Man Abandons Family Dinner Over Uninvited Guest: Who's the Real Culprit? 😮

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Have you ever been so angry that you've driven an hour only to turn back without stepping out of the car? Well, that's exactly what happened to a 22-year-old man who was invited to a family dinner, only to find out that his estranged younger brother was also present. Now, he's left wondering if he's the one at fault or if his family has once again betrayed his trust. Let's delve into this rollercoaster of a tale. 🎢

The Scapegoat and the Golden Child 🐐👑

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Unfair Childhood 🎭

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Freedom Denied 🚫

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Entitled Brat Emerges 👑

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

Feathers Over Family 🐦

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Great Escape 🏃‍♂️

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Karma Strikes Back ⚡

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Apology Arrives 💌

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Condition Set 🚦

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Unwanted Surprise 😠

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Anger Explodes 💥

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Final Cut-off 🚫

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Unseen Twist 🌀

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Guilt Creeps In 😔

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

The Moral Dilemma 🤷‍♂️

whitemansburntends | whitemansburntends

Family Drama or Justified Anger? The Internet Decides! 🕵️‍♀️

After a tumultuous childhood, our protagonist found himself at a crossroads when his parents attempted to reconcile. But their decision to invite his estranged brother to the dinner, the very person he blames for his pain, led to a dramatic exit. Now, he's left questioning his actions and feeling guilty. Could he have handled things differently? Or was his anger justified? Let's see what the internet has to say about this family saga. 🍿

Parents and brother disrespect OP's boundaries, want to rugsweep and scapegoat.

[deleted] | [deleted]

"NTA. If they were REALLY interested in making amends, they would've listened to you and your wishes. They are trying to sweep it all under the rug and carry on. Keep blocking them and keep living your best life. You deserve it." 💪✨

lappelduvideforever | lappelduvideforever

NTA. Boundaries disregarded. Set them now or face stampeding rhinoceroses. 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA suspects ulterior motives behind family's sudden remorse. Success story!

Karyatids | Karyatids

Uninvited guest ruins family dinner: OP not the a**hole 😮

veryillbees | veryillbees

NTA sets boundaries, parents forget, missed opportunity for reconciliation 😮

Thejmax | Thejmax

NTA. Unforgivable behavior. Family prioritizes brother over you. 😮

FallenAngel1707 | FallenAngel1707

NTA: Reclaim your life and heal from their abusive upbringing. 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Family disregarded OP's rule, proving they're still crappy parents. 😮

HoneyBadgerMarmalade | HoneyBadgerMarmalade

NTA. Parents want quick apology, not genuine reconciliation. 😮

needalurkeraccount | needalurkeraccount

Setting boundaries doesn't make you the bad guy. 😮

HavePlushieWillTalk | HavePlushieWillTalk

NTA, blame the parents for unrealistic expectations on your brother. 😮

Alinaoana | Alinaoana

Family drama and pet birds: NTA has the last word! 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Uninvited guest causes family drama. Is their apology genuine?

SirinMMD | SirinMMD

NTA: You explained your feelings, they broke the agreement. Logical choice.

Justis29 | Justis29

Trust your instincts and prioritize your mental health. 🙏🏻

LifeAsksAITA | LifeAsksAITA

Let go of the resentment and move forward. You're NTA 👍

Last-Two-6780 | Last-Two-6780

NTA - Unemployed sibling causing family tension and dependency issues. 😮

loudent2 | loudent2

NTA. Boundaries set, parents prioritize their wants over yours. 💯

Mirianda666 | Mirianda666

Standing up for boundaries and trust. NTA 👏

Weird_Biscuits9668 | Weird_Biscuits9668

Zero respect and outnumbered: family dinner turns into a battleground. 🤪

Park_Police | Park_Police

Family's regret doesn't excuse their disrespect. Take time to heal. NTA 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA: Family rift, selfish parents, go NC and take care.

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

Take control of your own healing journey. You're not obligated. 🙏

Idkcatz | Idkcatz

Sibling rivalry: Who's to blame for the family drama? 😑

SnowStorm1123 | SnowStorm1123

NTA: Boundaries broken, respect lacking. Family drama unfolds. 😮

SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle

Uninvited guest ruins family dinner, OP not at fault. 😮

anonego7 | anonego7

NTA. Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself is important! 👏

NiteGrimwood | NiteGrimwood

NTA. Brother needs kidney? Drama at family dinner! 😮

duncanmhor | duncanmhor

NTA: Setting boundaries with abusive family, healing at your own pace. 🙏

uhohitslilbboy | uhohitslilbboy

Uninvited guest ruins family dinner, NTA deserves an apology 😮

co_fragment | co_fragment

Setting boundaries after years of abuse, but they still crossed them. 😮

Banditsmisfits | Banditsmisfits

Lying and tricking to gain trust? Nope, NTA for sure! 😮

toriebon | toriebon

Setting boundaries and consequences: NTA for leaving uninvited ambush. 🙌

phemonoe153 | phemonoe153

Setting boundaries and taking a stand 💪

avast2006 | avast2006

NTA. They should have informed you about your brother's presence.

