Mother Stands Up for Transgender Son: No Proper Pronouns, No Grandchild! 🚫👵👴

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In a world where acceptance should be the norm, one mother is taking a stand for her transgender son. After her 15-year-old son came out as FTM (Female to Male) transgender, she and her husband immediately offered their love and support. But when the grandparents refused to use the correct pronouns, this fierce momma bear laid down the law: No proper pronouns, no grandchild! 😮💔🌈

A Mother's Love Knows No Bounds 🌈👩‍👦

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

Acceptance Isn't Always Universal 😔

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

Grandparents Struggling with Change 👵👴

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

The Thanksgiving Pronoun Disaster 😡🦃

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

A Mother's Ultimatum: Respect or Distance 👩‍👦🚫

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

The Family's Reaction: Understanding or Accusation? 🤔

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

A Mother's Love and Gratitude 🙏💖

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

Mother's Tough Love: A Stand for Acceptance or a Step Too Far? 🌈👩‍👦

In a heart-wrenching stand for her son's identity, this mother is demanding respect from her own parents. After her son came out as FTM transgender, she expected the family to adapt and show support. But when her parents continued to use the incorrect pronouns, she issued an ultimatum: use the correct pronouns or lose contact with their grandchild. While some family members accuse her of being too harsh, she stands firm, believing she is doing what's best for her son. But what does the internet have to say about this? Let's find out...👀

"NTA - You're doing the right thing. Wish more parents understood. 👏"

broadwaycade | broadwaycade

NTA. Prioritizing your child's well-being over everything 💛

MerlinBiggs | MerlinBiggs

"NTA: Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional participation." 💜

JustheBean | JustheBean

NTA. Gender pronouns: one letter vs. a lifetime of respect 🚫

RaggieSoft | RaggieSoft

Supportive comment defends transgender son's pronouns, calls for respect. 👏

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

👩‍👦 NTA. Protecting your son from grandparents' lack of acceptance during Christmas 🎄

naranghim | naranghim

Supportive comment encourages using correct pronouns for transgender son ❤️

Andle_Randle | Andle_Randle

Supportive parent corrects grandmas' pronouns, but they're still learning. 👏

bakd_couchpotato | bakd_couchpotato

NTA- Protecting your son's pronouns 👵👴 is essential for his well-being 🚫

eat_more_deadnettle | eat_more_deadnettle

Supportive comment: Stand up for your son's pronouns! 👏

Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383

Grateful for awards, but still new to this. Thank you!

sarah_q_harmony | sarah_q_harmony

Proud mom defends child's pronouns, shutting down family ignorance! 🚫👵👴

bergermeyer | bergermeyer

NTA. A supportive parent fights for their transgender child's rights! 👏


NTA, you're a great mom! Use his pronouns, not a preference! 🚫👵👴

MsArduenna | MsArduenna

Loving and supportive parents stand up for their transgender son 💛

Hermoinecantdraw | Hermoinecantdraw

Protective mother sets boundaries to ensure respect for her son

BooksAreLuv | BooksAreLuv

Sibling's compromise on pronouns shows support and understanding. 👏

No_Bodybuilder8055 | No_Bodybuilder8055

NTA. Supportive mom saves transgender son. 💚

diamondsmokerings | diamondsmokerings

Heartwarming support from a fellow trans person. Chosen family matters 💜

petrok1331 | petrok1331

Protective mother defends transgender son. 👵👴

Emwar89 | Emwar89

NTA: Supporting a trans child's pronouns and name brings happiness 🚫

LiberryPrincess | LiberryPrincess

NTA, protecting your son 💚💚 1000 mama points 💜

The_Turtle-Moves | The_Turtle-Moves

NTA. Supportive mother stands up for transgender son's well-being 💚

pipmc | pipmc

NTA- Stand up for your child! Your parents need to understand.

MsBigDe4l | MsBigDe4l

Protecting your child from harm is always the top priority! 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Heartbreaking story of a friend's tragic suicide due to unacceptance. OP is a supportive parent. NTA. 🚫👵👴

Regularpaytonhacksaw | Regularpaytonhacksaw

Supportive comment: Congratulations on handling everything correctly and wanting the best for your child! 👏

LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8

"Hurry up and learn to accept your son! Thanks, NTA!"

PerturbedHamster | PerturbedHamster

NTA. Parents' refusal to accept son's identity is harmful and invalidating. 👏

Mr_Ham_Man80 | Mr_Ham_Man80

NTA- You're an amazing parent! 👏 Thank you for being supportive!

