Woman Battles Boyfriend Over His Kids’ Insatiable Appetites: Who’s In The Wrong?

Imagine this: You move in with your partner and his three kids. You’re excited to start this new chapter, but soon, you’re faced with an unexpected challenge. The kids are eating you out of house and home, literally! You’re the one buying groceries, and the bills are piling up faster than you can say ‘pass the ketchup’. What do you do? Well, one woman found herself in this exact predicament and decided to take a stand. Let’s dive into her story.

A New Living Arrangement ‍ ‍ ‍

The Bottomless Pit Kids ️

Grocery Bills Skyrocketing

A Hearty Breakfast Isn’t Enough

The Snack Attacks Continue

Medical Concerns Ruled Out ‍⚕️

A Call for Change

Boyfriend’s Response: Not What She Expected ️

Work and Patience Running Thin

Caught Between a Rock and a Hard Place: Who’s Right? ‍♀️

In a nutshell, our heroine finds herself in a domestic dilemma. She’s living with her boyfriend and his three kids, who seem to have insatiable appetites. Despite cooking hearty meals and providing snacks, she’s constantly interrupted with requests for more food. The grocery bills are skyrocketing, and she’s the one footing most of the bill. When she confronts her boyfriend, he accuses her of being hostile and picking a fight. Now, she’s left wondering if she’s in the wrong, while her work and patience are hanging by a thread. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation… ️‍♀️

Setting boundaries and activities can prevent kids’ insatiable appetites.

NTA – Kids’ appetites are normal, but dad needs to step up

NTA: Boyfriend should pay for kids’ food, not your responsibility. Red flag!

NTA. BF needs to step up or OP will break up.

NTA. Kids’ insatiable appetites may be a medical concern.

️ NTA: Lazy dad neglects kids’ needs, leaving it all to you

“Why isn’t he buying all the food? The children’s eating is normal. Side-eyeing this man. You’re an a**hole but not THE a**hole.”

NTA – Kids bored, need structure. Set snack limits, keep busy.

Limiting their food intake is necessary. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA, but his kids are impacting your job. Time for conversation.

NTA – Stepmom suggests ways to handle kids’ insatiable appetites ‍ ‍

Should he pay for the kids’ food? What about childcare agreement?

NTA. Outrageous food expenses and kids’ boredom causing constant grazing.

Curious about the kids’ health, parenting, and financial dynamics?

Stop being his doormat! Stand up for yourself and leave him

NTA, he should pay for his kids’ food. Find a new place

INFO: ESH for unworkable childcare arrangement and lack of attention.

NTA- Show him the volume of requests and demand more food

NTA battles boyfriend over insatiable kids’ appetites: Who’s responsible?

11yo respectful, 10yo likes being babied. Who’s in control?

Future glimpse: Expensive kiddos can put away groceries. NTA.

Fair share of bills? Boyfriend should pay for his kids’ groceries!

NTA, but kids need food . Father should pay for expenses ‍ . Kids eat a lot .

NTA. Kids’ appetites are insatiable, but don’t complain around them!

Boyfriend accuses woman of saying something she didn’t. NTA.

Athlete kids eat a lot, boyfriend should pay. NTA

NTA: Boyfriend needs to step up with food and activities

NTA. Your SO needs to step in. Try snack boxes.

NTA: Don’t let him take advantage of you and your food

NTA: Set boundaries, lock the door, and prioritize your work

Kids’ insatiable appetites: medical condition or greedy rat-bastards? ‍♀️

NTA. Boyfriend should take responsibility for his kids’ needs.

NTA. Kids are bottomless pits, not your responsibility. Dad pay!

NTA: Boyfriend should pay and arrange food for his kids

NTA. Take charge and find summer activities for the kids!

BF should take responsibility for his kids’ appetites and expenses

Overwhelmed and underappreciated? Time to set some boundaries!

NTA. Boyfriend should take charge of kids’ meals, not you. ‍ ‍ ‍ Meal prep and snacks can help.

Kids’ boredom leads to insatiable appetites. BF should enroll them in summer activities.

Engage with kids in the kitchen for healthier habits and bonding ‍

NTA. Your bf needs to pay for his kids’ food.

NTA: Woman battles boyfriend over kids’ appetites. Who’s wrong?

Concerned commenter questions parents’ lack of red flags over kids’ eating

NTA: Kids’ appetites or attention-seeking? Boyfriend’s responsibility to feed.

Fair share of groceries: His kids, his responsibility.

NTA: Escaping the insatiable appetites with a secret daytime office

NTA. Boyfriend should pay for kids’ food and respect your job.

NTA! Stand your ground and fight for your sanity!

OP avoids feeding bf’s kids at work, NTA

NTA: Boyfriend should pay for kids’ food, not just “chip in”

Supernanny’s snack jar solution: 3 meals + 2 personalized snacks

NTA. Instruct the kids to call their dad at work

Curious about the father’s role in feeding his kids?

Step up, dad!

Fair split of costs for boyfriend’s kids and living arrangements.

Fed up with being a maid? Bail on this BS relationship!

NTA. Don’t let him take advantage of your time and work.

ESH, but mostly your BF. Boundaries and financial responsibility ignored.

Suggest engaging activities and meal schedule to tackle kids’ boredom

NTA. BF needs to step up and plan meals/childcare.

NTA, BF should pay 4/5 of grocery bill. Strange appetites?

NTA: BF should pay for kids’ food & get a sitter

NTA: Suggest therapy for kids’ overeating, like 600lb life show.

Setting boundaries for kids’ snacks: NTA, but necessary for health

Kids’ insatiable appetites: boredom or genuine hunger? NTA’s perspective.

NTA! Kids should make their own snacks and contribute to groceries.

NTA. His kids, his responsibility. Are they hungry or bored?

NTA. You deserve better than being a free nanny

‍♀️ Expecting to pay for all groceries? That’s insane!

NTA: Concerns about kids’ eating habits and unfair childcare responsibilities.

Don’t be a doormat! Stand up for yourself and set boundaries.

Sick of feeding his kids? Send them to camp!

NTA. Parents should be responsible for kids’ food anxiety.

OP contemplates leaving over annoying kids and their dad.

Are the kids bored and under occupied? Reconsider the plan.

NTA – Kids should learn to be self-sufficient in the kitchen!

NTA: Standing up for boundaries in blended families.

Battle of the appetites: Who’s really eating them out?