Bride-to-Be Turns Caregiver: A Love Story Turns Sour 😢💔

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Imagine this: You're young, in love, and engaged. Suddenly, your partner gets injured and you find yourself thrust into the role of a full-time caregiver. You're juggling work, home, and an endless list of your partner's needs. You're exhausted, but you're doing it all out of love. But what if, instead of appreciation, you get resentment and anger? This is the heartbreaking tale of a 21-year-old woman who found herself in this exact situation. Let's dive into her story... 💔😢

From Fiancée to Full-Time Caregiver 🏥💕

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

Juggling Life and Love 💪🏼💔

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

The Gratitude Turns Sour 😢

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

The Breaking Point 😔

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

A Mother's Intervention 📞

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

A Heartbreaking Farewell 💔

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

A Lonely Hotel Room 🏨

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

The Uncertain Future 🤷🏻‍♀️

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

A Glimmer of Hope 🌈

whofuckingknows2 | whofuckingknows2

A Love Story Turned Tragic: Was She Wrong? 💔😔

This is the heart-wrenching tale of a young woman who went from being a bride-to-be to a full-time caregiver for her injured fiancé. Despite her best efforts, her fiancé's attitude turned bitter, leaving her feeling unappreciated and exhausted. In a desperate bid for help, she turned to her future mother-in-law, who, shocked by her son's behavior, flew in to help. But this move led to a painful argument, leaving our heroine in a hotel room, questioning her actions and her future. As she grapples with her predicament, we're left wondering - was she wrong for seeking help? Let's see what the internet has to say about this... 💔😔

NTA. You've gone above and beyond. Break up with fiancé?

twelvedayslate | twelvedayslate

"NTA It's 'in sickness and in health,' not 'through abuse and through toxicity.' 😢💔"

moonlight-moon- | moonlight-moon-

NTA: Reflect on your relationship and what you want moving forward 💔

ComfortableBig8606 | ComfortableBig8606

Venting to your MIL: a supportive relationship through tough times 💔

2cjs | 2cjs

NTA, caregiver needed a break from partner's opioid withdrawal 😢

beautyfromashes00 | beautyfromashes00

"NTA - Reconsider marrying someone who lacks empathy and compassion. 😢💔"

DragonFireLettuce | DragonFireLettuce

NTA. Caregiver fatigue is real. Your fiance needs to confront his own battles. 💔

vampyrepanda | vampyrepanda

Leave your abusive fiancé and prioritize your own well-being 🙏

dartully | dartully

NTA. Take a well-deserved rest and let his mom update you 💔

JaiRenae | JaiRenae

NTA stands up to dickish behavior, MIL supports. Good job!

greggery | greggery

"NTA. Caregiving for an opioid addict can be overwhelming. Stay strong!"

Crazy_Banshee_333 | Crazy_Banshee_333

Reconsider the wedding! NTA but love story gone wrong 😢💔

Character-Review6307 | Character-Review6307

Fiancé acting like an a**hole? Love story gone sour 😢💔

Senior_Cheesecake155 | Senior_Cheesecake155

Stand up for yourself! 💪 Return the ring and move on.

FinnFinnFinnegan | FinnFinnFinnegan

Concerned about the groom's painkiller addiction. 😳

lemonhead2345 | lemonhead2345

Withdrawal from pain meds causing emotional battering? Not cool 😢

BellaAnneBlackheart | BellaAnneBlackheart

Heartwarming support from an awesome MIL. Family always comes through 🙌

sc0tth | sc0tth

MIL is cool, husband's a spoiled brat 👍

bubbles2255 | bubbles2255

Commenter questions husband's behavior, seeking advice on anger issues

spectre893 | spectre893

Calling for help was an act of self-preservation. You're NTA! 👏

MauiValleyGirl | MauiValleyGirl

NTA MIL is amazing, but watch out for fiance's addiction.