OpinionatedPiggy | OpinionatedPiggy

NTA. Sister's surprising change of heart after father's passing 💚

Hairyshari | Hairyshari

👏🏻 Best Parent of the Year! Supporting your son, NTA! 👍🏻

Sekhmetdottir | Sekhmetdottir

NTA advocates for transgender son, suggests air horn for deadnaming 🤣

manicpixie89 | manicpixie89

Supportive parent stands up for transgender son. 👏

Ssnnooz | Ssnnooz

NTA. Unconditional love is more important than conditional acceptance. 💜

Rosetheredditnoob | Rosetheredditnoob

Trans man praises OP for supporting transgender son! 👏

sharktoothmegatron | sharktoothmegatron

Supportive parent defends transgender child. 👏

kokihi_55 | kokihi_55

Stand up for your child! Put them first 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for protecting your child's pronouns against unsupportive family. 👏

ILoatheCailou | ILoatheCailou

NTA. Support your son's pronouns for a loving grandchild! 💜

SukkahSushi | SukkahSushi

NTA. Basic respect for your son's preferred pronouns is crucial.

InannasPocket | InannasPocket

Mother stands up for transgender son, lays down the law! 👏

CeelaChathArrna | CeelaChathArrna

Mother defends transgender son, sets boundaries for acceptance. 👵👴

voluntold9276 | voluntold9276

NTA for protecting your son from disrespectful family. Keep advocating!

Dangerous-Graduate | Dangerous-Graduate

Trans man praises supportive mom for using proper pronouns! 👏

GooglyEyeBread | GooglyEyeBread

NTA. Stand your ground and let them f**k off! 👊

smartiesmouth | smartiesmouth

Incredible support for transgender son, inspiring other parents 👏

pizzaintensifies | pizzaintensifies

Supportive transgender man emphasizes the importance of acceptance and understanding

rjones1997 | rjones1997

Supportive mom defends son's pronouns, demands respect from others.

smash8890 | smash8890

Protect and support your son first. Cut contact if necessary.

kjbtetrick | kjbtetrick

Supportive comment: Stay strong and prioritize your son 👏

JammerGSONC | JammerGSONC

Supportive comment from a fellow trans person. Heartwarming! 💞

anarcho-possum | anarcho-possum

NTA. You are an amazing parent! 👏

AmbienNicoleSmith | AmbienNicoleSmith

Mom supports transgender son against unsupportive grandparents. You go, mom! 👏

3kidsnomoney--- | 3kidsnomoney---

Son's gender acceptance: How long till bigots change? 🚫

[deleted] | [deleted]

Putting kids first 🙌 NTA stands up for transgender son

allie-echo | allie-echo

Using an airhorn for pronoun reinforcement? That's one way! 😂

minnieboss | minnieboss

NTA. Supportive parents make all the difference! 👏

64ozWaterBottle | 64ozWaterBottle

NTA: A powerful advocate for her transgender son against family prejudice! 👏

1Sluggo | 1Sluggo

Supportive parent defends transgender son against unsupportive family members ❤️

Princess__of__cute | Princess__of__cute

NTA. Making an effort with pronouns is essential. Family should too! 🙌

ccam04 | ccam04

NTA. Short and sweet, but speaks volumes. 👏

Malibu921 | Malibu921

Supportive parent defends transgender son's autonomy, sets boundaries with grandparents. 👏

cpepnurse | cpepnurse

Supportive comment: NTA. Standing up for your transgender son! 👏

DCSecretkeeper | DCSecretkeeper

NTA. A heartwarming journey of love and support for a trans child. 💛

secondary_outrage | secondary_outrage

NTA: A heartwarming story of a courageous Mama Bear! 💞

DDNorth20 | DDNorth20

Supportive comment: Stand up for your son's identity! 👏

oxcelotl | oxcelotl

NTA, OP! Protecting your son 👏🏻 Your parents need to get their heads out of their asses 🤯

OkNeedleworker6731 | OkNeedleworker6731

Supportive parent defends transgender child. 👏

NemiVonFritzenberg | NemiVonFritzenberg

NTA: Respect his name or stay away! 👏

No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590

Stand up for your baby, they will always be your baby 💞

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment! 👍

oflightsortide_ | oflightsortide_

Supportive parent defends transgender child, inspiring others to do the same! 💜

puupperlover | puupperlover

NTA: Setting boundaries with family is crucial for happiness 🙏

loopylandtied | loopylandtied

NTA. Changing minds isn't an excuse to hurt your son. 👍

bluesquirrel15 | bluesquirrel15

Acceptance is key! NTA stands up for transgender son. 👏

Cyarsonix | Cyarsonix

Protective mother defends transgender son from family cruelty. 👵👴

Dizzy-Kick-9397 | Dizzy-Kick-9397

NTA. Supporting your transgender son's identity is valid and important 👏

mocha_lattes_ | mocha_lattes_

Protecting your son from hurtful grandparents who refuse to accept him. 👵👴

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

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