Picture this: You're a college student, studying for an important exam when you get an unexpected visitor. It's your ex-boyfriend, Jon, who you tried to break up with, but he just wouldn't accept it. He's traveled across states, without a car, to surprise you at your dorm. But here's the twist: You've realized you're a lesbian and have been trying to get him to understand that. What would you do? 🤔💔
Unexpected Visitor: The Ex-Boyfriend's Surprise College Visit Turns into a Nightmare! 😱
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A Tale of Unwanted Persistence, Unaccepted Truths, and Unforeseen Consequences 🎭
In a whirlwind of emotions, our college student finds herself in a predicament that she never saw coming. Her ex-boyfriend, Jon, shows up uninvited to her college dorm, hoping to mend their relationship. But she's been trying to explain to him that she's a lesbian, a truth he refuses to accept. What follows is a series of dramatic events, filled with anger, guilt, and confusion. As she navigates this emotional rollercoaster, she questions her actions and their consequences. Did she do the right thing? Or should she have handled it differently? Let's delve into the internet's reactions to this complex situation... 🕵️♀️🔍
NTA - Ex-boyfriend's refusal to accept breakup turns dangerous. Be careful! 😱
No-Giraffe-438 | No-Giraffe-438
Ex-boyfriend turned stalker: Protect yourself and cut all ties! 😱
ed_lv | ed_lv
"NTA. Treat Jon as the potential danger he is. Security needed to be called. You did nothing wrong." 🙏
thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm
Safety first! Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit raises red flags. 🚨
NotGayJustEatinGood | NotGayJustEatinGood
"NTA. He's crossed into stalker territory. Change your number ASAP!" 😱
spiccy_puta | spiccy_puta
NTA. Ex-boyfriend turned stalker, take legal action for your safety! 😱
Some-Astronaut-6907 | Some-Astronaut-6907
RA saves the day! A true hero in a nightmare situation! 👏
teeterleeter | teeterleeter
Stalker ex-boyfriend surprises in college, NTA. Document and seek help! 😱
LavingtonWindsor | LavingtonWindsor
NTA...Honesty and boundaries are key. Stay safe! 🙏
RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie
NTA - Ex-boyfriend's obsession: don't let him manipulate you! 😱
Aestro17 | Aestro17
NTA - You have the right to leave and be respected 👏
yeet-im-bored | yeet-im-bored
NTA. Ex-boyfriend surprises lesbian ex-girlfriend, she feels guilty for leading him on.
triggerhappypoptarts | triggerhappypoptarts
NTA. Uninvited ex-boyfriend's visit turns into a nightmare! Stay safe! 😱
the-benn-experience | the-benn-experience
"NTA - Cut contact, he's escalating to dangerous stalking. 🚩"
_teddybelle | _teddybelle
"NTA. Block and delete. His mom can't make rent? 🤦♂️"
Head_Pumpkin3329 | Head_Pumpkin3329
NTA for breaking up. Ex's surprise visit was not okay! 😱
SoImaRedditUserNow | SoImaRedditUserNow
Supportive comment and advice for dealing with a toxic ex-boyfriend 👏
countermelody28 | countermelody28
🚩 NTA: Ex-boyfriend is a walking red flag. Get a restraining order!
