Unexpected Visitor: The Ex-Boyfriend's Surprise College Visit Turns into a Nightmare! 😱

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Picture this: You're a college student, studying for an important exam when you get an unexpected visitor. It's your ex-boyfriend, Jon, who you tried to break up with, but he just wouldn't accept it. He's traveled across states, without a car, to surprise you at your dorm. But here's the twist: You've realized you're a lesbian and have been trying to get him to understand that. What would you do? 🤔💔

The Persistent Ex-Boyfriend 🙄

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The Unaccepted Revelation 😳

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The Unwanted Surprise 😲

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The Unbelievable Reality 😱

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The Panic Mode 😨

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The Aftermath 📱

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The Angry Texts 😡

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The Blame Game 😤

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The Guilt Trip 😔

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The Emotional Turmoil 🌪️

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The Self-Reflection 🤔

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The Coming Out 🌈

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The Guilt and Confusion 😔🌀

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A Tale of Unwanted Persistence, Unaccepted Truths, and Unforeseen Consequences 🎭

In a whirlwind of emotions, our college student finds herself in a predicament that she never saw coming. Her ex-boyfriend, Jon, shows up uninvited to her college dorm, hoping to mend their relationship. But she's been trying to explain to him that she's a lesbian, a truth he refuses to accept. What follows is a series of dramatic events, filled with anger, guilt, and confusion. As she navigates this emotional rollercoaster, she questions her actions and their consequences. Did she do the right thing? Or should she have handled it differently? Let's delve into the internet's reactions to this complex situation... 🕵️‍♀️🔍

NTA - Ex-boyfriend's refusal to accept breakup turns dangerous. Be careful! 😱

No-Giraffe-438 | No-Giraffe-438

Ex-boyfriend turned stalker: Protect yourself and cut all ties! 😱

ed_lv | ed_lv

"NTA. Treat Jon as the potential danger he is. Security needed to be called. You did nothing wrong." 🙏

thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm

Safety first! Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit raises red flags. 🚨

NotGayJustEatinGood | NotGayJustEatinGood

"NTA. He's crossed into stalker territory. Change your number ASAP!" 😱

spiccy_puta | spiccy_puta

NTA. Ex-boyfriend turned stalker, take legal action for your safety! 😱

Some-Astronaut-6907 | Some-Astronaut-6907

RA saves the day! A true hero in a nightmare situation! 👏

teeterleeter | teeterleeter

Stalker ex-boyfriend surprises in college, NTA. Document and seek help! 😱

LavingtonWindsor | LavingtonWindsor

NTA...Honesty and boundaries are key. Stay safe! 🙏

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

NTA - Ex-boyfriend's obsession: don't let him manipulate you! 😱

Aestro17 | Aestro17

NTA - You have the right to leave and be respected 👏

yeet-im-bored | yeet-im-bored

NTA. Ex-boyfriend surprises lesbian ex-girlfriend, she feels guilty for leading him on.

triggerhappypoptarts | triggerhappypoptarts

NTA. Uninvited ex-boyfriend's visit turns into a nightmare! Stay safe! 😱

the-benn-experience | the-benn-experience

"NTA - Cut contact, he's escalating to dangerous stalking. 🚩"

_teddybelle | _teddybelle

"NTA. Block and delete. His mom can't make rent? 🤦‍♂️"

Head_Pumpkin3329 | Head_Pumpkin3329

NTA for breaking up. Ex's surprise visit was not okay! 😱

SoImaRedditUserNow | SoImaRedditUserNow

Supportive comment and advice for dealing with a toxic ex-boyfriend 👏

countermelody28 | countermelody28

🚩 NTA: Ex-boyfriend is a walking red flag. Get a restraining order!

