Imagine opening your home to your younger brother and his girlfriend, only to have them take advantage of your kindness. This is the predicament of a 29-year-old woman who's been housing her jobless brother and his girlfriend for eight months. The couple moved in after their parents disapproved of their relationship. The woman thought she was providing temporary refuge, but now she's stuck playing the role of provider, maid, and, soon-to-be, godmother. What's a sister to do? 🤷♀️
Sister on the Verge: Will She Kick Out Her Freeloading Brother and Pregnant Girlfriend? 🏠🤰
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In a tale as old as time, a woman finds herself caught between family loyalty and self-preservation. She's been housing her unemployed brother and his girlfriend for eight months, providing for their needs, and even cleaning up after them. But the last straw comes when the couple reveals a pregnancy and expects her to play godmother, adding another mouth to feed. Frustrated and at her wits' end, she contemplates kicking out her brother in hopes he'll finally step up. The question remains: is she justified, or just heartless? Let's see what the internet thinks of this predicament... 🕵️♀️
NTA: Stop enabling their bad behavior and kick them out. 🚫
FlyGuy1922 | FlyGuy1922
Kick them out or be their mommy forever. Time to grow up! 🎓
silent_ehk | silent_ehk
NTA. Stop enabling them. They need to take responsibility for themselves. 🚩
[deleted] | [deleted]
"YTA why are you cooking, cleaning, housing and giving a daily allowance to two twenty-something adults?" 😳
All-I-See-Is-Ashes | All-I-See-Is-Ashes
NTA: Don't burn yourself to keep others warm. 💪
HIOP-Sartre | HIOP-Sartre
NTA: Set an ultimatum, they steal and laugh behind your back 🤰
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA - Irresponsible parents, kick out brother, give deadline for girlfriend
Plus-Call7280 | Plus-Call7280
NTA. Tough love for the freeloading brother and girlfriend. 🙌
Trick-Panda-7509 | Trick-Panda-7509
NTA, but enabling pushover = freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend 🤰
pamelaonthego | pamelaonthego
NTA: Kick them out before things get much worse! 🚨
Cr1v3ns | Cr1v3ns
Don't let them take advantage of your kindness! 🚨 Kick them out!
[deleted] | [deleted]
🚫 Kick them out! Your house, your rules! 🏠
Winter-Travel5749 | Winter-Travel5749
NTA. Lawyer up, evict them, and stop enabling their entitlement. 👏
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Enabling freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend, seek legal advice 🏠
kill4kandy | kill4kandy
Enabling freeloading brother and girlfriend. Time to take a stand! 🚨
Thisguy3738 | Thisguy3738
NTA. Tough love is necessary for them to grow up. 🙌
latristess | latristess
NTA: Give your brother one month to find a full-time job 👍
TabithaBe | TabithaBe
NTA: Don't let them take advantage, let the state handle it. 💯
oldspicehorse | oldspicehorse
Enabling freeloaders? Kick them out and save your money! 👊
[deleted] | [deleted]
Giving them a hard deadline to move out. YWNBTA. 👍
Mandalika | Mandalika
NTA! Kick them out and update us when it's done! 👏
Business_Night_5599 | Business_Night_5599
NTA. Kick them out and be done with it. 🤰
KingOfDarkness_CB | KingOfDarkness_CB
NTA, kick them out! Don't let their problems become yours 👍
Jazzlike-Village9159 | Jazzlike-Village9159
NTA: Don't let them take advantage of your kindness! 🙅
Srumlicious | Srumlicious
Commenter calls out OP for being gullible and predicts trouble.
Consistent-Job6841 | Consistent-Job6841
"YTA - You deserve a vacation! Stop being their bank account! 🏝🤰"
ForeignAssociation98 | ForeignAssociation98
Stop the leeches! Don't be an a**hole to yourself. 🚫
erosbabyy | erosbabyy
Don't be a doormat! Stand up for yourself! 🤰
JakeMeOffPlease | JakeMeOffPlease
Entitled freeloaders? Kick them out! You're not the a**hole. 👏
ArmNo8807 | ArmNo8807
"NTA, give them 2 months to find a job and income. Explain the financial and mental toll, and the consequences of having a baby with no income. 👍"
kriswiet | kriswiet
Kick them out and let your parents handle the situation! 👊
FlexibleMorality1 | FlexibleMorality1
Enabling freeloaders: ESH. Firm rules needed, time to grow up 🤰
[deleted] | [deleted]
Stop paying for them! Time for them to find work! 👊
Deathconciousness_ | Deathconciousness_
Enabling vs. Consequences: Are they manipulating you? 🤔
useragreement13 | useragreement13
You've been kind, it's your house, do as you please! 👍
No-Beginning-4400 | No-Beginning-4400
NTA. Freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend need a reality check 🚨
ConfettiXPetti | ConfettiXPetti
NTA: Kick them both out, an unforgiving dose of reality.
