Imagine being uprooted from your home, friends, and a promising future, all because of a sibling's mistake. This is the tale of a 14-year-old girl who had to leave her life behind due to her brother's blunder. A tale of resentment, conflict, and a promise of revenge. Let's dive into the story that's got everyone talking! 😮🍿
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A Family Torn Apart: Who's the Real Culprit? 🤔💔
In a whirlwind of resentment and frustration, a young girl's life is turned upside down due to her brother's mistake. Forced to leave her friends, her promising future, and the city she loves, she's left grappling with the unfairness of it all. As the family sits around the dinner table, tensions boil over, leading to an explosive confrontation and a chilling threat. Who's the real villain in this family drama? Let's see what the internet has to say about this... 🍿🔥
NTA's life turned upside-down, but there's hope for a bright future! 👏
r491 | r491
🤣 NTA for calling out brother's racist actions, parents enable him
lita313 | lita313
Parents prioritize brother, leaving OP to deal with the consequences 😡
natyei | natyei
NTA, but life isn't fair. Learn from this and move on! 👍
littlepunkbree | littlepunkbree
🤔 INFO: What did he do? A racist rant gone wrong! 😱
aita-throwaya- | aita-throwaya-
Turning family drama into a powerful college app essay! 👌
sick_babe | sick_babe
ESH, internet is forever, but job prospects aren't doomed. 👍
xanif | xanif
Desperate for a solution? Reach out to extended family for help! 🙏
italy2986 | italy2986
NTA: Spreading his mistake around town - petty or justified? 👀
Odahviingnorok | Odahviingnorok
Blame your brother for upending your life? NTA, but...
Vinushka23 | Vinushka23
🎓 NTA. Brother's future in jeopardy due to foolish actions. 🤦♂️
wind-river7 | wind-river7
NTA. Brother's racist comment sparks debate, parents and bro TA.
Space_McFish | Space_McFish
Sibling conflict: NTA wants to leave home during quarantine 😔
QuitaQuites | QuitaQuites
Debater's entitlement exposed: YTA for not moving on. 😱
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Brother's racist actions cause turmoil, OP shouldn't have to forgive.
spriteincan | spriteincan
OP stands up against bigotry with support from commenters! 💪
efnfen4 | efnfen4
NTA, feeling wronged and helpless, find a way to thrive! 💪
AQualityKoalaTeacher | AQualityKoalaTeacher
ESH. Racism = NTA, but don't let high school drama consume you. 🙅
khag24 | khag24
NTA for being mad at your brother, but YTA for blackmail threat. 😱
BlamoBomb2299 | BlamoBomb2299
Teen rebels against injustice, ready to take on the world! 💪🏻
sunflowers1223 | sunflowers1223
Sibling drama: NAH, he messed up, but you're not the a**hole! 😱
GoodGuyScooby | GoodGuyScooby
NTA. Don't send the racist rant, let karma handle it 🙏
GeneralFakename | GeneralFakename
Brother's racist behavior causes chaos, sister threatens with college proof. 😱
pmw1981 | pmw1981
14-year-old's promise to brother deemed 'spiteful' by commenters. 😱
simjaang | simjaang
Inspiring story of resilience and future success! 🙌🏻
jamboraai | jamboraai
> So my parents & him decided to move to an entirely different state, in City Y, without consulting me at all. What the hell sort of parenting is that? I mean, if you were considering uprooting your whole family because of something stupid that one child did, would you not *at the very least* keep both kids in the loop as to what's being planned? Particularly when the non-guilty child is very active in a lot of extracurricular activities, which are simply not going to be available in the new city? Basically, what the hell is with effectively punishing child B based on what child A did? OP, are you able to have a conversation with your parents along the lines of, were they proud of you for your achievements in the debate circuit, for the connections you cultivated, all the other good things you did back in City X. And then ask if they knew how much poorer the opportunities for all those things would be in City Y (and realistically they must be, given how much smaller it is)? And then the follow-on is to ask them to help you understand how you're meant to feel, since this feels like *you* are being heavily punished by losing all those opportunities and connections that you'd worked so hard to make - particularly if your aunt in city X would actually be willing to let you live with her. I can understand that your parents wouldn't be keen on that as it would mean splitting up their family, but I think they're driving one hell of a wedge into it by having kept you in the dark and forced the move in the first place. Try and stay reasonable - show that you understand it might not be even possible for them to reverse the move given that jobs will have been changed etc - focus on the "I did X thing, you were proud of me for that, I enjoyed doing that, what can we do so that I can continue doing that?". Especially when your brother seems to have such a lack of remorse for his actions. For what's *actually been done*: Your brother is clearly TA for creating the whole situation and being so weakly and grudgingly apologetic. Your parents are TA for having planned and executed the entire move without even keeping you informed. I mean, I'm guessing they didn't as they could guess that you'd be extremely upset, but maybe that should've been a hint to them that they weren't necessarily making a fantastic decision. So as things stand: NTA It *would* be an asshole move to share screenshots and evidence with the admissions departments of other colleges - it would likely total his chances and destroy your relationship with both him and your parents. I'm just gonna say that, in your position, I could understand where you'd be coming from to do it.