Assia_Penryn | Assia_Penryn

NTA with a supportive MIL, you deserve a break! 😊

Cat-astro-phe | Cat-astro-phe

NTA. Don't tolerate abuse. You did the right thing. 👏

kolakube45 | kolakube45

MIL's reaction surprises, moms often think kids can do no wrong. NTA! 😢

BuildingBridges23 | BuildingBridges23

A bride-to-be chooses her mom over her fiancé. Drama ensues. 😢💔

Sidneyreb | Sidneyreb

NTA. Some people are really bad patients. Crisis situations show what people are made of. You step up, effectively manage what needs to be done, even to your own detriment. He becomes demanding and has unreasonable expectations. As a person with chronic pain issues myself, I can understand being short tempered during a pain flare, but you apologize after the fact when you can clearly see the whole situation again. He's just acting like a baby. Calling Mommy is reasonable. His mother sounds like a keeper! Supportive emotionally and a take charge woman. Yay! 😢💔

JazzyKnowsBest13 | JazzyKnowsBest13

Caregiver burnout is real. 💔 Seek help and support.

Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

Supportive comment acknowledges partner's struggles and suggests seeking help ❤️

OLAZ3000 | OLAZ3000

Caregiver shares struggle of supporting spouse, seeks advice for marriage

DeliciousParticular0 | DeliciousParticular0

NTA: Don't tolerate abuse, ask for help when needed 🙏

Used_Mark_7911 | Used_Mark_7911

🚫 NTA: Is this the life you want? Drop him!

unlovelyladybartleby | unlovelyladybartleby

NTA - Caregiver turned sour. Is he struggling or just abusive? 😢💔

Cloudinthesilver | Cloudinthesilver

Give him a chance to apologize, but don't tolerate immaturity.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Marrying the MIL? Being a caregiver is tough! 🙌

sissysindy109 | sissysindy109

NTA: Love story turns sour when pain leads to abuse 😢💔

mctaggartann | mctaggartann

Rare occasion: MIL not at fault. NTA, stand up! 👏

RumSoakedChap | RumSoakedChap

NTA. Run like the wind in the other direction. 👊🏼

finditinteresting | finditinteresting

NTA. Hold him accountable for his actions. 👏

Steelguitarlane | Steelguitarlane

Dodging a bullet: NTA's love story turned sour 💔

AllThoseRedFlags | AllThoseRedFlags

🚫 Don't tolerate abuse! Reconsider marrying him. 💔

Lady_Fel001 | Lady_Fel001

Dump him, marry the MIL, and get sweet revenge! 💔

masterminor | masterminor

Compassion fatigue is real! 😢💔

jensmith20055002 | jensmith20055002

Caregivers need relief too! MIL puts him in his place. 👏

MichigaCur | MichigaCur

Wake up! Reflect on your choices and find better options. 👍

elliptical-wing | elliptical-wing

Bride-to-be's heartbreaking journey from caregiver to a**hole fiancé 😢

Stacy3536 | Stacy3536

Escape the a**hole and take your pets with you! 💔

ribbonsofgreen | ribbonsofgreen

Run! Toxic partner, red flags, and being bullied? No thanks! 😢💔

Sensitive-Fold-8569 | Sensitive-Fold-8569

NTA. Love story turned sour, but will he make amends? 😢

wis91 | wis91

Abuse doesn't count as 'in sickness' 😢💔

BeTheCheeto | BeTheCheeto

NTA: A love story with a sour twist 😢💔

Elegant_ardvaark_ | Elegant_ardvaark_

Don't marry him! You're definitely not the a**hole! 💔

pilar130 | pilar130

Recognizing early signs of abuse can save you from exhaustion 😢

GeminiPearl | GeminiPearl

NTA. Caregiving can be overwhelming, take care of yourself too 🙏

lololynn258 | lololynn258

Ungrateful AH fiancé wants his mom to take care of him 🤦‍♀️

QYB1990 | QYB1990

INFO: Did he hit his head? TBI could explain attitude. NTA

EpicDinoFight | EpicDinoFight

Standing up against verbal abuse: healing and grateful for support 🙏

freyaBubba | freyaBubba

Overloaded and underappreciated: When caregiving exposes a toxic relationship. 😢

reverendsmooth | reverendsmooth

"NTA. Abusive partner - re-evaluate relationship. Don't marry without change. 💔"

DawdlingHermione | DawdlingHermione

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