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You're not responsible for his behavior. You're NTA! 👏
redditnewbye | redditnewbye
NTA: Jon's behavior is unacceptable. Document everything and get a restraining order. 😱
MightyHydrar | MightyHydrar
NTA: Take precautions, gather evidence, and stay safe from ex-boyfriend! 😱
Kimboleigh | Kimboleigh
Supportive comments help OP overcome guilt and embrace her identity 👏
UndecidedQueer | UndecidedQueer
Stalker ex? NTA! Protect yourself & get a restraining order! 😱
May_I_inquire | May_I_inquire
NTA! Stand your ground and protect yourself. Get a restraining order! 🚨
Intelligent-Help8946 | Intelligent-Help8946
Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a manipulative nightmare. NTA! 😱
Enabling_Turtle | Enabling_Turtle
NTA, treat him as a stalker 😱
ablondedude777 | ablondedude777
Dodged a bullet! NTA. He's responsible for his own mess. 💪
mrbuddhawannabe | mrbuddhawannabe
NTA. Protect yourself! Troubling behavior from ex-boyfriend. 😱
Salz78 | Salz78
Breaking up doesn't need to be mutual. Seek help! 🙏
MadFollowing | MadFollowing
Take action! Contact the police and get a restraining order! 🚨
BoringSignal8714 | BoringSignal8714
"NTA. Your ex was stalking you. He showed up unannounced. He was totally in the wrong. His behaviour was really weird and I think you sensed that (hence the panic on your face when the RA showed up). If you'd engaged with him at all, you would have been caught up in his drama. At best you'd have lost your study time. At worst you might have been been in danger. Men who can't accept a woman's clear boundaries and who make grand gestures like flying to visit unannounced (knowing they aren't welcome) are likely to be unhinged and unpredictable. Good for you. Don't let him or anyone else make you doubt yourself. You made the right and sane decision. Without a doubt."
I-love-CERN | I-love-CERN
Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a manipulative nightmare! 😱
lellyla | lellyla
Protect yourself! Seek legal help to stop the nightmare! 🙏
lochnessrunner | lochnessrunner
NTA. Ex's surprise visit turns into nightmare. Stay safe! 😱
BSnIA | BSnIA
NTA shuts down ex-boyfriend's surprise visit with a fiery response! 💥
HisBaeBee | HisBaeBee
Dumped ex-boyfriend turns creepy and scary, stay safe! 😱
SmallestMonster | SmallestMonster
NTA. Stalking? This ex-boyfriend visit turned into a nightmare! 😱
Dessert_Bobbler | Dessert_Bobbler
NTA! You handled the stalker situation perfectly. Stay safe 🙏
rapt2right | rapt2right
Cut off contact! You did the right thing. 😱
pookguyinc | pookguyinc
NTA! Get a restraining order ASAP and inform your college!
purple_yosher | purple_yosher
"Stalker ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited! Stay safe and assertive!" 😱
Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340
"NTA. Ex's creepy behavior after breakup is definitely disturbing 😱"
BarracudaGullible | BarracudaGullible
NTA: Report to the police for this horrifying harassment! 😱
Educational-Truth479 | Educational-Truth479
Commenter not at fault for ex-boyfriend's financial consequences. NTA! 👍
According_Version_67 | According_Version_67
Scary ex-boyfriend? NTA! Consider a restraining order! 😱
BBS_22 | BBS_22
NTA - Trusting the RA was a smart move! Good luck!
Bearboots2 | Bearboots2
Ex-boyfriend's stalking nightmare: NTA for breaking up, he crossed boundaries 😱
TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy
"Ex won't take the hint and turns into 'nice guy'"
shadow-foxe | shadow-foxe
NTA but be careful! Don't feel guilty for breaking up. 🙏
Background_Ruin_3631 | Background_Ruin_3631
Taking legal action to protect yourself from an ex-boyfriend. NTA! 🙌
friendlily | friendlily
NTA. Dumped ex tries to guilt trip and invade your space 💯
forgottenenvies | forgottenenvies
NTA - Sexual orientation irrelevant. You broke up, he can't force.
KeepLkngForIntllgnce | KeepLkngForIntllgnce
Empathy and understanding for OP's difficult situation. 💚
hollsballs95 | hollsballs95
"NTA - Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit crosses boundaries. Stay safe, OP! 😱"
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NTA. Ex-boyfriend's dangerous visit. Stay safe and don't trust him.
JanusIsBlue | JanusIsBlue
Ex-boyfriend's surprise visit turns into a guilt-tripping nightmare! 😱
AD_MACACO | AD_MACACO
Scary ex-boyfriend visit! Stay safe! 😱
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