Picture this: You've planned an epic 18th birthday surprise for your best friend, Lucy, involving a thrilling skydiving adventure. You've spent months organizing, shelled out hundreds of dollars, and even got your other friend, Rachel, on board. But then, Lucy drops a bombshell: she's ditched your plans to cover a shift for her crush at work. What would you do? 😲💔✈️

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Skydiving Ditched for a Crush: A Birthday Betrayal? 😲💔
So there you have it, folks! A meticulously planned skydiving adventure for Lucy's 18th birthday, derailed by a last-minute work shift switch for her crush. Despite the non-refundable skydiving tickets, the booked hotel, and the emotional investment, Lucy chose a guy over her friends. Is this a simple case of teenage infatuation, or a betrayal of friendship? And what would you do if you were in their shoes? Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this sky-high drama! 🍿💬
NTA. Skydiving plans ruined by emotional friend, consequences faced. Have fun!

Infinite-Picture5779 | Infinite-Picture5779
NTA: Friend ruins own birthday, blames coworker and crush. 🙄

Zeldanerds | Zeldanerds
NTA. She chose her crush over work. 💔

ClassicCityMatt | ClassicCityMatt
NTA. Wasted ticket sucks, but don't bend over backwards for Lucy. Her loss. 💔

boniemonie | boniemonie
NTA NTA NTA - He has a girlfriend already. Run!

Kereceres | Kereceres
Skydiving adventure sparks new friendship. NTA, have a blast! 🎂

Magaimagado | Magaimagado
NTA, ignore emotional manipulation, go skydiving and have a great day! 👍

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NTA - Consequences of her actions. Have fun with someone else!

snarkisms | snarkisms
NTA: She brought it upon herself. No whining allowed. 🙅

schneckeTRAINrolzSLO | schneckeTRAINrolzSLO
Friendship betrayal: Don't let her guilt you, enjoy yourselves! 😊

cherryblossom1994 | cherryblossom1994
No refunds for skydiving reservation, OP is not the a**hole! 👏

maddr_lurker | maddr_lurker
Friendship fiasco: NTA, hope she realizes her mistake. Skydiving fun!

Conscious_Caramel614 | Conscious_Caramel614
"All because I had to work" - NTA, work-life balance drama 😱

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NTA: Crush's girlfriend should see the fun and dinner pics! 👍

arahzel | arahzel
NTA: Birthday shift swap regrets, no emergency, just curiosity.

littlewitten | littlewitten
NTA: Going all out to make her birthday special 🎂

Healthy_Menu1457 | Healthy_Menu1457
Celebrate guilt-free! Enjoy your day, you're not the a**hole! 🎂

Monicawroteitbetter | Monicawroteitbetter
Teaching a lesson: NTA for not tolerating friend's unhealthy obsession 👍

KuzyBeCackling | KuzyBeCackling
NTA. Lucy's missing out on an amazing experience! 😝

Practical_Future4709 | Practical_Future4709
"Dumping the girlfriend for the friend? Time for a talk."

DeerDragon3E | DeerDragon3E
NTA. Enjoy your birthday without her, she made her choice 🤷♂️

Many-Rest | Many-Rest
NTA - Work on your birthday, not worth losing over men 👮♀️

AreWeFlippinThereYet | AreWeFlippinThereYet
NTA. Crush gives up birthday plans, it's kinda pathetic. Skydiving FTW! 🙌

cassowary32 | cassowary32
Lucy's flakiness and prioritizing crushes over friends is a major bummer. NTA. 😔

Affectionate_Salt351 | Affectionate_Salt351
Sistahs before mistahs! NTA - have fun and enjoy yourself! 👏

Bluebird-True | Bluebird-True
A friendship worth skydiving for! 💔

midnightstreetlamps | midnightstreetlamps
NTA: Your friend prioritized a guy over your friendship 🚩

calla_l1ll135 | calla_l1ll135
NTA! Send her “wish you were here” pics and plan dinner!