uptownbrowngirl | uptownbrowngirl
NTA: Stand your ground and break the chain of dependence! 👏
JenWello | JenWello
Generous sister enabling brother and pregnant girlfriend. NTA. Kick him out! 👊
skyblue7801 | skyblue7801
Nope. You're not the a**hole at all 😊
Rockycoffeewench | Rockycoffeewench
"NTA. Give your brother a time limit to find a job and warn him that if he doesn't do so they'll both be kicked out. That guy is going to be a father and cannot mooch off his sister for so long. Tell them that if they are going to stay at your house they have to atleast help around like laundry and dishes. And please stop their allowance."
shaikhalizayn | shaikhalizayn
NTA: Kick them out! No more allowance, make them uncomfortable! 😠
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA for wanting to kick them out, but soft YTA for even taking them in. Give them a short warning before evicting. It's not your responsibility. 🚫💰
OverallFennel2634 | OverallFennel2634
Stand your ground! Kick out the freeloading brother and girlfriend. 💪
Psychological_Ad3329 | Psychological_Ad3329
Time to kick them out! Don't let them leech on you 👊
lionbridges | lionbridges
Evict them! Stop catering to their needs. Be strong and think about yourself. 💪
Kashaya72 | Kashaya72
NTA: Kicking her out while pregnant is best for everyone. 👏
Own_Pop_9711 | Own_Pop_9711
Set a firm deadline or you'll support a deadbeat family. 👍
Rose212327 | Rose212327
Commenter urges kicking out freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend. 😱
fisherflat880 | fisherflat880
NTA: Signs of being an enabler and how to stop. 👍
RealisticWin3801 | RealisticWin3801
NTA- Kick them out, teach them to take care of themselves 💪
floatingvan | floatingvan
NTA. Kick them out and let them grow the f**k up. 👊
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA: Kick them out legally and enjoy your freedom! 💪
mh6797 | mh6797
Set ground rules or kick them out. NTA 🙅
Sweet_pea_girl | Sweet_pea_girl
NTA. Kick them out now or they'll keep using you. 👍
Flowerofiron | Flowerofiron
Stop enabling them! Give them 3 months notice to grow up. 🚨
KimmyStand | KimmyStand
NTA, but enabling them won't help. Kick them out ASAP! 🤰
dianaprince2022 | dianaprince2022
NTA: Set boundaries and kick them out for your own sanity. 🚩
jhyebert | jhyebert
Time to evict the leaches! Get them out of there! 👌
RegretOk194 | RegretOk194
NTA. Evict them now for their own sake and yours. 🙌
Admirable_Tie_303 | Admirable_Tie_303
NTA! Kick them out and let them figure out their lives 👏
thegloracle | thegloracle
NTA: Kick them out! They're taking advantage and don't care 🚫
watermelonsplenda | watermelonsplenda
"NTA. Evict them. Let them hit rock bottom for change. 👏"
Greyeyedqueen7 | Greyeyedqueen7
NTA: Freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend causing financial burden 👎
mstrss9 | mstrss9
Set a deadline and stick to it. No more freeloaders! 🙎
LunaMoonvox | LunaMoonvox
YTA- Enabling freeloading siblings, prepare for potential squatters. Time for peace. 💚
littlemushroom11 | littlemushroom11
NTA. Kick them out. They've had 8 months and they literally haven't done ANYTHING. And they stole from you? Nope, kick them out. Im sure they'll start working when someone isn't catering to their every whim. 💯
jumbledgarbagebrain | jumbledgarbagebrain
NTA: Helped brother, but they're taking advantage. Set a deadline.
boxedfoxes | boxedfoxes
Cut off their allowance and make them pay rent. NTA!
Indigo_3786 | Indigo_3786
🚫 Stop enabling them! Kick them out and take care of yourself.
WebbityWebbs | WebbityWebbs
Eviction notice. Stop enabling them. 🚫 NTA.
neworderfan | neworderfan
NTA: Stop the mooching! No daily allowance for freeloaders 🙅
Pyro_ManiacX | Pyro_ManiacX
NTA, time to tough love. Lock up your valuables 💀
EconomyVoice7358 | EconomyVoice7358
NTA. Kick them out; they'll either grow up or find someone else's generosity to abuse. 🙅
popcornnpickles | popcornnpickles
NTA, but you'd be a**hole to yourself if you don't kick them out ASAP. 😱
Boring-Foundation953 | Boring-Foundation953
OP's sister needs to kick out her freeloading brother and girlfriend! 🚨
Secret-9594 | Secret-9594
