Mother's Dilemma: To Strip or Not to Strip Ex's Custody Rights?

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Diply | Diply

Imagine being a mother, fighting for the rights of your child, only to find yourself in a whirlwind of moral dilemmas and emotional turmoil. This is the story of a woman who found herself in a tug-of-war with her ex and his family, over the custody of their son. 🥺💔

The Unplanned Pregnancy and the Exit 🤰🚪

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The Surprise Grandmother 👵❓

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The Strained Relationship and the Hidden Child 👩‍👦💔

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The DNA Test and the Custody Battle 🧬⚖️

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The Deception and the Unseen Father 🏠👨‍👦

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The Admission and the Legal Consultation 🗣️⚖️

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The Threat and the Emotional Turmoil 🥀💔

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The Moral Dilemma and the Unresolved Question ❓🤷‍♀️

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A Mother's Struggle: Between Justice and Compassion 💔⚖️

Caught in a whirlwind of emotional turmoil, our brave mother finds herself at a crossroads. Should she fight for justice and revoke her ex's custody rights, or should she consider the potential emotional impact on her son? After all, her ex's deceit has already caused enough pain. But, will her decision deprive her son of a relationship with his father? The stakes are high, the emotions raw, and the decision, well, it's anything but simple. Let's dive into the internet's take on this gripping tale... 🌪️💔

NTA, go to court to formalize custody. Ex lied, deserves consequences. 💪

j0m1n1n | j0m1n1n

NTA! You have the right to decide who's in your child's life 👏

owlcityy | owlcityy

NTA for exposing ex's illegal actions and facing family backlash 🚫📝

sebeed | sebeed

NTA - Ex lied about custody, only cares about child support 💔

HowardProject | HowardProject

NTA: Ex opted out, now wants custody? Get real! 😡

BoldHYPER | BoldHYPER

NTA. Ex lied under oath, seek amendment to custody agreement. 👍

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NTA. Get his time revoked and consider adoption for your son.

YungHippie | YungHippie

Fight for custody! You're not the a**hole, go for it! 💪

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Will the father change his mind? The custody charade revealed.

tank5 | tank5

"Grandparent rights: a thing where you are? NTA but..." 🤔

Wikidess | Wikidess

NTA: Responsibility for child support and grandparent visitation rights.

fruitynutcase | fruitynutcase

Cut toxic people out of your life for your child's sake. ✂️

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🤔 How did she not realize her ex wasn't there?!

no_good_namez | no_good_namez

🤔 Mother didn't realize the father wasn't watching the kid?

Squidjit89 | Squidjit89

Will the child's grandparents' anti-Semitism affect his custody rights?

lamamaloca | lamamaloca

Challenge the grandparents to Shabbat dinner and watch their reaction! 😏

DrukMeMa | DrukMeMa

"NTA at all. He owes child support. Put that money away!"

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NTA: Child support isn't about you. Save it for your son! 💪

Uma__ | Uma__

🤔 How did you not notice your child's father wasn't there?

LemonMeringueOctopi | LemonMeringueOctopi

"NTA. His grandparents were complicit. Get full custody and support! 💪"

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NTA: Ex lied about custody, protect child from anti-semitism 🙅‍♀️

Key_Art_6942 | Key_Art_6942

Grandparents miss out due to lack of reconciliation. 💔

External_Outcome5678 | External_Outcome5678

Deceptive ex loses custody: NTA's dilemma solved! 🙌

Freckledbruh | Freckledbruh

OP wants custody removed from ex to protect their child. 🤔

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Protecting your kid, you're definitely not the a**hole! 🙌

MeiMei91 | MeiMei91

Illegal actions by ex may lead to custody loss. 💔

singer96 | singer96

NTA: Ex doesn't want relationship with son, move forward 👍

shesavillain | shesavillain

NTA. Ex lied about child care. Amend agreement & consider future.

WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

He made his bed, now he has to lie in it. NTA.

