When Gossip Goes Wrong: An Unexpected Snitch in the Friend Group 🕵️‍♀️🔍

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Diply | Diply

Ah, the age-old tradition of gossip! It's a guilty pleasure we all indulge in, isn't it? 😏 But what happens when the harmless chit-chat takes a dramatic turn? Meet Thomas, a well-meaning but slightly clueless friend, and his new girlfriend, who seems to have a knack for stirring the pot. 🍵🥄 When she starts spilling the group's secrets, things get a little... complicated. Let's dive into this rollercoaster of a story! 🎢

Meet Thomas: The Unofficial Therapist 🎓🛋️

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The Girlfriend Enters the Scene 💑

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The Unintentional Snitch 🕵️‍♀️🔍

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Caught in the Act 🎭

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The Subtle Changes 🔄

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The Cryptic Confrontation 🕵️‍♂️

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The Sneaky Suspicions 🕵️‍♀️🔍

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The Annoyance Builds 🙄

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The Clarification 📝

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The Unresolved Issues 🚧

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The Afterthoughts 💭

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The Acceptance 🤷‍♀️

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The Plan 🗓️

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A Twist in the Tale: When Gossip Backfires 😮‍💨

So, our friend here found himself in a tricky situation when his buddy's girlfriend turned out to be an unexpected snitch. 😲 The group's secret chats, once a safe space, became a minefield of potential leaks. 🤐 And the worst part? Their friend Thomas is none the wiser, resorting to sneaky tactics to uncover the truth. 🕵️‍♂️ But hey, it's not all doom and gloom! Our storyteller has a plan to address the issue head-on. 💪 Let's see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of secrets and suspicions... 🕸️

NTA: Excluding a friend who lacks empathy and disregards boundaries.

silentpotato | silentpotato

"YTA. She's not a snitch, you didn't tell her otherwise."

Invisibleamber | Invisibleamber

NTA. Friend doesn't listen, GF snitches. Conversation boundaries crossed. 😕

PacifistWarFreak | PacifistWarFreak

YTA for not communicating and expecting her to be a mind reader 🙄

yeet-im-bored | yeet-im-bored

GF blabs to BF despite exclusion, no right to be offended 🙄

Meghanshadow | Meghanshadow

Friend group drama: Thomas and his gf cause chaos and mistrust 🤦‍♀️

Radishes_are_delish | Radishes_are_delish

Excluding Thomas from conversations? ESH. Here's why 🤷‍♀️

isthatmycamera | isthatmycamera

"Seriously, how old are y'all!? Sneaky behavior. YTA 👆👆👆"

heyitsta12 | heyitsta12

Loyalties, scheming, and acting 12. Everyone sucks here, geez! 😳

Administrative_Sea15 | Administrative_Sea15

"YTA for excluding his gf. You're asking for judgement." 👎

Labelloenchanted | Labelloenchanted

Facing soap-opera-level complications with grace 🔍

b1lllevansatmariposa | b1lllevansatmariposa

Hypocritical gossiping: YTA for calling out someone's spinelessness. 🤷‍♀️

Lion-Competitive | Lion-Competitive

YTA: Couples talk and share, no secrets. Living on another planet 🚀

TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest

😂 When acronyms go wrong: A hilarious miscommunication in the comments

spanishbanana | spanishbanana

"YTA You all sound passive aggressive. 100% agree." 😬

Just_Statement767 | Just_Statement767

Esh, Thomas shouldn't bait you guys. What did you expect? 🙄

[deleted] | [deleted]

YTA for mistreating the gf. Apologize and treat her better 🕵️‍♀️

LilShortyMama | LilShortyMama

Gossiping leads to unintended consequences. YTA for not clarifying boundaries.

