Mother's Dilemma: College Fund or House Down Payment? 🏠💰

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Meet our 54-year-old heroine, a mother of three caught in the crossfire of a family feud. She's got two daughters, one 28 and one 25, and a 17-year-old son. Despite divorcing their father 15 years ago, they've managed to stay friendly and committed to their children's futures. But when their college savings plan takes an unexpected turn, the drama unfolds. Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢💔

The Family Pact 📜

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The College Fund Agreement 🎓💰

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The Trade School Twist 🛠️

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The Wedding Bells 🎊

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The Homeowner's Proposal 🏠

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The Parents' Approval 👍

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The Middle Child's Outrage 😡

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The Accusation 🎯

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The Mother's Defense 🛡️

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The Father's Doubt 🤔

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The Mother's Dilemma 💔

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The Brother's Verdict 🏛️

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The Money Muddle: Who's Right and Who's Wrong? 💸🤷‍♀️

Caught in a whirlwind of family drama, our heroine finds herself questioning her decisions. She thought she was being fair, but her middle daughter's outrage has thrown a wrench into the works. Accusations of favoritism, rule-changing, and unfairness are flying, leaving the family in turmoil. The mother stands firm, believing she's done nothing wrong, but her ex-husband and brother are not so sure. The question remains: is she the one at fault? Or is this just a case of sibling rivalry gone awry? Let's see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of family drama. 🕸️💔

NTA - Daughter feels entitled to college fund over house down payment 😱

Rellybean10 | Rellybean10

Middle daughter regrets spending money on wedding, wants house.

SirEDCaLot | SirEDCaLot

NTA. Oldest got scholarships, middle daughter used money for wedding. Confusion.

fadgeoh | fadgeoh

Supportive comment and relatable situation for oldest daughter's request. 👍

moongirl12 | moongirl12

NTA. Daughter wants more money from flexible college fund. 😒

lightwoodorchestra | lightwoodorchestra

Middle child's unique request sparks debate among siblings. NTA 👍

TossMe2thewind | TossMe2thewind

"NTA. Honorable to set aside equal amounts for each child."

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

INFO: Daughter's wedding vs. house down payment - who's the a**hole? 😩

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NTA. Addressing resentment with therapy is more beneficial 👨‍🟫

Blacksmith-Right | Blacksmith-Right

Sibling entitlement sparks debate over college fund distribution. 💬

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"NTA. Fairness in distributing funds for education vs. wedding expenses."

phdoofus | phdoofus

NTA- Older daughter deserves equal treatment, middle daughter was responsible 👍

xknet101 | xknet101

Rewarding scholarships and renegotiating funds: Fair or unfair? 💰

mcxcc | mcxcc

Fair division of funds between children. Smart question asked.

0000udeis000 | 0000udeis000

NTA. Your money, your decision. She can earn her own.

Iziama94 | Iziama94

NTA - Daughter's entitlement causes family tension. 🙅🏼

ceciliaweasly | ceciliaweasly

NTA: Frustrated with siblings twisting intentions, distributed all funds. Family meeting?

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Middle daughter's wedding regrets spark family financial conflict. 👰

spritzdown | spritzdown

Fairness questioned: Should college fund be used for other purposes?

guppygarc | guppygarc

Sibling jealousy causing financial dilemma. Who's the real a**hole? 😳

sohumar | sohumar

NTA - Your money, your rules. Education first, then decide.

idontknow_999 | idontknow_999

NTA. Entitled daughter causes family drama over college fund. 🙅

Unique-Yam | Unique-Yam

NTA- Child expecting money past adulthood is an entitled brat. 😒

GrandpaJoeSloth | GrandpaJoeSloth

NTA. Daughter's scholarship, sister's fairness, and money for house.

highwoodshady | highwoodshady

Middle child's lavish wedding with college fund sparks family anger. 😱

catsndogspls | catsndogspls

NTA. Fairness and equal opportunities for all family members. 👍

PastelSpectre | PastelSpectre

Generous mom debates financial priorities with grateful daughter. 💜

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Middle child regrets wedding expenses. NTA. Money distribution equal.

