Ah, the age-old tradition of gossip! It’s a guilty pleasure we all indulge in, isn’t it? But what happens when the harmless chit-chat takes a dramatic turn? Meet Thomas, a well-meaning but slightly clueless friend, and his new girlfriend, who seems to have a knack for stirring the pot. When she starts spilling the group’s secrets, things get a little… complicated. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story!
Meet Thomas: The Unofficial Therapist ️

The Girlfriend Enters the Scene

The Unintentional Snitch ️♀️

Caught in the Act

The Subtle Changes

The Cryptic Confrontation ️♂️

The Sneaky Suspicions ️♀️

The Annoyance Builds

The Clarification

The Unresolved Issues

The Afterthoughts

The Acceptance ♀️

The Plan ️

A Twist in the Tale: When Gossip Backfires
So, our friend here found himself in a tricky situation when his buddy’s girlfriend turned out to be an unexpected snitch. The group’s secret chats, once a safe space, became a minefield of potential leaks. And the worst part? Their friend Thomas is none the wiser, resorting to sneaky tactics to uncover the truth. ️♂️ But hey, it’s not all doom and gloom! Our storyteller has a plan to address the issue head-on. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of secrets and suspicions… ️
NTA: Excluding a friend who lacks empathy and disregards boundaries.

“YTA. She’s not a snitch, you didn’t tell her otherwise.”

NTA. Friend doesn’t listen, GF snitches. Conversation boundaries crossed.

YTA for not communicating and expecting her to be a mind reader

GF blabs to BF despite exclusion, no right to be offended

Friend group drama: Thomas and his gf cause chaos and mistrust ♀️

Excluding Thomas from conversations? ESH. Here’s why ♀️

“Seriously, how old are y’all!? Sneaky behavior. YTA “

Loyalties, scheming, and acting 12. Everyone sucks here, geez!

“YTA for excluding his gf. You’re asking for judgement.”

Facing soap-opera-level complications with grace

Hypocritical gossiping: YTA for calling out someone’s spinelessness. ♀️

YTA: Couples talk and share, no secrets. Living on another planet

When acronyms go wrong: A hilarious miscommunication in the comments

“YTA You all sound passive aggressive. 100% agree.”

Esh, Thomas shouldn’t bait you guys. What did you expect?
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YTA for mistreating the gf. Apologize and treat her better ️♀️

Gossiping leads to unintended consequences. YTA for not clarifying boundaries.

Group hypocrisy and toxic dynamics. ESH

“YTA and you sound insufferable.” ️♀️ You’re all snakes.

Discussing behind someone’s back can make them self-conscious

NTA, set boundaries and communicate openly with your partner.

Changing the topic when a friend leaves? YTA!

YTA for expecting her to keep secrets from her boyfriend

Expecting his girlfriend not to talk to him? YTA

Unfair treatment of Thomas’ girlfriend causing unwelcome and bullying behavior

NTA: Trust your instincts and stand up for yourself!

Why be friends with the ‘just ackshually’ guy?

Unspoken rules lead to unexpected consequences. ♀️

Discussing everything with your spouse? YTA.

Outcast vibes: When you just don’t belong in the group

Thomas gives terrible advice and the group is being rude

“Trust issues and hurt feelings – time to ditch Thomas?”

Exclusion breeds betrayal. YTA for snubbing, she called you out.
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YTA and toxic – you and your friends deserve each other

Talking about personal matters in front of someone’s partner? YTA

Defending the ‘snitch’: YTA for blaming her, it’s his friendgroup.

YTA for not communicating. Immature to exclude girlfriend. Toxic social group.

YTA. Grow up and stop acting like children

YTA. Don’t expect her to keep secrets from her partner ️♀️

God you are such an a**hole! Grow up!

You’re the a**hole! Drama unfolds in the friend group ️♀️

“YTA for not keeping her secret! “

Avoiding gossipers in friend groups: NTA for setting boundaries

Expecting GF to keep secrets from BF is whacky and unfair.

NTA, but don’t be hypocrites. She was just as involved.

Gossiping is immature. Don’t expect secrets to stay secret
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Expecting loyalty from your friend’s girlfriend? YTA

Loose lips sink ships, but who’s the snitch? ️♀️

Middle school drama: Talking about others, getting mad, freezing out. YTA.

YTA for excluding him and expecting loyalty from his girlfriend

Gossiping: A toxic habit that brings out the worst in everyone

YTA: Excluding Thomas and expecting his girlfriend to choose y’all

Curious about the juicy update? Here’s the RMP!

NTA: Personal struggles are private, even with friends.

Not the a**hole. What happened? Spill the tea!

NTA. The problem is gone

Unapologetic NTA comment, no regrets, let it all out!

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!

NTA. Girlfriend’s loyalty to partner causes unexpected snitch situation.

NTA for being upset about the violation of trust

NTA, set boundaries with nosy friend and his girlfriend

When gossip gets juicy and everyone is nosy ️♀️

NAH – Loyalty and boundaries are key in friendship dynamics

Commenter accuses OP of being a YTA with a*hole personality