Lexi_Banner | Lexi_Banner

NTA! Protect your son from dishonest ex and his parents. 🙏

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

NTA: Ex lied, took advantage of court. Grandparents should respect you.

AshleythePuff | AshleythePuff

NTA: Gather evidence, protect your son's future from lies. 📹

Sparfuchsx3 | Sparfuchsx3

NTA! Fight for your son's custody and waive child support!

flutterby727 | flutterby727

NTA: Remove custody, make him pay child support, and seek consequences.

GreatOneLiners | GreatOneLiners

NTA. Take back your legal right to protect your child ✊

Ebyanyothername | Ebyanyothername

NTA for considering legal advice. Ensure child's well-being and happiness. 👍

nylajx | nylajx

Ex's motive: 💰. Mother fights for custody. #NTA

LivelyUnicorn | LivelyUnicorn

NTA. Fight for your rights and protect your child's future! 🥊

Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz

NTA - Put it away for your child 👍

wariowars | wariowars

NTA. Get that child support! 👍

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NTA. Stand your ground and prioritize your child's well-being. 💪

supermeg77 | supermeg77

NTA: Ex lied and manipulated you, they don't deserve pity.

floss147 | floss147

Mother stands her ground: Not the a**hole in this situation

BazingaBoomer | BazingaBoomer

NTA. Ex broke agreement, avoid responsibility, consider removing custody.

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NTA: Take control of custody and set your own terms. 👏

CSmaag | CSmaag

Take control of custody and keep manipulative grandparents away! 💪

benry007 | benry007

NTA. You were ready to be the sole parent. 🏆

Kab1212 | Kab1212

Can he sign away his parental rights? 🤔

mrsducky19 | mrsducky19

NTA - Take control of custody and cut out grandparents.

cajunchica | cajunchica

NTA, can't trust them with unsupervised visitation. Prioritize your son 👨‍🍳

DiligentPenguin16 | DiligentPenguin16

NTA. Sometimes it's best for the child to have absent parent. 👏

matildaisdead | matildaisdead

Protect your son from scammers and build a better future! 🛡️

backupbitches | backupbitches

Ex's shady behavior makes OP NTA. No kindness for him! 😡

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Child's bond with grandparents: NTA, but future concerns 🤔

Micaely97 | Micaely97

Legal options for stripping custody rights vary by country. 🌎

seawest_lowlife | seawest_lowlife

NTA, UK parents can privately arrange payments without government involvement.

gr00veh0lmes | gr00veh0lmes

NTA. Fixing custody agreement for child's well-being and mental health. 👍

addmin13 | addmin13

Child's opinion on grandparents' visits: positive and enjoyable 🥰

JakobWulfkind | JakobWulfkind

NTA. Father ran from responsibility, but can still have relationship. 👍

WhimWhimWhatever | WhimWhimWhatever

NTA - Toxic grandparents can ruin your relationship with your children 😡

FlyingMistDragon | FlyingMistDragon

NTA. Ex and his parents are the assholes here. 1. Ex's parents have no claim to YOUR child. 2. HE chose to lie to the courts. Apparently he didn't learn that consequences have actions, and it seems he needs another lesson. 3 (and the most important). Your child is a person - not an accessory. He can't just choose to pop in and out of this kid's life "when he's ready" and be a parent when it's convenient for him down the line. That is setting your son up for a slew of trust and abandonment issues and that is not fair to him. I'm not sure how any of these people thought that this was a good idea. What exactly were they thinking they would do in the event of an emergency? And who knows what his parents were teaching your child while he was with them? This whole thing is skeevy and gross. They can't be trusted and they beed to face the consequeces of their actions. Send everything to your solicitor right away.

mediocreorganism | mediocreorganism

Manipulative in-laws? Trust your instincts and protect your child! ✋🚫

Horror-Reveal7618 | Horror-Reveal7618

NTA. Ex's cowardice, lies, and manipulation. Be a great single mother! 💪

thoroughlybaffled | thoroughlybaffled

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