Mother’s Dilemma: To Strip or Not to Strip Ex’s Custody Rights?

Imagine being a mother, fighting for the rights of your child, only to find yourself in a whirlwind of moral dilemmas and emotional turmoil. This is the story of a woman who found herself in a tug-of-war with her ex and his family, over the custody of their son.

The Unplanned Pregnancy and the Exit

The Surprise Grandmother ❓

The Strained Relationship and the Hidden Child ‍

The DNA Test and the Custody Battle ⚖️

The Deception and the Unseen Father ‍

The Admission and the Legal Consultation ️⚖️

The Threat and the Emotional Turmoil

The Moral Dilemma and the Unresolved Question ❓ ‍♀️

A Mother’s Struggle: Between Justice and Compassion ⚖️

Caught in a whirlwind of emotional turmoil, our brave mother finds herself at a crossroads. Should she fight for justice and revoke her ex’s custody rights, or should she consider the potential emotional impact on her son? After all, her ex’s deceit has already caused enough pain. But, will her decision deprive her son of a relationship with his father? The stakes are high, the emotions raw, and the decision, well, it’s anything but simple. Let’s dive into the internet’s take on this gripping tale… ️

NTA, go to court to formalize custody. Ex lied, deserves consequences.

NTA! You have the right to decide who’s in your child’s life

NTA for exposing ex’s illegal actions and facing family backlash

NTA – Ex lied about custody, only cares about child support

NTA: Ex opted out, now wants custody? Get real!

NTA. Ex lied under oath, seek amendment to custody agreement.

NTA. Get his time revoked and consider adoption for your son.

Fight for custody! You’re not the a**hole, go for it!

Will the father change his mind? The custody charade revealed.

“Grandparent rights: a thing where you are? NTA but…”

NTA: Responsibility for child support and grandparent visitation rights.

Cut toxic people out of your life for your child’s sake. ✂️

How did she not realize her ex wasn’t there?!

Mother didn’t realize the father wasn’t watching the kid?

Will the child’s grandparents’ anti-Semitism affect his custody rights?

Challenge the grandparents to Shabbat dinner and watch their reaction!

“NTA at all. He owes child support. Put that money away!”

NTA: Child support isn’t about you. Save it for your son!

How did you not notice your child’s father wasn’t there?

“NTA. His grandparents were complicit. Get full custody and support! “

NTA: Ex lied about custody, protect child from anti-semitism ‍♀️

Grandparents miss out due to lack of reconciliation.

Deceptive ex loses custody: NTA’s dilemma solved!

OP wants custody removed from ex to protect their child.

Protecting your kid, you’re definitely not the a**hole!

Illegal actions by ex may lead to custody loss.

NTA: Ex doesn’t want relationship with son, move forward

NTA. Ex lied about child care. Amend agreement & consider future.

He made his bed, now he has to lie in it. NTA.

NTA! Protect your son from dishonest ex and his parents.

NTA: Ex lied, took advantage of court. Grandparents should respect you.

NTA: Gather evidence, protect your son’s future from lies.

NTA! Fight for your son’s custody and waive child support!

NTA: Remove custody, make him pay child support, and seek consequences.

NTA. Take back your legal right to protect your child ✊

NTA for considering legal advice. Ensure child’s well-being and happiness.

Ex’s motive: . Mother fights for custody. #NTA

NTA. Fight for your rights and protect your child’s future!

NTA – Put it away for your child

NTA. Get that child support!

NTA. Stand your ground and prioritize your child’s well-being.

NTA: Ex lied and manipulated you, they don’t deserve pity.

Mother stands her ground: Not the a**hole in this situation

NTA. Ex broke agreement, avoid responsibility, consider removing custody.

NTA: Take control of custody and set your own terms.

Take control of custody and keep manipulative grandparents away!

NTA. You were ready to be the sole parent.

Can he sign away his parental rights?

NTA – Take control of custody and cut out grandparents.

NTA, can’t trust them with unsupervised visitation. Prioritize your son ‍

NTA. Sometimes it’s best for the child to have absent parent.

Protect your son from scammers and build a better future! ️

Ex’s shady behavior makes OP NTA. No kindness for him!

Child’s bond with grandparents: NTA, but future concerns

Legal options for stripping custody rights vary by country.

NTA, UK parents can privately arrange payments without government involvement.

NTA. Fixing custody agreement for child’s well-being and mental health.

Child’s opinion on grandparents’ visits: positive and enjoyable

NTA. Father ran from responsibility, but can still have relationship.

NTA – Toxic grandparents can ruin your relationship with your children

NTA. Ex and his parents are the assholes here.

1. Ex’s parents have no claim to YOUR child.
2. HE chose to lie to the courts. Apparently he didn’t learn that consequences have actions, and it seems he needs another lesson.
3 (and the most important). Your child is a person – not an accessory. He can’t just choose to pop in and out of this kid’s life “when he’s ready” and be a parent when it’s convenient for him down the line. That is setting your son up for a slew of trust and abandonment issues and that is not fair to him.

I’m not sure how any of these people thought that this was a good idea. What exactly were they thinking they would do in the event of an emergency? And who knows what his parents were teaching your child while he was with them?

This whole thing is skeevy and gross. They can’t be trusted and they beed to face the consequeces of their actions. Send everything to your solicitor right away.

Manipulative in-laws? Trust your instincts and protect your child! ✋

NTA. Ex’s cowardice, lies, and manipulation. Be a great single mother!