A Tale of Two Siblings: One Struggles, One Parties 🎭💃

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Meet our two characters: the Party Princess and the Struggling Soldier. Born twelve years apart, these siblings grew up in starkly different circumstances. The eldest, the Party Princess, was the apple of her parents' eye, indulged in all the pleasures of life. The younger, the Struggling Soldier, was left to fend for himself amidst a family crisis. As adults, their paths diverged even further. One chose to party, while the other chose to persevere. Now, the Party Princess is asking her brother for financial help. But should the Struggling Soldier step in to save the day? 🤔

The Party Princess' Life of Luxury 👑🎉

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The Struggling Soldier's Battle Begins ⚔️🛡️

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The Struggling Soldier's Fight for Survival 🏋️‍♂️📚

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The Struggling Soldier's Triumph 🎓🎖️

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The Party Princess' Perpetual Party 🍹🎉

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The Party Princess' Provocation 🙄🤷‍♀️

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The Struggling Soldier's Standoff 🗣️🚫

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The Struggling Soldier's Dilemma 🤔💰

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The Struggling Soldier's Stand: Family or Finances? 👨‍👧💸

The Struggling Soldier has fought his way from a troubled childhood to a successful adulthood, while his sister, the Party Princess, has spent her life in a whirlwind of fun and frivolity. Now, she's asking him for financial help, but he's hesitant. After all, he's worked hard for his success, while she's shrugged off his struggles. Now, he's left pondering: should he prioritize family or his hard-earned finances? And who's really in the wrong here? Let's see what the internet thinks of this sibling standoff...🤔

NTA prioritizes family, epic burn response from comment replies

sanguineophanim | sanguineophanim

NTA. She made her bed, now she parties in it. 🎉

jimmap | jimmap

NTA: Sister's lack of support is infuriating. You deserve better. 😡

LongNectarine3 | LongNectarine3

NTA: Encourage her to support foster children through volunteering or housing 👨‍🎓

OkapiEli | OkapiEli

Family isn't always about blood. 🩸 NTA for setting boundaries.

Lysdexiic | Lysdexiic

Don't be an ATM for irresponsible family members 💸

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Sibling enabled by parents, commenter refuses to enable. Overcame obstacles. 👏

Paevatar | Paevatar

Sibling rivalry: entitlement, laziness, and squandered opportunities 💃

MerlinBiggs | MerlinBiggs

Sibling neglects OP, now wants money. NTA for refusing. 🙅

teresajs | teresajs

Family loyalty should be consistent, not just when it's convenient. 💜

Maoricitizen | Maoricitizen

Cutting off family? Not the a**hole! 😎

NiteGrimwood | NiteGrimwood

Time for her to grow up! 🙌

Anewstageinlife | Anewstageinlife

Cutting off a freeloading sibling. Good move! 👍

Vivid-Rent7730 | Vivid-Rent7730

Sibling downplays OP's struggles, ignore her and save money. 👍

Lurkingentropy | Lurkingentropy

NTA: Don't let her into your properties, she may squat. Encourage her to adult.

Keepinitreal20 | Keepinitreal20

Cut off contact with your user sister for a happier life! 🙌

BookReader1328 | BookReader1328

It's never too late to have a happy childhood! 😊

AreWeFlippinThereYet | AreWeFlippinThereYet

NTA, but sort out your will and dump the load. 🙌

Ancient_List | Ancient_List

Cutting ties with toxic sibling for better mental health 👍

manimopo | manimopo

Family loyalty questioned: Should freebies be expected? 😬

araniaexumai_ | araniaexumai_

Putting yourself first doesn't make you an a**hole. Family matters.

Irish_EyesDublin | Irish_EyesDublin

Family first? NTA questions sibling's lack of support. 🙏

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Family ties severed, no regrets. 🙌

Top-Passion-1508 | Top-Passion-1508

Independent woman, she can handle her own housing 💃

ggjmnhgg | ggjmnhgg

NTA: Sister invalidates your struggles and leeches off you 😡

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Stand up for yourself! You don't owe her a thing! 💪

Kz_Mafuyu | Kz_Mafuyu

She doesn't deserve anything. Not the a**hole.

