Weddings are supposed to be joyous occasions, right? Full of love, laughter, and a little bit of chaos. But what happens when a distant relative decides to stir the pot and attempts to change your carefully planned wedding venue? And then, has the audacity to ask for your professional help for his business? Let’s dive into this matrimonial mayhem.
A Simple Wedding Plan

The Perfect Venue ️

The Unexpected Call

The Unwanted Advice

The Chain Reaction

The Family Feud

The Pre-Invitation Drama

The Business Request

The Double Standards

The Wedding Woes: A Summary
In a whirlwind of wedding planning, our groom-to-be and his fiancée find themselves in the midst of family drama, thanks to a distant relative, Steve. This ‘future cousin-in-law’ meddles in their venue choice, causing a family feud and even leading to some guests boycotting the event. Yet, when it comes to his business needs, Steve has no qualms about asking for professional help from the very person he’s upset. As the groom-to-be puts his foot down, refusing to lend his skills, tensions rise. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA and don’t change your banquet location for one. ️

NTA but fiancee’s conflict aversion is causing unnecessary tension. Communicate!

“NTA. Guy is a douche. Plan YOUR wedding for YOU! “

Future cousin-in-law meddles in wedding venue decision
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Keep toxic relatives at a distance. Choose your family. NTA.

“NTA. Your wife needs to grow a spine. Communication is key.”

NTA – Set boundaries and prioritize your wedding choices.

Stick to your original plan and avoid drama.

NTA, stand your ground and prioritize your wedding plans

Is the future wife prioritizing her family over her partner?

“NTA imo. Working for family tends not to go well in my experience. He will want it done cheap and keep moving the goalposts. Erm, thats it really. I am happy to work for people that are annoying / entitled. But I add a stupidity tax. I dont think you can really do that in this case. You might be (or at least seem) a bit TA if you make it sound like its a petty tit-for-tat thing though. Finding a more reasonable excuse than ‘Youre a twat’ shouldnt be too hard.”

Trust your instincts and set boundaries with dominating in-laws.

Cousin’s advice on venue sparks unnecessary drama.

Fiancee prioritizes everyone else over you on your wedding day

Engaging comment suggests alternative perspective on cousin’s innocuous concern

Overreacting to a simple traffic comment
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Polite disagreement over wedding suggestions, lost in translation

NTA, but is the drama blown out of proportion?

Wedding venue change without consent? Postpone and reassess!
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Is the mother being honest? Let’s dig deeper!

Traffic comment causes wedding drama. Spread the anger around.

Choosing your own family over meddling cousins.

Navigating family opinions and wedding planning drama

Curious about the fiance’s opinion? Share it in the comments!

Unresolved communication and payment issues cause wedding chaos.

NTA, take control and confront him directly!
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Curious about the family dynamics and missing wedding details

Engagingly dismissive NTA comment about a stupid issue

Married to a pushover? Get ready for wedding planning nightmares!

NTA: It’s your celebration, do it your way!

Dealing with ‘cousin Steve’: NTA, but try compromising with him
