19-Year-Old Girl Stands Her Ground Against Family Expectations!👊

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Meet our 19-year-old heroine, juggling university, a part-time job, and an impending addition to her family. Her dad and his wife are expecting a baby, and they seem to have some 'interesting' expectations of their daughter. They've been hinting, and not so subtly, that she should be ready to step in as a part-time caregiver for her soon-to-be-born brother. But our young scholar has her own life to lead, and she's not ready to trade her textbooks for diapers just yet. Let's dive into this family drama and see how it unfolds.🍿

A New Sibling on the Horizon👶

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The 'Jokes' Begin😅

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When Humor Turns Serious😳

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The Expectations Escalate📈

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Standing Her Ground💪

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Family Backlash😧

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Doubts Creep In🤔

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Caught in a Family Crossfire, Is She Being Selfish?😕

Our young protagonist finds herself in a tough spot. She's excited about her soon-to-be-born brother, but the expectations from her family are overwhelming. They want her to be a part-time caregiver, but she's got her own life to lead, filled with university and work. Despite standing her ground, she's now being labeled as a 'brat' by her family. Is she being selfish, or is she just trying to live her life on her own terms? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...🌐

NTA: Standing up against unreasonable family expectations 👊

Chairchucker | Chairchucker

NTA. Hilarious rant about parents expecting older kids to raise siblings! 😂

SoberBlitzen | SoberBlitzen

NTA. Stand your ground against entitled family expectations! 👊

Lemon_Pledge40 | Lemon_Pledge40

"NTA. Your dad's request is selfish and unfair. 💼👶"

sivheidrun | sivheidrun

NTA. Stand your ground against unfair family expectations! 👊

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Debating the role of older siblings in caregiving responsibilities. 🤔

Onbekend_ | Onbekend_

NTA: Stand your ground! Your dad didn't care before, why now? 🙅

ThatB1tchIrene | ThatB1tchIrene

NTA. Family using FOG to avoid responsibilities. Engaging comeback!

rougatre7 | rougatre7

Stand your ground! Don't let them guilt you. You're NTA 👊

throwaway19874874 | throwaway19874874

NTA, prioritize your studies and your own well-being first! 👏

bethfawn | bethfawn

Stand your ground! Don't let him treat you like a nanny. 👊

IPretendIMatter | IPretendIMatter

Family unaware of extent of expectations. NTA for standing up!

mortstheonlyboyineed | mortstheonlyboyineed

NTA. Stand up for yourself and prioritize your own plans! 👊

Triggeredt | Triggeredt

Dad wants a live-in nanny, not a daughter. NTA! 🙌

MrsPandaBear | MrsPandaBear

NTA! Stand your ground against unreasonable family expectations! 👊

PuffyPinkCow1 | PuffyPinkCow1

Standing up to family expectations? Piece of cake! 👊

iSlyyy | iSlyyy

NTA - You don't owe them anything. Move out! 🙌

idontwannapeople | idontwannapeople

"NTA. Don't let your dad's choices hold you back! 👊"

WarpedCorg | WarpedCorg

NTA - Older kids not forced to help, only paid occasionally. Do you have somewhere to go if things get worse? 😮

CadenceQuandry | CadenceQuandry

INFO: Relatives too busy babysitting single mom aunt's kid at hospital

morgisartre | morgisartre

Stand your ground! Move out and live your best life! 👊

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Age difference causes inappropriate behavior, NTA stands her ground! 👊

kokolkol | kokolkol

NTA. Expensive IVF, no nanny, but dad paid for it?!

thin_white_dutchess | thin_white_dutchess

NTA: Family wanted a baby, now they better buckle up! 👊

SqueaksScreech | SqueaksScreech

NTA: Not your kid, not your problem. 🙄

JaySSSC | JaySSSC

Stand your ground and prioritize your own future! 👊

Suelswalker | Suelswalker

Heartbreaking story of a young person trapped in a tough situation 😢

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Toxic family? Stand your ground and live your best life! 👊

Server_Administrator | Server_Administrator

NTA: Wanting to help, but they're not the parents. 👊

razora99 | razora99

Stand up for yourself! Don't let them take advantage of you. 💪

mosslegs | mosslegs

Stand your ground! You're not their free nanny! 👊

Dogismygod | Dogismygod

NTA. You're not obligated to parent your baby brother. 👏

TheMillennialDiaries | TheMillennialDiaries

You're not the a**hole for setting boundaries with your family! 👊

lost-cannuck | lost-cannuck

NTA: Standing up to unreasonable family expectations. 👊

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OP's mom is missing in action! NTA, but stepmom's silent agreement 🤔

1neitherherenorthere | 1neitherherenorthere

Setting boundaries with family expectations. Not your baby, not your responsibility. 👊

Far-Honey | Far-Honey

Fighting family expectations: NTA for standing up for yourself! 👊

AnteKrist | AnteKrist

NTA. Stand your ground and prioritize your own well-being! 👊

bigfatgato | bigfatgato

Already burdened with family expectations before the kid's arrival. 😱

Poddytat | Poddytat

NTA. Asking you to pause your life for them? 🙄

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

NTA: Stand up for yourself and your future, not their expectations! 👊

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Standing up for yourself against family expectations! 💪

Vickimae44 | Vickimae44

You're not responsible! They planned the kid, not you. 👊

JMLKO | JMLKO

Escape now or face the same fate! 😱

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NTA - absolutely not. Stand your ground! 👊

Johciee | Johciee

Granddaughter refuses to quit job to babysit siblings. NTA! 👊

implodemode | implodemode

Stand your ground and commit to moving out before the baby! 👊

theccanyon | theccanyon

NTA. Expecting a break after conceiving? Think again! 😱

i-contain-multitudes | i-contain-multitudes

"NTA They want a break from parenting? That's their responsibility! 😒"

sveccha | sveccha

NTA, stand your ground and prioritize yourself first! 👊

G8RTOAD | G8RTOAD

Don't let guilt manipulate you into being a parent figure! 🙏

blazednamazed97 | blazednamazed97

NTA: Balancing work and study while dealing with family pressure! 🙌

ontherailstoday | ontherailstoday

Teenager pushed to be a third parent? NTA! 🙏

Pantherdraws | Pantherdraws

NTA stands up to family's unrealistic expectations. 😱

TwistedxBoi | TwistedxBoi

Standing up for personal boundaries and work-life balance! 👊

thecowley | thecowley

NTA! Stand your ground and move out for your freedom! 👊

DarkInside69 | DarkInside69

NTA, your dad is unbelievable! Stand your ground! 👊

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