults mother 😮

HoleToad | HoleToad
NTA - Girlfriend wants control over your finances and decisions 😮

Kokbiel | Kokbiel
NTA for helping mom, GF needs to be more understanding 😮

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Mom > Girlfriend: NTA, your money, your decision 👏

shadowsofwho | shadowsofwho
NTA - Your money, your choice. Girlfriend needs to back off 🙄

Odd-Adhesiveness2540 | Odd-Adhesiveness2540
Girlfriend wants his money after only a year. NTA 🙏

The-spellmonger | The-spellmonger
NTA for paying for mom's surgery, girlfriend needs to communicate better 😮

RS3Taylor | RS3Taylor
Generous act causes girlfriend's entitlement, commenters support OP. 😮

Schrodingerstheory | Schrodingerstheory
NTA, girlfriend mad about mom's plastic surgery payment 😮

PomegranatePuppy | PomegranatePuppy
NTA. Your money, your choice. Your mom's self-esteem matters ❤️

nobobthisisnotyours | nobobthisisnotyours
NTA. Girlfriend's entitlement to your money is staggering 😮

Zealous_Zebras | Zealous_Zebras
NTA. Surprise surgery sparks girlfriend's financial expectations. 🤯

ET318 | ET318
NTA, but it's weird. How long have you been together? 💍

dajur1 | dajur1
Girlfriend wants wife-level requests on a girlfriend's salary 😬

nethecat | nethecat
Partner prioritizes mom's surgery over girlfriend's college debt 😱

rynknit | rynknit
NTA. Girlfriend wants your money? Set firm boundaries or leave.

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NTA. 🚩 Reconsider moving in with someone entitled to your money.

stunted_jest | stunted_jest
NTA- Your money, your choice! Dump her, she's entitled 🚫

Foster_NBA | Foster_NBA
NTA: Girlfriend's entitlement and jealousy over your mom's surgery 🙄

La_Murano | La_Murano
NTA: Money is yours, not greedy gf's. Thoughtful son 💰

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