Man's Unusual Condition Sparks Tension with Boyfriend: Who's in the Wrong?

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We've all had those moments when our bodies betray us at the worst possible time. But what happens when your partner doesn't understand, and worse, criticizes you for it? This is the predicament our 22-year-old hero found himself in, after a rare medical condition led to an embarrassing incident. His boyfriend's reaction? Less than supportive. Let's dive into this tale of conflict, drama, and a dash of moral ambiguity. 👀🍿

The Unseen Struggle 🤔

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A Rare Incident 🚨

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A Race Against Time ⏰

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The Unfortunate Outcome 😳

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Boyfriend's Reaction: Not So Supportive 😡

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A Turn of the Tables 🔄

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The Ultimatum 🗣️

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The Fallout: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷‍♂️

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A Rare Condition, An Unsympathetic Boyfriend, and a Heated Argument: Who's the Real Culprit? 🎭

Our 22-year-old hero, struggling with a condition that impairs his ability to recognize bodily signals, found himself in an embarrassing predicament. When his body betrayed him on a long car ride, his boyfriend's reaction was far from understanding. Instead of sympathy, he was met with criticism and complaints. Our hero, recalling how he had recently cared for his sick boyfriend, retaliated with a vow not to console or clean up after him in the future. This sparked a heated argument, leaving us all wondering: who's really in the wrong here? Let's delve into the internet's top responses to this dramatic saga. 🍿👀

Boyfriend's double standard sparks tension. OP calls him out. NTA 🙅

Working_Horse_3077 | Working_Horse_3077

Stand up for yourself! You deserve someone who accepts you. ✊

BodaciousBonnie | BodaciousBonnie

Proactive solutions for a delicate situation 👍

ignorance-on-fire | ignorance-on-fire

Boyfriend judges medical condition, but she's not the a**hole. 💔

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NTA - Boyfriend needs to accept and support your condition. 👍

Zictor42 | Zictor42

NTA.. keeping a plastic bottle for emergencies: practical and discreet! 💧

InsomniacArmadillo | InsomniacArmadillo

Dump your a-hole boyfriend. You deserve better. 💔

engineeeeer7 | engineeeeer7

NTA. Supportive commenters empathize with OP's medical condition and criticize unsupportive boyfriend. 😔

Cyarsonix | Cyarsonix

Boyfriend lacks empathy, comparison to puking on floor is spot-on 😷

rpepperpot_reddit | rpepperpot_reddit

NTA: Boyfriend mocked condition, but WAP quote was perfect 😂

MyMexicanWheepit | MyMexicanWheepit

NTA, time for a breakup! 🚫💔

jac_dan_mcl | jac_dan_mcl

NTA. Accused of peeing to piss off boyfriend? 🤔

Spectrum2081 | Spectrum2081

Dump the BF! Keep a pee bottle in the car 😁

JessieColt | JessieColt

"NTA. Time to find a new boyfriend." 😎

chlorenchyma | chlorenchyma

Boyfriend left a mess: NTA but 🚫🐶💩

Wonderful_Ad9491 | Wonderful_Ad9491

Boyfriend's inconsiderate actions cause unnecessary pain and frustration for OP 😡

Lil-Red-Fox | Lil-Red-Fox

NTA... Red flags in relationship due to health issue. 🚩

MauricioCMC | MauricioCMC

Seeking medical advice for a unique condition. Any solutions?

GoldenTea999 | GoldenTea999

Supportive comment and advice for reevaluating the relationship. 👍

Affectionate-Youth21 | Affectionate-Youth21

NTA. Relatable struggle with irritable bowel syndrome and understanding partner. 🙏

Mom_Is_Up_All_Night | Mom_Is_Up_All_Night

Heartbreaking story of misdiagnosis and loss, urging others to seek help 😢

steve117711 | steve117711

NTA. Setting timers can help avoid sudden emergencies. Your bf should clean up after himself. Is he always like this? Worth dealing with?

KindResist0 | KindResist0

Unfair comparison: dealing with issue vs. puking in toilet. NTA

palatablezeus | palatablezeus

Dump him! You deserve better! 💔

nondienary | nondienary

NTA. Boyfriend belittles medical issue, hypocrite. Apology or abuse pattern?

rez2metrogirl | rez2metrogirl

Pee on him! Find a better boyfriend. You're not the a**hole.

LiLuLo-12 | LiLuLo-12

Commenter advises leaving disrespectful and hypocritical boyfriend. NTA.

