Living with roommates can be a challenging experience, especially when personal habits clash. Our story today revolves around a college quad, four girls, and a peculiar conflict about…a backpack? Yes, you read that right. It’s a tale of boundaries, OCD, and the struggle for personal space. Let’s dive into this intriguing saga.
The Roommate and The Rug

The Backpack Dilemma

The Compromise Attempt

The OCD Revelation

The Final Showdown

The Standoff Continues ♀️

The Backpack Battle: Who’s Right, Who’s Wrong? ♀️
In the end, our protagonist stands her ground, asserting her right to use her side of the room as she pleases. She’s tried to accommodate her roommate’s OCD, even proposing a compromise. But with no suggestions from the other side, the conflict remains unresolved. The backpack stays put, but the tension lingers. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Expecting accommodation for OCD is unfair, but appreciated when done voluntarily

NTA! You’re being considerate, but it’s your room.

Being reasonable is key. You’re definitely NTA!

NTA. Learning to navigate OCD and social interactions

NTA – Making small adjustments for your roommate’s OCD: helpful or harmful?

Respecting boundaries: NTA comment sparks discussion on roommate dynamics

NTA. Supportive advice for dealing with roommate’s OCD and boundaries.

Self-diagnosed OCD: Control over people, not objects?

Roommate’s entitlement sparks discussion on living arrangements.

Compromise is key. Don’t let OCD rule your roommate situation!

NTA – Stand your ground and find a peaceful living arrangement

NTA. Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your roommate!
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NTA: Roommate’s OCD demands clash with reality. Compromise needed.

NTA!! Don’t let OCD interfere with others’ lives

Messy roommate vs OCD roommate: a battle of entitlement

NTA offers accommodations for roommate’s OCD, but no compromise reached.
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Fair and accommodating roommate stands up for their space
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Roommate’s OCD leads to conflict over personal space

Resisting the urge to accommodate OCD: NTA’s insightful perspective.

Is she really OCD or just a clean freak?
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Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!
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Divide and conquer: Roommate’s OCD meets creative solution

Roommate’s extreme OCD demands and entitled behavior

NTA: Don’t let her illness control your life

NTA. Roommate’s OCD causing tension. Need to find compromise.

NTA – Roommate overstepped boundaries, you were accommodating. Stand your ground!

NTA: Stand your ground and set boundaries. ♀️

Living with severe OCD: A sister’s perspective

Roommate’s OCD causes constant conflict over organization and personal items

NTA- Stand your ground and don’t let others walk over you!

Roommate’s OCD vs Personal Boundaries: NTA but AH behavior ♀️
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NTA, compromising for OCD roommate.

Messy roommate, triggered roommate, but you’re being reasonable. NTA

Living with an entitled roommate? NTA for being accommodating!

Polite refusal to move backpack sparks roommate conflict. NTA.

NTA. Set boundaries and encourage her to seek professional help.
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Messy roommate? Throw clothes on floor to trigger room change!

Shoes on the rug? Gross! But backpack clutter is ridiculous
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Compromising with someone with OCD can lead to harmony

Stand your ground and set boundaries. Don’t provoke, but assert yourself.

NTA. Mental illness isn’t an excuse to boss others.

NTA. Stand your ground against unreasonable roommate with OCD

Is she really suffering from OCD or just being selfish?

Living in a perfect world? Maybe she should live alone

NTA: Using fiancé to relieve compulsions, but not helping roommate

Shoes inside? NTA but cultural difference sparks heated debate

Roommate’s disorder doesn’t give her the right to control.

NTA. Roommate’s undiagnosed OCD: not your responsibility to accommodate.

Therapist advises against giving in to OCD demands. NTA!

Your space, your rules!

Accusing roommate of faking OCD for control
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Stand your ground! Don’t let her rug rule your home!

A visual barrier could ease your roommate’s OCD concerns

Respecting boundaries: OCD doesn’t justify controlling behavior

Not the a**hole. What’s the story behind this conundrum?

Not the a**hole. Share your story too!

Not the a**hole, but what’s the conundrum?