Oceanside9987 | Oceanside9987

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about the situation!

Mabusmoriah | Mabusmoriah

Parents should handle her now and forever. You're not wrong. 👍

ComprehensiveSir3892 | ComprehensiveSir3892

No family bond, no respect. NTA for standing up!

Myblueskye | Myblueskye

Sibling rivalry at its finest. One freeloader, one party animal. 💃

MissNatStewart | MissNatStewart

Sibling rivalry: one struggles, one parties. Who's the mooch? 😳

AreWeFlippinThereYet | AreWeFlippinThereYet

Sister's fantasy world: Ignore her and block her. 👍

6poundpuppy | 6poundpuppy

No obligation to care about someone who never cared about you 💁‍♀️

popcornnpickles | popcornnpickles

Choose your own family and prioritize your own happiness 💜

Lea_R_ning | Lea_R_ning

Putting yourself first and moving on. You're NTA! 👏

Difficult-Mix8911 | Difficult-Mix8911

You owe her nothing. Be free! 🎉

KingDarius89 | KingDarius89

NTA. Don't give in to her demands. Offer support instead.

Proud_Fee_1542 | Proud_Fee_1542

Sibling rivalry: No help then, no help now. 🙅

InfamousJob8057 | InfamousJob8057

Surviving childhood and thriving: NTA for moving forward successfully 👏

AssistPure | AssistPure

Sibling struggles: NTA, live your life and find peace 🙏

SenioritaStuffnStuff | SenioritaStuffnStuff

Sibling rivalry: Indulged brat expects more, time for reality check! 😈

Ladyt1978 | Ladyt1978

NTA: Harsh truth about entitlement. 👏

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Sibling rivalry: One struggles, one parties 🎉

billikers | billikers

Sibling rivalry: Foster care, success, and a debt unpaid. 💃

SvenG0lly | SvenG0lly

Not the a**hole. She's not really family 🙏

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NTA, but consider her upbringing and set firm boundaries. 👍

littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05

Cautionary tale: Think twice before letting family move in. 🚧

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"NTA. Family first when it suits her? Cut ties! 🚫"

crystallz2000 | crystallz2000

"Family first" means doing what they want. 🙄

gritherness | gritherness

NTA - Don't let her burden you. Protect yourself legally. 💪

ToditaDeEl | ToditaDeEl

Putting family first? Nah, not according to this commenter! 🙄

Faintkay | Faintkay

Put yourself first and prioritize self-care. 🙌

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Military sacrifice for education dismissed. 😡

SufficientWay3663 | SufficientWay3663

Blood doesn't make family. Sometimes, you just have to cut ties. 👊

Jorius | Jorius

NTA: Overcoming adversity and standing up for yourself. 👏

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NTA. You've worked hard for what you have 👏

Samoyedfun | Samoyedfun

Setting boundaries with family: NTA for not letting sister freeload 🙌

notyouravgperson3 | notyouravgperson3

NTA: Family drama and sibling rivalry, stay strong and say no! 🙌

QuietWolf73 | QuietWolf73

Sibling rivalry: One struggles while the other parties! 🎭💃

RealisticWin3801 | RealisticWin3801

NTA: Family only matters to her now because you're successful 👏

bloodrose_80 | bloodrose_80

Independent adult: NTA, she can work and support herself. 💪

Creative_Trick_3818 | Creative_Trick_3818

Family support matters. Where was she when you needed it? 💜

LittleLisa74 | LittleLisa74

Sibling support: Did she step up? NTA

purplehippobitches | purplehippobitches

You're not responsible for rescuing her. Own your success! 💪

AffectionateMine2220 | AffectionateMine2220

NTA: Sister can't abandon you then expect lifelong support 🙅

TimeForMischief | TimeForMischief

Genetics don't define family ❤️ NTA

Wisdomofpearl | Wisdomofpearl

Sibling enjoys freedom, now it's time for responsibility. 💃

PA_Archer | PA_Archer

Is she really family? Share your thoughts! 👀

No_Fee_161 | No_Fee_161

Don't let her lack of planning ruin your hard work! 👍

NotRudger | NotRudger

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