IndependentLeopard95 | IndependentLeopard95

Dump him! No empathy for your medical condition? You deserve better! 💔

kittynoodlesoap | kittynoodlesoap

Stand up for yourself! Don't let anyone belittle your condition. 💪

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

NTA, but a portable urinal for the car? 🤔

Rtarara | Rtarara

NTA! Keep an empty bottle in the car, just in case! 🙈

Alarmed-Part4718 | Alarmed-Part4718

Stay prepared, guys! Portable urinals and discretion are key 💩

VoltaicSketchyTeapot | VoltaicSketchyTeapot

Misdiagnosed for years, now I know I'm not alone 😮

GoddessPyroVixen | GoddessPyroVixen

🚩 NTA, major red flags waving in this relationship.

Maelstrom_Witch | Maelstrom_Witch

NTA. Embrace your bladder issues and stand up to your boyfriend! 💪

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

NTA, ask yourself why your friends can understand but he can't? You literally couldn't help it. 💔 Maybe talk when things are calm? 💬

HopelessJune13 | HopelessJune13

NTA: No drama, just a healthy disagreement. 👏

beb-eroni | beb-eroni

Boyfriend shames person with unusual condition: NTA, he's wrong 🚫

ThrowawayConfe5510n | ThrowawayConfe5510n

NTA, but boyfriend's cruel shaming is not the solution. 😔

Imaginary_Cow_6379 | Imaginary_Cow_6379

NTA: Boyfriend not supportive. Bathroom schedule and pads suggested.

re_nonsequiturs | re_nonsequiturs

🚫 NTA, 🤔 reevaluate relationship, 🤬 BF lacks empathy & understanding

Aetheria1 | Aetheria1

NTA, but can't you set a pee schedule? 🚽⏰

DefinitelySaneGary | DefinitelySaneGary

Desperate for a pee break? Find out why it's complicated!

suckmyduck29 | suckmyduck29

NTA: Explain your condition to him and find a supportive partner. 👍

succulent9999 | succulent9999

ADHD: The culprit behind hyperfocus and bodily neglect. 💡🧠

VBunns | VBunns

Perfect comparison, not the a**hole. ✨

wpel_142 | wpel_142

NTA. Boyfriend's cruelty: is this relationship worth sustaining? 🤔

Badger-of-Horrors | Badger-of-Horrors

Not the a**hole! Drama unfolds in unusual relationship.

theviolethour3 | theviolethour3

🚫 NTA. Boyfriend's double standards: expecting partner to clean his barf?

i_am_notthewalrus | i_am_notthewalrus

Supporting each other when sick is crucial for a relationship 😷💕

MizElltry | MizElltry

Dump. This. Guy. Not the a**hole 👏

FleurDeCLE | FleurDeCLE

BF doesn't get it. NTA, but he's definitely in the wrong.

elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet

NTA. Medical issue causing accidents, boyfriend acting like a big baby 😒

Many-Rest | Many-Rest

Empathy goes both ways. NTA for setting boundaries. 👍

N3ssaW | N3ssaW

NTA. Seek medical advice. 🏥

Pinky81210 | Pinky81210

Dump him! You deserve better 💔

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NTA. Boyfriend should be more supportive. Funny husband response.

Conn1991 | Conn1991

Why are you still with him? You're definitely not the a**hole! 🚫🍑

DipsyDoodIe | DipsyDoodIe

Curious why you're still with him? Share your story!

itsOKeveryoneHatesMe | itsOKeveryoneHatesMe

NTA. Hypocritical boyfriend? Time for an upgrade! 💔

Annual-Contract-115 | Annual-Contract-115

Billy Madison > your boyfriend. NTA for sure! 🙌

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NTA, boyfriend is the problem. Run while you can! 🙌

Icy-Sun1216 | Icy-Sun1216

Defending medical condition against unsympathetic boyfriend. You did nothing wrong!

jemjarbinks | jemjarbinks

Not the a**hole, but what sparked the tension? 😮

breebop83 | breebop83

Unhealthy relationship? Boyfriend's behavior sparks tension. NTA! 😮

the_dmon | the_dmon

NTA: Communicate your condition and decide if it's a dealbreaker. 💔

n8loller | n8loller

Adult pee pads: a solution for an unusual condition? 🤔

secretmacaroni | secretmacaroni

Dump the bf! He needs to grow up and understand.

Aetherfox13 | Aetherfox13

NTA! Stand up for yourself and leave that toxic relationship. 💪

tman01969 | tman01969

Dump the loser! Find a compassionate dude. 💔

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Commenter suggests wearing adult diapers to avoid embarrassing accidents 💦

grimmy13 | grimmy13

NTA's bathroom routine questioned, boyfriend's behavior criticized. 💩

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