MountainTomato9292 | MountainTomato9292
Thoughtful gift for her birthday, but she's targeting taken guys? 🤔

CopperTressedHotMess | CopperTressedHotMess
Don't waste money, go skydiving without her! 🙌

AveryAverina | AveryAverina
Cut ties with Lucy and enjoy your trip! 🎂✈️💔

coatrack68 | coatrack68
NTA: She made her own bed and now can't skydive. 🤷♂️

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Ditch the friend who prioritizes guys over your friendship! 💔

uffdamaynard | uffdamaynard
Looking for a third wheel for their skydiving adventure! 😜

Unwitting_Aquarius | Unwitting_Aquarius
NTA. Share your update on the skydiving fiasco! 💔

Wise_Entertainer_970 | Wise_Entertainer_970
Missed out on skydiving for a 12-hour shift? 😱

Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057
NTA. Inconsiderate friend ruins skydiving plans. Find new adventure buddy! 🤝

JCBashBash | JCBashBash
NTA. Friend prioritizes work over friendship for stupid reasons. 🙄

MildAsSriracha | MildAsSriracha
NTA, go skydiving and continue plans without her 💪

Repulsive-Nerve5127 | Repulsive-Nerve5127
NTA: Skydiving without her? She'll regret not being there! 🙌🏻

Me_Speak_Good | Me_Speak_Good
NTA. Lucy's future cringe-worthy interaction. 😅

codeverity | codeverity
She's the a**hole. 🤮

buggaloo04 | buggaloo04
NTA. You made plans and paid, she chose work over you. 🙄

MasterOfRNoSleep | MasterOfRNoSleep
Age gap and unavailability make it clear: NTA! 😊

riotreality006 | riotreality006
Cutting off toxic people: NTA, time to prioritize self-care 👍

Illustrious_Low_2211 | Illustrious_Low_2211
NTA. She's not best friend material. 🙄

Salz78 | Salz78
NTA, your friend is an idiot! Enjoy skydiving 🪂💔

Why_r_people_ | Why_r_people_
NTA: Shitty friend needs to grow up! 👍

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Don't let a double-booking ruin your epic adventure! 💪

mwenechanga | mwenechanga
NTA: You're a good friend 👍

brencoop | brencoop
Friendship betrayed: NTA's efforts unappreciated. Enjoy skydiving solo! 🎂

SammyLoops1 | SammyLoops1
NTA. Enjoy the thrill of skydiving without any guilt! 🙌

Gain-Outrageous | Gain-Outrageous
Friend's inability to say no is concerning for her future 😔

Thunderplant | Thunderplant
Lucy's fear leads to a flirtatious fiasco. NTA for sure! 😊

Ok-Cockroach2351 | Ok-Cockroach2351
NTA. Turning down extra shift on birthday, probably cheating.

This-Persona | This-Persona
Lucy's crush on an older guy backfires, no birthday celebration!

GardenSafe8519 | GardenSafe8519
NTA. Prioritizing friendship over crush and being honest about plans 👍

CRN23-4137 | CRN23-4137
Controversial comment sparks debate about children's behavior. 🤔

Lythieus | Lythieus
Friendship vs. Flirtation: Priorities and Logic Clash! 💔

guineapickle | guineapickle
Choosing a crush over friends? NTA, give Lucy a reality check! 😉

venr_vals | venr_vals
Friendship tested: Skydiving trip ditched for forgetful guy? 💥

NotAlicelnWonderland | NotAlicelnWonderland
Easy NTA. No a-hole here. 👍

Pale_Height_1251 | Pale_Height_1251
NTA. Double standards and cancelled plans for potential sex? 🙄

Mabusmoriah | Mabusmoriah
NTA: She's dense. Friendship or flirtation gone wrong? 😱

Socratic_DayDreams | Socratic_DayDreams
Cut ties with a toxic friend and prioritize true friendship.

0B-A-E0 | 0B-A-E0
No regrets! She made her choice, enjoy the adventure together! 😎

MindlessBunch5122 | MindlessBunch5122
Generous friend receives praise for birthday skydiving adventure! 👏

sage_ley | sage_ley
Crush favors on her birthday? NTA, that's on her 😍

TXJiangui | TXJiangui
Skydiving: The ultimate high! Sharing the experience makes it unforgettable! 🎂✈️💔

DolphinDarko | DolphinDarko
Boy crazy girl gets called out. 🙄

ChaosAndMischeif | ChaosAndMischeif
Lucy's selfishness ruined her friends' birthday plans. 😑

cplmomma2004 | cplmomma2004
Regret and lost friendships await her once the bubble bursts. 💔

LiLadybug81 | LiLadybug81
Friendship tested: Birthday plans ruined by disrespectful last-minute change! 😢

Advanced-Meaning-393 | Advanced-Meaning-393
NTA: Spilling the tea on ex friend's missed love connection! 💔

Tonya-burner | Tonya-burner
Skydiving or love? Age won't stop this adventurous spirit! 🎂✈️💔

RelationshipSad2300 | RelationshipSad2300
Lucy's betrayal: NTA discovers true colors. Friendship shattered. 😢

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs