Woman Plans Ski Trip, Gets Disinvited: Is She the Villain or the Victim? 🎿❄️

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Diply | Diply

Picture this: You're a 27-year-old woman who loves to ski and game. You plan a ski trip with your boyfriend and his friends, even organizing a LAN party for everyone to enjoy. You're excited, everything's booked, and then... you're suddenly disinvited because it's now a 'guy's trip'. 😲 Welcome to the icy predicament of our Snow Queen. Let's delve into her frosty tale and see if we can thaw out the truth. 🎿❄️

The Perfect Plan: Ski Trip and LAN Party 🎿💻

snowboardingblues | snowboardingblues

From Excitement to Exclusion 😃➡️😢

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The Reason: A Sudden 'Guy's Trip' 🚹

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The Snow Queen's Hurt and Confusion 💔😕

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The Boyfriend's Dilemma: To Please or Not to Please? 🤷‍♂️

snowboardingblues | snowboardingblues

More Than Just 'The Girlfriend' 💪

snowboardingblues | snowboardingblues

The Snow Queen's Stand 🗣️

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The Narrative Shift: Villain or Victim? 😈 or 😇

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The Rift and the Repercussions ⚔️

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The Aftermath: A Bitter End or a New Beginning? 🌬️🌅

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The Icy Conclusion: Is Our Snow Queen the Villain or the Victim? 🎿❄️

In a tale as frosty as a winter's day, our Snow Queen finds herself disinvited from her own ski trip, leaving her feeling more like an outcast than a friend. Her boyfriend's friends have turned the trip into a 'guy's trip', leaving her out in the cold. Despite her efforts to stand up for herself, she's painted as the villain, causing a rift in the friend group. As the snow settles, we're left wondering: Is she the villain for wanting to join a trip she planned, or the victim of a frosty exclusion? Let's see what the Internet has to say about this chilling situation... ❄️🎿

Dump these MFs already. Cancel everything and find better friends. 🚩

Punkrockpm | Punkrockpm

NTA: Planned ski trip turns into boys trip, time to ditch!

karma_377 | karma_377

"Umm, since you planned it, cancel it." 😍 Let them put together a trip on their dime and time. 🍀

Glad-Ability4018 | Glad-Ability4018

"NTA. These AHs are trying to change the subject to make it seem like they are behaving perfectly reasonably for wanting their own trip when the *real* issue is that they want to exclude you from *your* trip."

DinaFelice | DinaFelice

Misogynists, complacent boyfriend, and high school dynamics. NTA. Run away! 👋🏼

HenriettaHiggins | HenriettaHiggins

Boyfriend's torn loyalty reveals his poor boundaries with misogynistic friends. 🙄

PittieLover1 | PittieLover1

🚩 NTA! Is your boyfriend a keeper or a pushover? 🤔

warrinerdot | warrinerdot

Take charge and cancel everything! You're not the a**hole! 💪

JeepNaked | JeepNaked

NTA: Boyfriend prioritizes sexist friends over girlfriend. Break up! 🚫

McMerseybird | McMerseybird

"Put your foot down. Your bf should not be tolerating this from his friends."

SirMittensOfTheHill | SirMittensOfTheHill

NTA: Cancel everything, get your money back, cut off contact 📱

MaleficentBasil4 | MaleficentBasil4

NTA. Cancel and get your money back if you can 🎿

Velvet_Thunderground | Velvet_Thunderground

Boyfriend's friends reflect his character. Dump him. NTA 👌

littlerascal5 | littlerascal5

🏂 NTA: Stand up for yourself and find better friends!

Mandaloriana_2022 | Mandaloriana_2022

Cancel everything and let them book their own trip! 🚨

thisagain098 | thisagain098

"NTA. Your boyfriend is an AH. Cancel everything and move on."

Minute_Patient_8841 | Minute_Patient_8841

NTA plans ski trip, BF's friends disinvite. Support needed. 😠

ReviewOk929 | ReviewOk929

NTA. Incredibly rude and sexist friends. Seek revenge on reservations.

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Boyfriend's spine is a wet noodle, decide if this relationship is right for you 👫

Adventurous_Cry_7258 | Adventurous_Cry_7258

Boyfriend not defending her? 😔 Red flags everywhere! 🍊

havecourage_bekind4 | havecourage_bekind4

OP could be out thousands of dollars. NTA 👍

New_Sun6390 | New_Sun6390

Is she the villain or the victim? NTA 👏

JegHaderStatistik | JegHaderStatistik

Ski trip drama: Confusion and cancellation fees leave everyone guessing 🤷‍♀️

juliaskig | juliaskig

Dump them all and find a better partner and friends! 💯

ohnonothisagain | ohnonothisagain

Boyfriend lacks spine for ski trip, Santa needs to intervene 😂

Ohkermie | Ohkermie

NTA. Unbook the trip and find better friends and boyfriend. 💯

funchefchick | funchefchick

"Not all men" they shout, ignoring decency. Woman's ski trip.

skyntbook | skyntbook

Misogynistic incels and a useless boyfriend? Ditch them all! 💪🏼

KritterKollector | KritterKollector

NTA. Girl, cancel the whole trip and ditch the boyfriend! 😠

FoxTracks02 | FoxTracks02

Stand up for yourself and reconsider your relationship. 💪🏼

Agreeable_Toe_8909 | Agreeable_Toe_8909

Disinvited from ski trip, user realizes they're better off without

EmYeaItsMe | EmYeaItsMe

Disinvite the a**holes and dump the dud boyfriend! 👍

OrangeCubit | OrangeCubit

NTA! They're not real friends. Dump the BF too. 👋🏼

PhePheLaFrou | PhePheLaFrou

NTA: Drama in friend group, partner cutting out friends. Be fabulous! 😍

WokeJabber | WokeJabber

Dump the guy! NTA takes charge and cancels everything. 💪

runnerofshadows | runnerofshadows

NTA. Stand up to those AHs and cancel everything!

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Curious to know the update from the OP! 🤔

zem | zem

Cancel everything now! You're not the a**hole. 🚨

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Supportive comment: Stand up for yourself and enjoy the trip! 👏

Mysterious-Choice568 | Mysterious-Choice568

NTA cancels reservations, leaves 'guys only' to figure it out 🙌

just-jen57 | just-jen57

NTA fights back against unfair treatment. Stand up for yourself! 💪

Realistic_Ad_6714 | Realistic_Ad_6714

NTA: Cancel the bookings, enjoy a solo vacation 🙂

Rare_Needleworker340 | Rare_Needleworker340

Choose your own adventure: go, cancel, or go anyways! 🚶🏼

redditavenger2019 | redditavenger2019

Plan your own trip and leave the drama behind! 😎

Dizzy_Arsenal13 | Dizzy_Arsenal13

NTA: Canceling reservations? Petty or justified? 😐

Caladrius- | Caladrius-

🏂🚫 NTA: Dump the bf, ditch the trip, find respect elsewhere.

DaleCoopersWife | DaleCoopersWife

NTA - Take charge, cancel or go without them. Adjust accordingly 💪

Remarkable_Buyer4625 | Remarkable_Buyer4625

Take charge! Unbook it and let them handle it. 💪

journeyintopressure | journeyintopressure

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