ieya404 | ieya404
Zero tolerance for racism! Stand up against bigotry! 💪
IllustriousComplex6 | IllustriousComplex6
Forgiveness is key to happiness. Don't let bitterness consume you. 🙏
ifyouonlyknew1 | ifyouonlyknew1
Plot twist: Brother's past threatens his new school reputation! 😱
obsidian5889 | obsidian5889
Sibling rivalry escalates as parents enable brother's selfish behavior. 😱
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Bitter but productive: finding the silver lining in family drama. 😱
pntlesdevilsadvocate | pntlesdevilsadvocate
Threatening to sabotage your brother's plans? YTA, but understandable 😬
Dr_Fumblefingers_PhD | Dr_Fumblefingers_PhD
Navigating family drama: NTA for being upset, but YTA for blackmail. Seek help! 🙏
MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34
Don't stress, high school extracurriculars won't define your future! 🙌
Hunterofshadows | Hunterofshadows
Moving ruined my life, but I turned it around in college! 🙌
SammiKC | SammiKC
ESH for threatening parents, brother's mistake, and questionable move. 😱
Rambo1stBlood | Rambo1stBlood
Helpful advice for finding debate programs and leagues near you! 👍
BATMANS_MOM | BATMANS_MOM
Mature 14-year-old holds irresponsible brother accountable. NTA! 👏
NOLA1987 | NOLA1987
"NTA. Racists get no sympathy in the real world 🤯"
liveoutside_ | liveoutside_
Taking revenge on a brother who ruined everything. 👊
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Supportive comment empowers someone to embrace their inner boss 💪
Htoof | Htoof
ESH. Sacrificed future for brother. Emancipate, move back, live with friends. 👍
USSCofficail | USSCofficail
Family drama: Brother's racism, parents' coddling, and helpful advice! 🤔
Wizard072 | Wizard072
Encouragement to take action. Go for it! 💪
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ESH - Don't let hatred hinder your own development! 💪
manthb | manthb
Sibling injustice! 🤬 NTA, parents enabling brother's actions. 😡
AussieBelgian | AussieBelgian
Frustrated with family favoritism, running away may not solve anything. NTA 🙅
Vallhalla_Rising | Vallhalla_Rising
Supportive comment, expose the unapologetic racist! 👏
btwn_here_n_there | btwn_here_n_there
NTA: Overcoming adversity and proving your brother wrong with resilience! 💪
WolfKaiserin | WolfKaiserin
Empathy and support! NTA. Explore joining a nearby circuit team! 💪🏻
foreverjules | foreverjules
NTA. Stand your ground! Your brother messed up, not you! 💪
fartqueensupreme | fartqueensupreme
Sibling rivalry and political aspirations clash in this family drama! 👍
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Threatening to sabotage brother's future? YTA, but let's hear why.
DominusLuxic | DominusLuxic
Parents' decision to disrupt lives for brother sparks controversy. 🤔
missbaby23 | missbaby23
Sibling rivalry and unfair punishment! 😡
Tempest_of_Yiling | Tempest_of_Yiling
Focus on making things better for yourself, not blackmailing family. 🙏
Jayn_Newell | Jayn_Newell
