Daughter's Dilemma: Dad Ditches Family, Again! 😲

Diply Social Team
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Imagine growing up without parents, only to have your estranged father suddenly reappear in your life, bearing gifts and apologies. Now, imagine he's done it again - abandoned his new family, leaving a trail of chaos and confusion. This is the reality for one young woman who finds herself in the midst of a family drama, thousands of miles away from the epicenter. Let's delve into her story... 🕵️‍♀️

A Ghost from the Past 👻

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A New Chapter Begins 📖

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The Unexpected Gifts 🎁

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The Silence Returns 🤫

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A Shocking Revelation 😱

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The Ransom Note 📝

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A Plea for Help 🙏

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A Difficult Decision 💔

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A Step Back 🚶‍♀️

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A Lingering Question 🤔

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Caught in the Crossfire of a Family Fiasco: To Care or Not to Care? 🎭

Our protagonist, a young woman who's been through the wringer of parental abandonment, finds herself in a quandary. Her father, who had reappeared in her life after a decade-long absence, has disappeared again, leaving behind a new family in turmoil. He's not just gone, but has allegedly stolen from his wife, leaving her and their daughter in distress. Now, the woman is being asked to step in and help. But she's thousands of miles away, with no way to contact her wayward father, and a surprising lack of emotional investment in the situation. She's chosen to step back, but is left questioning her decision. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐

NTA - You're not your father's keeper. Let them handle it. 👍

notquiteright519 | notquiteright519

NTA. Family drama, money, and suspicions. Something fishy is going on! 🤔

blairwaldorfbass_ny | blairwaldorfbass_ny

NTA wonders if dad and aunt are scamming OP and others 🤔

sunshine_daze | sunshine_daze

You're not the a**hole. It's not your fault or responsibility. 🙏

Not-a-Cranky-Panda | Not-a-Cranky-Panda

NTA. Dad abandoned you, now wants back. Half-sibling is stranger/betrayer.

Aerumvorax | Aerumvorax

NTA. Don't clean up after his messes. You deserve better! 👏

cattripper | cattripper

NTA: Don't let guilt dictate your life. Prioritize your mental health! 🙌

violetbaudelairegt | violetbaudelairegt

NTA: Watch out for red flags and credit card statements! 😲

Former_Matter49 | Former_Matter49

NTA: Don't uproot your life for a flaky, lying dad. 😲

Oceanside9987 | Oceanside9987

🚨 NTA, but be cautious of father's motives and potential manipulation

armedaphrodite | armedaphrodite

Dad's on a mission to ruin lives, no stopping him! 😲

IAmTAAlways | IAmTAAlways

NTA. Don't carry your dad's baggage. You're not responsible! 🙏

BlueMoon5k | BlueMoon5k

NTA; not your problem 🙌

DishsUp | DishsUp

NTA. Cut ties, protect yourself, and move forward. 🙌

ButterscotchOk7516 | ButterscotchOk7516

NTA: You're not responsible for your dad's actions. Focus on yourself 👍

CurryMuncherM | CurryMuncherM

NTA. Tough situation. Can't replace him or fix his decisions. 😕

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NTA. No responsibility for Dad's actions. You're in the clear! 🙂

MissAnth | MissAnth

NTA. Uprooting your life for strangers? Ridiculous! 😲

ceruveal_brooks | ceruveal_brooks

You're right, it's not your responsibility. NTA! 👍

RideTheWindForever | RideTheWindForever

Heartbreaking betrayal, but you're definitely not the a**hole. 😢

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Heartbreaking story of a father's repeated abandonment. NTA 😢

Carobarbie | Carobarbie

NTA. Stand up for yourself and don't let them scam you! 💪

Cant-think-about-it | Cant-think-about-it

NTA. Wife's dilemma: divorce or deal with possible money scam? 😲

Comment7215 | Comment7215

No responsibility for abandoned sister? NTA, genes don't define family. 😲

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NTA: Not your monkey, not your circus! 🐶

six_242 | six_242

NTA. Aunt should step up or stop pushing responsibility on others. 🙌

KhajiitNeedSkooma | KhajiitNeedSkooma

Dad's disappearance leaves daughter in a messy situation. 🤷‍♀️

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NTA, sorry for the s**t situation 😲

lending_ear | lending_ear

Aunty to the rescue! Helping out her sister in need. 👏

Potential-Power7485 | Potential-Power7485

NTA - Dad's abandonment isn't a Disney movie. Your aunt's wrong. 😲

Relevant_Birthday_89 | Relevant_Birthday_89

Daughter not the a**hole for dad ditching family again! 👏

subject5of5 | subject5of5

NTA. Don't let your father's problems consume your own happiness. 🙌

Sea_Chocolate_2681 | Sea_Chocolate_2681

NTA. Blood isn't everything. Focus on your own life 🙌

DocSternau | DocSternau

NTA: Stay out of your dad's drama, you're better off! 😲

Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360

NTA: Be cautious of unknowingly getting involved in money laundering.

justanordinarymuggle | justanordinarymuggle

"NTA. Stay away from that dangerous man. Get a new identity! 😲"

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Stay put! Something's fishy. Let's see what unfolds next. 🤔

ExceptionallyExotic | ExceptionallyExotic

NTA: Dad's abandonment leaves daughter with tough decision 😲

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Father's betrayal: Is he really worth $30k? NTA.

