Meet our heroine, a 32-year-old woman married to James, a loving man with an unconventional past. Before their marriage, James was a sperm donor for his friends Miranda and Vivian, resulting in a sweet little boy. Our heroine accepted this unique family setup, but things took a turn when Miranda and Vivian approached James to be a donor again. Now, she’s caught in a whirlwind of emotions, questioning her stance and its impact on her marriage. Let’s delve into this intriguing tale of love, family, and moral dilemmas.
The Unconventional Family Setup

Acceptance and Love ❤️

Baby Plans in the Pipeline

A New Request

The Unsettling Proposal

James Stands By His Wife

The Fallout Begins

The Moral Dilemma

Clarifications and More

The Bond That Remains

Unspoken Desires

The Past Agreement

A Tangled Web of Love, Family, and Morality!
Our heroine finds herself in an emotional tug-of-war as her husband’s past collides with their future. As they try to start their own family, James’ past as a sperm donor for friends Miranda and Vivian resurfaces, leaving our heroine grappling with her feelings. While she’s not against James donating, the thought of another woman carrying his child leaves her unsettled. As the drama unfolds, James stands by his wife, but the fallout begins. Miranda and Vivian restrict access to their son, causing emotional turmoil. Amidst all this, our heroine is left questioning – is she really in the wrong? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this complex situation…
NTA. Husband’s friends demand she be okay with this? Disgusting!

NTA. Vivian and Miranda are being incredibly unreasonable
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NTA. They’re obsessed with genetic link and hurting others for it.

Using children as weapons? That’s a whole new low.

“NTA and neither is James, but my God, Miranda and Vivian are.”

NTA: OP’s discomfort with husband fathering another woman’s child is valid.

NTA: Setting boundaries and love shouldn’t be restricted.

NTA: Husband’s dilemma of fathering another woman’s child sparks debate.

NTA. Husband’s involvement with child complicates family dynamics.

NTA for setting boundaries and dealing with a complicated arrangement.

NTA: Wife resents husband’s plan to father another woman’s child
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NTA. Miranda and Vivian are being AHs about this.

ESH. Commenter criticizes OP and others for their behavior.

Using a sperm donor with Miranda’s egg could be an option

“NTA! They refused to accept his answer? Unbelievable! “

NTA OP. Red flag behavior and appalling use of child as bargaining tool.

Offering James to be a donor again after conception? Thoughts?

“NTA. Your feelings are valid. Your husband committed to one child/donation not multiple. Nor did he agree to put his life on hold, so they can have the family of their dreams. They need to respect you two as a couple as you learned to respect them and their family. Hopefully with time and once you conceive everyone involved will accept your decision, and all kids can have a close relationship.”

NAH but Yea you kind of are being selfish.

NTA. Nontraditional family, grow up and accept James’ answer.

Family dynamics causing tension over grandchild, commenter supports OP (NTA)
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