Lintree | Lintree

Sibling jealousy over money: NTA, don't give in! 🙅

Diamond-TTB | Diamond-TTB

NTA- Middle daughter is entitled and selfish. Disgusting to complain.

lbmcp13 | lbmcp13

Middle daughter's oversight leads to unexpected problem. 🤦‍♀️

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Stick with your guns and prioritize your children's future. 👍

BaffledMum | BaffledMum

NTA. Eldest child made a reasonable request, middle child overreacted. 🙄

Ace_In_The_Whole1776 | Ace_In_The_Whole1776

"NTA. Fair treatment for all children's future goals and desires."

maggienetism | maggienetism

NTA - Encouraged kids' education, now they can use leftover money 💰

elvaholt | elvaholt

Choose wisely: College fund or house down payment? 🏠💰

MinionsHaveWonOne | MinionsHaveWonOne

Entitled daughter sparks debate over college fund vs. wedding expenses. 💰

OwlSeeYou8 | OwlSeeYou8

Daughter's wedding vs. other daughter's house: NTA dilemma 🙏

krystalfloods | krystalfloods

NTA. Investing in a home is a wise choice! 💰

QuixoticBamboo | QuixoticBamboo

NTA. Middle child feels entitled to more money, but that's unfair. 🙅‍♀️

escape777 | escape777

Starting life with husband vs. house down payment: same thing?

dgms007 | dgms007

Middle child's entitlement sparks debate on college funds vs. housing

girlwithdog_79 | girlwithdog_79

NTA. Unfair to withhold money for hypothetical future wedding. 😉

Immediate-Ferret8560 | Immediate-Ferret8560

The mystery of the unspoken college fund revelation 🤔

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Prioritizing college funds over wedding expenses, different family dynamics. 💰🎓

str8cocksucker2099 | str8cocksucker2099

Mother chooses wisely: College fund over house down payment! 🎓🎓

AmethysstFire | AmethysstFire

Sibling jealousy and responsibility. NTA offers flexibility and resentment.

17Foreshadowing17 | 17Foreshadowing17

Regretful daughter spends wedding money, now unhappy with her choices. 😔

Pixiepixie21 | Pixiepixie21

NTA: Wise decision to prioritize house over college fund. 📶

sugartitsheather | sugartitsheather

Engaging comment suggesting a potential solution for the college fund dilemma. 😊

asabovesobelow4 | asabovesobelow4

Middle child wants more money? 🤔 NTA for being fair.

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NTA for giving your children the freedom to use the funds as they see fit 👏

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Mother chooses college fund over house down payment. #NTA 👏

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Sibling rivalry over college funds 😬

soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018

Not the a**hole. What's the dilemma? College fund or house?

bizianka | bizianka

Middle daughter needs to mind her own business. NTA 👍

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NTA. Mother's dilemma: college fund or house down payment? 🏠💰

faithxinxme | faithxinxme

Sibling favoritism sparks debate over financial choices. 🙌

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Generous gift sparks debate: YTA or NTA? Wedding repayment solution?

hammockinggirl | hammockinggirl

Is $30k enough for school and weddings? Let's discuss! 🤔

mrsdorne | mrsdorne

NTA: It's your money! Don't let tantrums sway your decision! 💰

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NTA: Is she being a brat? Let's discuss! 😍

zebrapantson | zebrapantson

NTA: Protecting your eldest daughter's money was the right move! 👏

Sazzie888 | Sazzie888

Should parents prioritize college fund or house down payment? 🎁

metastasis_d | metastasis_d

Daughter's wedding money: confusion over who gets what 😳

Philosopher_1 | Philosopher_1

Middle child spends college fund, parents give her the remainder.

davidcornz | davidcornz

Supportive comment defends using college fund for house down payment

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Daughter's greed leads to creative wedding planning and financial dilemma. 💍💸

Surfer_wave_dolphin | Surfer_wave_dolphin

Middle kid got money, now dictates others? NTA, entitled behavior 🙄

GrayManGroup | GrayManGroup

NTA: Children not entitled to money, one child doesn't understand.

aKnightWh0SaysNi | aKnightWh0SaysNi

NTA, but work on communication with your kids. 👥

dr-thicc-hamster | dr-thicc-hamster

NTA. You're in charge, they've already been spoiled rotten! 😂

DeBlasioDeBlowMe | DeBlasioDeBlowMe

Daughter's entitlement and changing rules cause financial dilemma 💰

EmeraldStonekeeper | EmeraldStonekeeper

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