ChessMasterOfe | ChessMasterOfe

NTA. Family drama over uninvited guest sparks heated comments. 😮

c-robz96 | c-robz96

OP stands up for themselves, family prioritizes someone else. NTA

TequilaMockingbird80 | TequilaMockingbird80

Parents lied about dinner guest, making them the real a**holes. 👎

philadelphialawyer87 | philadelphialawyer87

Don't blame your brother, blame your parents! 😮

lemonsharking | lemonsharking

Boundaries were crossed, chances were given, respect was lacking. NTA

beaglemama | beaglemama

NTA. Apologies can wait. Family dinner drama unfolds. 😮

KyliaQuilor | KyliaQuilor

NTA. They won't do the one thing you asked? 🤔

Robin_SP | Robin_SP

Not the a**hole for abandoning family dinner. Drama ensues! 😮

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

NTA, try meeting with one parent to avoid tag-teaming. 🙌

Pohkopf | Pohkopf

Standing up for yourself against abusive family. Stay strong! 💪

wpel_142 | wpel_142

NTA: Family drama unfolds as uninvited guest sparks tension. 😮

OlderAndWiser2018 | OlderAndWiser2018

NTA: Let's see what everyone else has to say! 😂

HexStarlight | HexStarlight

Setting boundaries and calling out manipulative behavior. 🚫🤝

0drag | 0drag

NTA: Family drama and uninvited guests? Create your own happiness! 😮

MizzyvonMuffling | MizzyvonMuffling

NTA. Family needs a timeout to learn about healthy relationships. 😮

MarramTime | MarramTime

NTA, family rushed reunion, brother's behavior reflects their parenting. 👍

AnAmbiguousName | AnAmbiguousName

Boundaries ignored: Family dinner turned ambush by uninvited guest. 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

Uninvited guest ruins family dinner, OP takes drastic action. NTA 😮

tip963 | tip963

NTA: Family breaks your condition, lies. Brother still favored. 😮

Figuur | Figuur

NTA: Communication is key, an apology won't fix everything 😮

UnhappyCryptographer | UnhappyCryptographer

NTA. Stick to your guns! Family dinner drama 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA: They didn't reconcile as you asked. 😮

afternoonsleep | afternoonsleep

NTA. Parents spoiled one child, abused others. Cut them out. 😮

StevesonOfStevesonia | StevesonOfStevesonia

NTA. Family disrespected your wishes, expect more manipulation and guilt-trips 😮

Hungry_Pup | Hungry_Pup

NTA. Family dinner ruined by uninvited guest, causing resentment and conflict. 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

"They will do anything..." except the ONE thing you asked. NTA 😮

Rdennis4 | Rdennis4

NTA--Standing up for your boundaries and being disregarded yet again. 😮

Hodgepodgehedge | Hodgepodgehedge

NTA: Uninvited guest ruins family dinner, no remorse or accountability. 😮

repthe732 | repthe732

NTA. Family dinner ruined by uninvited guest. Boundaries not respected. 😮

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

NTA. Parents favor brother, wanted him to spout BS. You deserve better! 🙌

voluntold9276 | voluntold9276

Uninvited guest at family dinner sparks suspicion and drama. 🤔

d1scworld | d1scworld

Family disobeys request, favoring brother. NTA for abandoning dinner. 😮

[deleted] | [deleted]

Trust broken: Ignoring boundaries leads to loss of trust 😔

No_Journalist5009 | No_Journalist5009

NTA. Parents covering their a**es, trying to blame you for brother's fit.

Feisty-Design9591 | Feisty-Design9591

NTA: Dishonesty backfires. Manipulation is never a recipe for success. 🤔

historialcraftsaddic | historialcraftsaddic

Uninvited brother ruins family dinner, NTA wants apology without him

Othie | Othie

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. 💪

sabaegsa404 | sabaegsa404

Parents' responsibility, not brother's. Let go of the reminder. 🙏

sayitsooth | sayitsooth

Both of you are wrong in different ways. 😮

iceicebeavis | iceicebeavis

NTA, give them another chance and set your own terms. 👍

NotMyFirstChoice675 | NotMyFirstChoice675

They lied to you? Not the a**hole! 🤥

Terran_Jedi | Terran_Jedi

Reconciliation gone wrong: Betrayal after a fight 😮

betcher73 | betcher73

Filed Under: