Housemate’s Homeless Dad Drama: A Test of Friendship or Crossing Boundaries?

Imagine this: You’re living comfortably in your home when your housemate, let’s call him ‘H’, drops a bombshell. His father’s living situation is about to become untenable and he needs a new place to stay, fast. You and your partner are now faced with a moral dilemma: Do you open your home to a stranger, or risk leaving an elderly man homeless? This is the real-life predicament one person found themselves in, leading to a whirlwind of conflict, drama, and emotional turmoil. Let’s dive into the story…

The Bombshell Announcement

The Search Begins…

The Unexpected Proposal

The Uncomfortable Truth ‍♀️

The Persistent Pleas

The Guilt Trip

The Unsettling Update

The Unexpected Twist

The Final Straw

A Housemate’s Dilemma: Compassion or Invasion of Privacy?

Caught in a whirlwind of moral conundrums, our homeowner is left questioning their own actions. They’ve been asked to house their housemate’s father, a man they’ve never met who reportedly ‘barely takes care of himself.’ Despite the guilt of potentially leaving an elderly man homeless, they’ve stood their ground, refusing to let their home become a refuge. But the drama doesn’t stop there. The housemate, H, has even tried to buy their mother-in-law’s house, leading to a heated confrontation. As the situation continues to escalate, one can’t help but wonder: where do we draw the line between compassion and personal boundaries? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…

NTA, Stand your ground and tell H that what he’s asking for is totally unreasonable.

NTA. OP suggests H should move out and find new housemate.

“NTA, not your responsibility. Tell him about homeless shelters. Good luck!”

NTA agrees with HappyMerry11. Eviction might help him get his shit together.

“NTA. Setting boundaries with your housemate who relies on you.”

NTA. Find social service agency. Shitty situation, don’t deal forever.

NTA. Don’t let H push boundaries. Get him out ASAP!

NTA. H needs to find another solution for his dad.

“NTA. Taking on two adult dependents is a lot . APS might help.”

Friend’s homeless dad wants to move in? Setting boundaries

Direct and callous solution considered for homeless dad situation!

NTA: Housemate’s homeless dad causing tension, potential eviction concerns.

NTA. Yoda approves of your wise advice, hahaha

NTA. Friend’s dad drama: begging, laziness, and shifting responsibility.

NTA: Hilarious reply to outrageous request for room swap!

Time to part ways? NTA considers evicting housemate’s dad.

NTA, why can’t he move out and get a cheaper place?

“NTA, but be clear: your dad is not our responsibility. “

NTA: Dad’s temporary stay is causing red flags and entitlement

Worried about dad moving in? That’s a squatter’s nightmare!

Helping a homeless dad find a studio: a noble but futile effort.

NTA. H is taking advantage of your generosity. Give him 30 days to fix his own problems.

Age misconception leads to surprising behavior from housemate.

Roommate’s leech-like behavior drains kindness, sympathy turns into frustration.

NTA, kick H out! He’s manipulating you with his father’s death

“NTA. Evict H. Don’t let him manipulate you into taking his dad in.”

Commenter questions how someone can be so dependent on others.

NTA: Housemate’s dad drama, H has options but wants the cheapest.

Don’t be fooled! Avoid the drama and potential squatter situation.

Set boundaries with your housemate’s dad or deal with surprises

NTA: Housemate’s dad is not your responsibility. Set boundaries.

Beware of sneaky moves! Protect your boundaries and rights!

Curious about the housemate’s homeless dad drama? Get the scoop!

Time for H to find a new place! NTA

NTA suspects H’s excuse to work less is a lie.

Time to ask H to leave? NTA takes a stand!

Friendship tested: Housemate’s homeless dad drama sparks boundary debate.

Tenant’s entitled behavior crosses boundaries. Time to end tenancy.

NTA: Time to evict H?

Evicting H: A Tough Decision for Friendship

Setting boundaries is crucial! Don’t let guilt manipulate your kindness.

NTA – H’s manipulative tactics to force you into housing his dad. Be prepared to say no.

Stand your ground and get him out ASAP.

NTA. H’s dad drama: kick H out and let him deal

Roommate drama: NTA. Time for your roommate to find new digs!

NTA considers eviction due to housemate’s potential boundary-crossing behavior.

Trusting your gut: the power of intuition and self-confidence.

Be prepared for unexpected houseguests and potential legal complications. ‍♂️

NTA. Time to evict this tenant!

NTA – Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the story!

NTA. Set boundaries with H about his homeless Dad moving in.

Boundaries crossed: NTA housemate debates charity vs. self-preservation.

NTA – Boundaries crossed: Homeless dad encroaches on housemate’s space.

Friend’s entitled request for free housing sparks eviction discussion.

Don’t let him in! His dad, his problem. #NTA

NTA. Your roommate’s dad drama is not your problem.

NTA, find a solution without taking the blame.

NTA: A unique living arrangement for H, his gf, and Dad?

Time to find a new housemate and move on.

Setting boundaries with a homeless dad: NTA, eviction risk!

NTA. Kick his a** out and breathe easier.

Trust your instincts. You’re not the a**hole.

Roommate’s refusal to find housing causes tension and resentment.

NTA: H’s priorities are out of whack! ‍♂️

OP raises valid concerns about the challenges of caring for an elderly person.

Worried about housemate’s dad moving in? NTA, I get it

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!

NTA: Set boundaries with lazy father and son to avoid exploitation.

Uncomfortable living situation with homeless dad. Time for a new roommate?

NTA. Speak frankly with housemate about not moving in dad.