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You're not responsible for his behavior. You're NTA! 👏

redditnewbye | redditnewbye

NTA: Jon's behavior is unacceptable. Document everything and get a restraining order. 😱

MightyHydrar | MightyHydrar

NTA: Take precautions, gather evidence, and stay safe from ex-boyfriend! 😱

Kimboleigh | Kimboleigh

Supportive comments help OP overcome guilt and embrace her identity 👏

UndecidedQueer | UndecidedQueer

Stalker ex? NTA! Protect yourself & get a restraining order! 😱

May_I_inquire | May_I_inquire

NTA! Stand your ground and protect yourself. Get a restraining order! 🚨

Intelligent-Help8946 | Intelligent-Help8946

Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a manipulative nightmare. NTA! 😱

Enabling_Turtle | Enabling_Turtle

NTA, treat him as a stalker 😱

ablondedude777 | ablondedude777

Dodged a bullet! NTA. He's responsible for his own mess. 💪

mrbuddhawannabe | mrbuddhawannabe

NTA. Protect yourself! Troubling behavior from ex-boyfriend. 😱

Salz78 | Salz78

Breaking up doesn't need to be mutual. Seek help! 🙏

MadFollowing | MadFollowing

Take action! Contact the police and get a restraining order! 🚨

BoringSignal8714 | BoringSignal8714

"NTA. Your ex was stalking you. He showed up unannounced. He was totally in the wrong. His behaviour was really weird and I think you sensed that (hence the panic on your face when the RA showed up). If you'd engaged with him at all, you would have been caught up in his drama. At best you'd have lost your study time. At worst you might have been been in danger. Men who can't accept a woman's clear boundaries and who make grand gestures like flying to visit unannounced (knowing they aren't welcome) are likely to be unhinged and unpredictable. Good for you. Don't let him or anyone else make you doubt yourself. You made the right and sane decision. Without a doubt."

I-love-CERN | I-love-CERN

Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a manipulative nightmare! 😱

lellyla | lellyla

Protect yourself! Seek legal help to stop the nightmare! 🙏

lochnessrunner | lochnessrunner

NTA. Ex's surprise visit turns into nightmare. Stay safe! 😱


NTA shuts down ex-boyfriend's surprise visit with a fiery response! 💥

HisBaeBee | HisBaeBee

Dumped ex-boyfriend turns creepy and scary, stay safe! 😱

SmallestMonster | SmallestMonster

NTA. Stalking? This ex-boyfriend visit turned into a nightmare! 😱

Dessert_Bobbler | Dessert_Bobbler

NTA! You handled the stalker situation perfectly. Stay safe 🙏

rapt2right | rapt2right

Cut off contact! You did the right thing. 😱

pookguyinc | pookguyinc

NTA! Get a restraining order ASAP and inform your college!

purple_yosher | purple_yosher

"Stalker ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited! Stay safe and assertive!" 😱

Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

"NTA. Ex's creepy behavior after breakup is definitely disturbing 😱"

BarracudaGullible | BarracudaGullible

NTA: Report to the police for this horrifying harassment! 😱

Educational-Truth479 | Educational-Truth479

Commenter not at fault for ex-boyfriend's financial consequences. NTA! 👍

According_Version_67 | According_Version_67

Scary ex-boyfriend? NTA! Consider a restraining order! 😱

BBS_22 | BBS_22

NTA - Trusting the RA was a smart move! Good luck!

Bearboots2 | Bearboots2

Ex-boyfriend's stalking nightmare: NTA for breaking up, he crossed boundaries 😱

TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy

"Ex won't take the hint and turns into 'nice guy'"

shadow-foxe | shadow-foxe

NTA but be careful! Don't feel guilty for breaking up. 🙏

Background_Ruin_3631 | Background_Ruin_3631

Taking legal action to protect yourself from an ex-boyfriend. NTA! 🙌

friendlily | friendlily

NTA. Dumped ex tries to guilt trip and invade your space 💯

forgottenenvies | forgottenenvies

NTA - Sexual orientation irrelevant. You broke up, he can't force.

KeepLkngForIntllgnce | KeepLkngForIntllgnce

Empathy and understanding for OP's difficult situation. 💚

hollsballs95 | hollsballs95

"NTA - Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit crosses boundaries. Stay safe, OP! 😱"

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NTA. Ex-boyfriend's dangerous visit. Stay safe and don't trust him.

JanusIsBlue | JanusIsBlue

Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a guilt-tripping nightmare! 😱


Scary ex-boyfriend visit! Stay safe! 😱

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