SaintNick24 | SaintNick24

Group hypocrisy and toxic dynamics. ESH 👿

pastrypuffcream | pastrypuffcream

"YTA and you sound insufferable." 🕵️‍♀️🔍 You're all snakes. 🐍

whatisthisbaguettery | whatisthisbaguettery

Discussing behind someone's back can make them self-conscious 😔

Wonderlustlost | Wonderlustlost

NTA, set boundaries and communicate openly with your partner. 👍

ResponsibilityOk5171 | ResponsibilityOk5171

Changing the topic when a friend leaves? YTA! 😱

Goiterr | Goiterr

YTA for expecting her to keep secrets from her boyfriend 🙄

Ditovontease | Ditovontease

Expecting his girlfriend not to talk to him? YTA 😱

SeaOk7514 | SeaOk7514

Unfair treatment of Thomas' girlfriend causing unwelcome and bullying behavior 😔

excel_pager_420 | excel_pager_420

NTA: Trust your instincts and stand up for yourself! 👏

Hapy_Bodybuilder9803 | Hapy_Bodybuilder9803

Why be friends with the 'just ackshually' guy? 🤔

Basic_Bichette | Basic_Bichette

Unspoken rules lead to unexpected consequences. 🤷‍♀️

Molenium | Molenium

Discussing everything with your spouse? YTA. 😑

everyonesmom2 | everyonesmom2

Outcast vibes: When you just don't belong in the group 😞

sheetmetaltom | sheetmetaltom

Thomas gives terrible advice and the group is being rude 😬

PanamaViejo | PanamaViejo

"Trust issues and hurt feelings - time to ditch Thomas?" 🤔

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Exclusion breeds betrayal. YTA for snubbing, she called you out.

[deleted] | [deleted]

YTA and toxic - you and your friends deserve each other 😈

YourCatChoseMeBirch | YourCatChoseMeBirch

Talking about personal matters in front of someone's partner? YTA 🙄

benji950 | benji950

Defending the 'snitch': YTA for blaming her, it's his friendgroup.

cornerlane | cornerlane

YTA for not communicating. Immature to exclude girlfriend. Toxic social group.

casadecruz | casadecruz

YTA. Grow up and stop acting like children 🙄

Ancient-Regular4007 | Ancient-Regular4007

YTA. Don't expect her to keep secrets from her partner 🕵️‍♀️

Exciting-Pension9416 | Exciting-Pension9416

🤬 God you are such an a**hole! Grow up! 🙄

East_Deer7419 | East_Deer7419

You're the a**hole! Drama unfolds in the friend group 🕵️‍♀️🔍

pannoonooo | pannoonooo

"YTA for not keeping her secret! 😱"

RedMarsRepublic | RedMarsRepublic

Avoiding gossipers in friend groups: NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Exi9r | Exi9r

Expecting GF to keep secrets from BF is whacky and unfair.

shontsu | shontsu

NTA, but don't be hypocrites. She was just as involved.

Ok-Replacement8262 | Ok-Replacement8262

Gossiping is immature. Don't expect secrets to stay secret 🙅

[deleted] | [deleted]

Expecting loyalty from your friend's girlfriend? YTA 🙄

soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018

Loose lips sink ships, but who's the snitch? 🕵️‍♀️🔍

Ladykaesong | Ladykaesong

Middle school drama: Talking about others, getting mad, freezing out. YTA.

BeetlesMa | BeetlesMa

YTA for excluding him and expecting loyalty from his girlfriend 👎

foreverlullaby | foreverlullaby

Gossiping: A toxic habit that brings out the worst in everyone 🤪

ccl-now | ccl-now

YTA: Excluding Thomas and expecting his girlfriend to choose y'all

Misty-Far | Misty-Far

Curious about the juicy update? Here's the RMP!

xxxxxliaxxxxx | xxxxxliaxxxxx

NTA: Personal struggles are private, even with friends. 🙏

Creative-Yoghurt1510 | Creative-Yoghurt1510

Not the a**hole. What happened? Spill the tea! 🚩

cassiesfeetpics | cassiesfeetpics

NTA. The problem is gone 🙌🏻

nvorx | nvorx

Unapologetic NTA comment, no regrets, let it all out! 👊

Tellthewholetrue | Tellthewholetrue

Not the a**hole. Let's hear the juicy details! 🤪

RemarkableLow6689 | RemarkableLow6689

NTA. Girlfriend's loyalty to partner causes unexpected snitch situation. 👮🏻💔

reentername | reentername

NTA for being upset about the violation of trust 🙅

nujkabob | nujkabob

NTA, set boundaries with nosy friend and his girlfriend 👍

GurElectronic4706 | GurElectronic4706

When gossip gets juicy and everyone is nosy 🕵️‍♀️🔍

StAlvis | StAlvis

NAH - Loyalty and boundaries are key in friendship dynamics 👭

Massive_Increase4234 | Massive_Increase4234

Commenter accuses OP of being a YTA with a*hole personality 😱

SailSignificant5812 | SailSignificant5812

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