Baby Drama: Wife Refuses Husband's Plan to Father Another Woman's Child! 😲

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Meet our heroine, a 32-year-old woman married to James, a loving man with an unconventional past. Before their marriage, James was a sperm donor for his friends Miranda and Vivian, resulting in a sweet little boy. Our heroine accepted this unique family setup, but things took a turn when Miranda and Vivian approached James to be a donor again. Now, she's caught in a whirlwind of emotions, questioning her stance and its impact on her marriage. Let's delve into this intriguing tale of love, family, and moral dilemmas. 😲👶

The Unconventional Family Setup 🏠

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Acceptance and Love ❤️

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Baby Plans in the Pipeline 👶

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A New Request 🙏

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The Unsettling Proposal 😰

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James Stands By His Wife 💑

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The Fallout Begins 😢

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The Moral Dilemma 🤔

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Clarifications and More 📝

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The Bond That Remains 🤝

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Unspoken Desires 💔

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The Past Agreement 👥

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A Tangled Web of Love, Family, and Morality! 😲💔

Our heroine finds herself in an emotional tug-of-war as her husband's past collides with their future. As they try to start their own family, James' past as a sperm donor for friends Miranda and Vivian resurfaces, leaving our heroine grappling with her feelings. While she's not against James donating, the thought of another woman carrying his child leaves her unsettled. As the drama unfolds, James stands by his wife, but the fallout begins. Miranda and Vivian restrict access to their son, causing emotional turmoil. Amidst all this, our heroine is left questioning - is she really in the wrong? Let's see how the internet weighs in on this complex situation... 🤔💔

NTA. Husband's friends demand she be okay with this? Disgusting! 😵

Xynic | Xynic

NTA. Vivian and Miranda are being incredibly unreasonable 😲

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NTA. They're obsessed with genetic link and hurting others for it. 😲

MamaC2011 | MamaC2011

Using children as weapons? That's a whole new low. 😲

loudent2 | loudent2

"NTA and neither is James, but my God, Miranda and Vivian are."

Sweeper1985 | Sweeper1985

NTA: OP's discomfort with husband fathering another woman's child is valid.

lovesjasmine | lovesjasmine

NTA: Setting boundaries and love shouldn't be restricted. 💜

TheRealChocolateFrog | TheRealChocolateFrog

🤔 NTA: Husband's dilemma of fathering another woman's child sparks debate.

FrontQuail | FrontQuail

🔥 NTA. Husband's involvement with child complicates family dynamics. 🔥

justatemp82 | justatemp82

NTA for setting boundaries and dealing with a complicated arrangement. 😲

UniqueLoginID | UniqueLoginID

NTA: Wife resents husband's plan to father another woman's child 😲

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NTA. Miranda and Vivian are being AHs about this. 😲

traipse75 | traipse75

ESH. Commenter criticizes OP and others for their behavior. 💔

Femmus | Femmus

Using a sperm donor with Miranda's egg could be an option 🙏

Kaleigh2486 | Kaleigh2486

"NTA! They refused to accept his answer? Unbelievable! 😲"

Fluwyn | Fluwyn

NTA OP. Red flag behavior and appalling use of child as bargaining tool. 🚩

LillytheFurkid | LillytheFurkid

Offering James to be a donor again after conception? Thoughts? 🤔

u_e_s_i | u_e_s_i

"NTA. Your feelings are valid. Your husband committed to one child/donation not multiple. Nor did he agree to put his life on hold, so they can have the family of their dreams. They need to respect you two as a couple as you learned to respect them and their family. Hopefully with time and once you conceive everyone involved will accept your decision, and all kids can have a close relationship." 💕

Curly-Pat | Curly-Pat

NAH but Yea you kind of are being selfish. 😲

burkeymonster | burkeymonster

NTA. Nontraditional family, grow up and accept James' answer. 👍

Blues-20 | Blues-20

Family dynamics causing tension over grandchild, commenter supports OP (NTA)

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