Woman Asks Husband for Vasectomy: Unfair Pressure or Justified Request?

Imagine being caught in a whirlwind of emotions, decisions, and consequences. A woman (39) and her husband (37) are at odds over a sensitive issue – vasectomy. They have one child and have agreed not to have more. But a contraceptive mishap leads to an unexpected pregnancy, and the woman feels pressured into an abortion. Now, she’s back on the pill, but it’s affecting her mental health. So she asks her husband to consider a vasectomy. He’s hesitant. Is she wrong for asking? Let’s delve into their story.

The One-Child Pact

The Contraceptive Conundrum

The Unwanted Surprise

The Unsupportive Partner ‍♂️

The Aftermath

Back on the Pill

The Vasectomy Request ‍♀️

Feeling Pressured

Respecting Autonomy ‍♀️

The Avoidance Continues ‍♂️

Seeking Clarity ️‍♀️

Exploring All Options

A Contraceptive Crossroads: Vasectomy Request Sparks Debate

A woman and her husband find themselves in a predicament. The couple, who have one child and have agreed not to have more, face a contraceptive conundrum. After an unexpected pregnancy and a pressured abortion, the woman, who suffers mental health issues from the pill, asks her husband to consider a vasectomy. He’s hesitant, leaving her feeling unsupported and pressured. She’s asking the internet: is it wrong to ask your partner for a vasectomy? Let’s see what the world thinks about this situation…

NTA. Husband’s refusal to get vasectomy is selfish and unfair.

He pressured for abortion, now she asks for vasectomy.

He wants sex but not responsibility? Time for a vasectomy!

“No more sex.”

NTA: Asking for a vasectomy is fair, his response sucks

“NTA for asking him to engage with the question Unless you both plan on abstinence or to separate, I don’t see how this can work.”

NTA. Husband wants sex without responsibility. Unfair pressure on you.

Husband’s hypocrisy sparks debate on bodily autonomy.

NTA for asking husband about vasectomy, but explore other options.

NTA: A**hole husband refuses vasectomy, leaving all family planning to wife.

NTA: Pill vs. Vasectomy – Double standards and health concerns

NTA. Open communication and mutual respect are key in relationships.

NTA wants husband to take responsibility for birth control.

NTA. Husband’s behavior is selfish and dismissive of your health.

NTA: Time to hit the pause button on intimacy

Engaging caption: A**hole husband refuses vasectomy, wife considers stopping sex.

NTA. Take control, ditch the pill, and consider leaving him.

Husband’s fear of vasectomy leads to unfair pressure on wife.

NTA. Your body, your choice. Set your own boundaries.

“Guy who pressured for abortion” vs “pressure for vasectomy”. NTA!

Seek counseling for a tough situation.

Condoms failed, birth control bad. Limited contraception options.

NAH. Husband’s refusal to support pregnancy is sad. Can’t pressure.

Controversial comment sparks debate on birth control responsibilities.

NTA, demanding vasectomy after suffering, no snip, no intimacy.

Men who refuse to take responsibility for birth control are assholes. NTA!

NTA: Husband needs to grow a pair and get snipped.

NTA. Equal birth control expectations are crucial for a healthy relationship.

No more pill, his turn for birth control. NTA

NTA: Stand your ground and share the responsibility.

NTA, husband being manipulative. Discuss options with OBGYN.

NTA: Consider other birth control options for guilt-free sex!

NTA: Husband pressured abortion, now it’s his turn for contraception!

NTA: Woman asks husband for vasectomy, fair or unfair?

NTA, husband should step up after witnessing labor and BC.

NTA. Husband needs to grab his sack and get the snip.

NTA: It’s 2020, time for men to take contraception seriously!

NTA. Open communication about abortion experience and future pregnancies.

NTA: Fair request or double standard? Let’s discuss!

“NTA. Fair to expect him to take responsibility for family.”

NTA: Husband should get vasectomy for no more kids.

Men’s desire for vasectomies: control over reproductive rights?

Husband’s refusal to communicate about serious issues is concerning.

NTA. Husband’s hypocrisy and lack of empathy is evident.

Hypocritical husband: Wants wife to risk, but won’t risk himself.

Woman suggests a strategic approach to address unfair pressure.

NTA. Husband’s hypocrisy and manipulation is unacceptable. Stand up for yourself!

Husband’s double standards? NTA, he needs to step up!

NTA. Female birth control has side effects, vasectomies are safer.

Shared responsibility for contraception: options and compromises.

Gender bias in reproductive choices sparks heated debate.

“Hypocritical husband: Unfair pressure to take responsibility alone.”

Taking control of your own body and desires

NAH. Respect personal autonomy. Find compatibility elsewhere.

NTA: After a forced abortion, a minor op is fair.

Vasectomy: Easy procedure or overreaction?

NTA. His choice, his responsibility. ‍♂️

NTA calls out double standard in a fiery comment

Husband’s unfair pressure for vasectomy? NTA, he’s acting childish!

Husband’s vasectomy fear after supporting abortion: Double-standard?

NTA. Take control of your body and your choices.

NTA. Be clear about what YOU want and stay firm.

NTA: Husband’s fear vs. wife’s risks. Time for a conversation.

Husband refuses vasectomy but expects wife to suffer?

Bold ultimatum: vasectomy or 18 years of child support?

NTA suggests copper IUD as alternative to vasectomy. Snip snip!

NTA, he’s being hypocritical. Time for him to contribute

No baby, no cake! Time for a vasectomy ✂️

Bodily autonomy: NTA comment supports husband’s decision, sparks discussion.

Woman shares her journey of pregnancy and convinces husband for vasectomy