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Empathy without action: NTA comment sparks debate. 🤔


NTA: The search for a runaway dad, Sherlock Holmes-style! 🤷‍♂️

Accomplished-Dog3715 | Accomplished-Dog3715

Daughter not at fault for dad's repeated abandonment! 👏

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Curious if it's Zimbabwe, but NTA for leaving family

Obvious-Jump736 | Obvious-Jump736

NTA: Keep your spine shiny and bright! 👏

RealisticWin3801 | RealisticWin3801

NTA but seek therapy for emotional numbness. It's important 🙏

dancingb33 | dancingb33

NTA. Your dad's abandonment is not your fault or problem! 🙏

tcrhs | tcrhs

NTA: Family vs Blood, sister could be family one day 💜

StrykerC13 | StrykerC13

Deadbeat dad ditches family, leaving a trail of broken hearts. 💔

GirlJessy | GirlJessy

NTA: Money presents stolen? Return some cash for mental health. 😲

Corfiz74 | Corfiz74

Empowerment and self-care: You're not responsible for others' actions. 💪

Jessicasdoor | Jessicasdoor

NTA. Your sister and her mom are better off without him 😲

Pencils_ | Pencils_

Daughter not the a**hole for dad's repeated abandonment. 👏

Its_Like_Whatever_OK | Its_Like_Whatever_OK

Be supportive and join their family. You're NTA! 👏

Albe303 | Albe303

Block the haters and focus on yourself! 💪

coolbeenz68 | coolbeenz68

NTA, it's tough when you can't help family. Stay strong!

HuggyMonster69 | HuggyMonster69

Sympathy for a daughter with a goofy dad. NTA 😔

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NTA. Don't clean up dad's mess. Keep your distance! 👍

noccie | noccie

NTA, don't feel guilty. Show love through cards and gifts 💗

NoBat7364 | NoBat7364

NTA. Dad made choices without consulting you, including disappearing again. You have no say in his life choices. You're the *last* person your aunt should guilt trip. 😲

DiTrastevere | DiTrastevere

NTA. Stand up for yourself and prioritize your well-being! 💪

mcclgwe | mcclgwe

🤔 Expectations vs. Reality: Pulling Dad out of *ss!

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NTA. Family should support half sister, not you. 👏

Familiar_Sir_8542 | Familiar_Sir_8542

Unintentional accomplice? 🤔 NTA, but check your sources, OP!

Gaunt-85 | Gaunt-85

🤔 Suspicious story: Dad holding himself ransom for $30k? Extortion?

Much_Cost_7318 | Much_Cost_7318

NTA. It's not your fault. She knew what she signed up for. 🙅

Charming_Ad8910 | Charming_Ad8910

Dad's abandonment: You owe no one anything. Protect yourself. 😲

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NTA. Drama buffet? No thanks! 😲

loginorregister9 | loginorregister9

Abandoned by dad, now relatives want me to care? NTA.

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"NTA: Beware of the family scam! Protect your hard-earned money!"

disruptionisbliss | disruptionisbliss

NTA. You're 22yo, let the adults handle it. 👏

SilverRoseBlade | SilverRoseBlade

NTA- No obligation to help strangers. Auntie can step in 😲

no_shirt_4_jim_kirk | no_shirt_4_jim_kirk

Short and to the point. No explanation needed. 🙄

ybother1973 | ybother1973

Aunt's concern? Not your problem! 🤷‍♀️

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Surviving a serial dad: NTA, siblings yes, responsibility no! 😲

yarnvoker | yarnvoker

Aunt's concern, but why doesn't she help? 😔

cjgist | cjgist

NTA: Stay out of it! Don't sacrifice your future for guilt.

Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304

Secure your sister's future, don't support your dad's irresponsibility! 👍

allyearswift | allyearswift

Self preservation doesn't make you the a**hole. 🙌

47-is-a-prime-number | 47-is-a-prime-number

NTA, not your problem 🙌

Illustrious-Bad-6618 | Illustrious-Bad-6618

Stand strong and say 'No' to your abusive father. 💪

HesterFabian | HesterFabian

Daughter stands up against dad's abandonment, wife should've known better! NTA

notmymainaccount0511 | notmymainaccount0511

NTA: Family dynamics can be tough. It's unfair to expect one person to fix everything. 🙏

AUnknownuser2 | AUnknownuser2

NTA. Dad's absence, your success. No involvement needed. 👏

Samoyedfun | Samoyedfun

Heartbreaking consequences of a father's repeated abandonment. 💔

Apatheticforcredit | Apatheticforcredit

🚩 Beware of men who abandon families! 🚩

Khaleeeesi21 | Khaleeeesi21

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