We’ve all heard of relationship ups and downs, but what happens when the car breaks down too? Meet our heroine, a 22-year-old woman who’s been in a relationship for five years. When her boyfriend’s car gives up the ghost, she steps in to help, transforming from girlfriend to chauffeur overnight. But when her boyfriend complains to his family about the arrangement, things take a dramatic turn. Let’s buckle up and dive into this rollercoaster ride of love, responsibility, and automobile woes.
The Car Crisis

The Insurance Issue

The Early Bird Dilemma ⏰

The Mother’s Intervention ☎️

The Financial Strain

The Breaking Point

The Guilt and Exhaustion

The Final Note

Driving Love to a Dead End?
Our heroine finds herself in a dilemma. She’s been playing chauffeur to her boyfriend after his car broke down, but his lack of understanding and gratitude has left her feeling unappreciated. Adding fuel to the fire, his mother insists it’s her responsibility to help him, despite the strain it’s putting on her. Tired and frustrated, she decides to limit her chauffeur services, sparking a debate about love, responsibility, and the road to being a supportive partner. But what does the world wide web think about this? Let’s dive into some of the top reactions to this vehicular saga.
NTA. Became a parent at 17, but things changed due to mental health issues

Struggling with mental health doesn’t excuse being ungrateful. NTA.

NTA. Don’t let him drive the rental. Get him a bike

“Toxic ‘man of the house’ attitude affects entire relationship. “

A glimpse into a suffocating future with his overbearing mother.

Are you a girlfriend or a second mother?

Demanding support for partner’s mental health while avoiding resentment.

Girlfriend’s chauffeur duties spark family feud, NTA, have a talk

NTA. Partner not possession. He’s old enough to handle it

Dump the loser!

NTA. Boyfriend’s entitlement sparks family feud. You deserve better

NTA. Boyfriend needs a ride to class, but it’s not your responsibility

NTA: You’re not his mom, let him drive his life
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NTA NTA and also YOU’RE NOT HIS MUM ♂️

NTA, time to think about yourself and rethink your relationship

NTA – MIL nightmare, don’t feel guilty. Take care of yourself

NTA, prioritize your mental health and communicate your needs

NTA- Girlfriend’s chauffeur duties spark family feud.

Dump him and find someone better!
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NTA, love can be hard to let go of

Partner not taxi : NTA, he needs responsibility lessons!

Don’t marry him! Girlfriend’s chauffeur duties cause family feud.

“NTA. He’s entitled and ungrateful. Why can’t he take the bus? “

NTA. Dump him and focus on your own growth

Lazy boyfriend sparks family feud with his lack of responsibility

NTA. You’re not his mom. His mom’s rude too.

Grandma pays bills for man-child, sparks family feud

Not your responsibility to solve, let him figure it out

NTA: Find someone who cherishes and respects you

NTA, time for him to learn and stop being entitled

NTA. Girlfriend sarcastically offers to drop off boyfriend at his mother’s.

NTA. Boyfriend’s mom interferes, boyfriend doesn’t contribute, and risks your car.

NTA- You’re his girlfriend, not his substitute mother
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NTA – Boyfriend needs therapy, not a chauffeur girlfriend.

Red flags in relationship: Should you be his chauffeur?

OP’s lazy leech boyfriend sparks family feud
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NTA. Offering help, but don’t risk your car. Consider bus.

Are you a pushover? Set boundaries and demand equality!

NTA. Flexing a new car can boost ego, but insisting on a loaner car is selfish and irresponsible

Bad luck with cars leads to family feud over chauffeur duties

NTA. Sexist comment from mom, red flag for future relationship.

Lazy boyfriend sparks feud over chauffeur duties. NTA for calling out!

♀️ Girlfriend’s chauffeur duties spark family feud. Is it worth it?

NTA. Reevaluate your relationship and consider a fresh start.

Don’t be his chauffeur forever! NTA

NTA, walk away and prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

Take charge of your relationship!

NTA: No, it’s not your job.

NTA: You offered help, but he didn’t want it. Not your responsibility.

NTA: Boyfriend’s mommy issues may ruin your relationship. ♀️

NTA- Encouraging, but not your job to parent his motivation.

NTA. Set boundaries and give an ultimatum to your boyfriend.

Love isn’t always enough. NTA for setting boundaries with chauffeur duties.

Are you sure you want to be a chauffeur forever?

NTA, but are you his girlfriend or his mother?

Ready for a lifetime of chauffeur duties? NTA

“Girl, think twice before becoming a chauffeur for a man-child!”

NTA. Prioritizing your own future and happiness is important

NTA: Find a man who can handle his own battles

Dump the boyfriend! He’s a deadweight whiner.

NTA: Young and childless, but chauffeuring duties spark family feud

Dump him! You deserve a better chauffeur for life

NTA. Supportive but set boundaries. Encourage professional help for him.

Boyfriend’s family wants girlfriend to be their chauffeur, she refuses

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Dump the boyfriend!

NTA. He needs to understand the insurance and responsibility.

Exhausted girlfriend plays chauffeur, wonders if she’s a single parent. NTA
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You’re not the a**hole! He’s lazy and entitled. Good job!

NTA: Don’t let him drive loaner car, have a heart-to-heart.
