Unexpected Houseguest: The Mother-in-Law Who Came to Stay 🏠👜

Diply Social Team
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Imagine this: you've been living blissfully with your partner for four years. Suddenly, a casual visit from your mother-in-law turns into an unexpected stay. And not just a weekend visit, but she's packed all her belongings and is ready to move in! 😲 This is the predicament one woman found herself in, leading to a heated argument that has the internet buzzing. Let's dive into this compelling tale of surprise houseguests, relationship dynamics, and the question of who really calls the shots at home. 🏠

A Visit or a Move? 🧳

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The Unexpected Revelation 😲

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The Unspoken Plan 🤫

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The Argument Begins 🗣️

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The Ultimatum 😡

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Feeling Disrespected 😒

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The Unbelievable Excuse 🤥

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The Silent Ride Home 🚗

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The Aftermath 😔

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The Dilemma 🤷‍♀️

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The Question 🤔

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The Mother-in-Law Dilemma: Who's in the Wrong? 🤔

In a whirlwind of events, a woman finds herself with an unexpected houseguest - her boyfriend's mother. What was supposed to be a short visit turned into a potential permanent stay, all without her knowledge or consent. The boyfriend's lack of communication and the mother's sudden move-in has left her feeling disrespected and frustrated. She's not against helping out, but she believes she should've been included in the decision. Now, she's asking the internet: was she wrong for reacting the way she did? Let's see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation... 🕵️‍♀️

NTA. Unexpected mother-in-law moves in without discussion. What happened?

Naughtyexperiences | Naughtyexperiences

NTA: Partner's behavior is unacceptable, turning it around on you

alrightbrother | alrightbrother

NTA. They planned this 👊🏼 They lied to you 😱 You deserve better 💔

MasterK999 | MasterK999

NTA. Your bf made a big decision without consulting you 😱

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA, your manipulative boyfriend's plan is causing you anxiety 😯

worldundertwisted | worldundertwisted

BF's inconsiderate move sparks outrage: NTA

cstatus94 | cstatus94

NTA. Inconsiderate houseguests and a disrespectful boyfriend 😒

Cyrinne | Cyrinne

Stunned silence after a trick move - a potential deal breaker 😳

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

Grotesque behavior? Not the a**hole! Stand up for yourself!

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Surprise mother-in-law move-in? No way! They both gotta go! 😳

teresajs | teresajs

Dump them both! 🚚💔 Your boyfriend's mommy is his priority.

loulou160616 | loulou160616

"NTA! Your BF and his mom are manipulators. Set boundaries! 😡"

DiscoPartyMuffin | DiscoPartyMuffin

NTA, but you made a big mistake by staying silent 😬

milee30 | milee30

BF's manipulative mother-in-law overstays welcome. Say no now! 🚫

sirharryflashman | sirharryflashman

NTA. Uncommunicative guests disrespect your generosity. Set boundaries and expectations.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Unwanted houseguests and free-loading? No thanks! 🙄

jaywinner | jaywinner

NTA: Honesty and boundaries are key. Don't be taken advantage of.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Know your rights! NTA. Set a tight deadline for her.

wind-river7 | wind-river7

"NTA - Kick her out ASAP! Consider leaving your partner too."

C2BK | C2BK

Manipulative partner: NTA, time to kick out the houseguest! 😡

themadhatterwasright | themadhatterwasright

NTA. Stand up for your privacy and relationship. 🙏

jimsmythee | jimsmythee

🚩 NTA. Boyfriend's disrespect and gaslighting should be dealbreakers. 🚩

airinnnn_n | airinnnn_n

"NTA. Your bf tricked you into letting his mom move in. Kick her out now and dump him. 👌"

friendlily | friendlily

Plot twist: Mother-in-law moves in without your consent! 😱

Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama

NTA. Kick them both out 👊💪 Find a new boyfriend 👭

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Kick them out now! You're NTA, take control 💪

ooo-a-throwaway | ooo-a-throwaway

Outrageous houseguest stunt leaves commenter fuming 😠

alrightbrother | alrightbrother

Boyfriend's mom overstaying: NTA, she needs to contribute financially! 🙏

st_ukufu_tinporta | st_ukufu_tinporta

🚨 NTA: BF deceived you, now you may have to evict her

scout1982 | scout1982

Boyfriend and his mom moved in without asking or compensating. NTA

bihan_diablo | bihan_diablo

NTA. Protect yourself legally and emotionally from unwanted houseguests. 🙋🏻

UltraCuteOfDeath | UltraCuteOfDeath

NTA. Gender stereotypes and mama's boy? Not great bf material 🙅

phdoofus | phdoofus

BF's mom moves in uninvited, BF manipulates, you hold the cards 💯

concretism | concretism

🚩 NTA. Boundaries needed ASAP to evict the unwanted houseguest.

bunnypxr5 | bunnypxr5

NTA, but you're kind of a doormat 🙄

tpondering | tpondering

"NTA: Stand up for yourself and have that difficult conversation!"

flashaahahaah | flashaahahaah

Dump his a**! NTA, what the f**k? 😳

toadetteisamilf | toadetteisamilf

NTA, kick them both out. No respect, no improvement. 👍

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

NTA. Give her a week to find somewhere else 👍

B0r0B1rd | B0r0B1rd

NTA. Kick him out and bring his mom. 👋

[deleted] | [deleted]

You're NTA for not wanting your boyfriend's mother indefinitely. 🚫

Luminous_Echidna | Luminous_Echidna

NTA: Savage response to unwanted houseguests 😂

wacko-warlock | wacko-warlock

Boyfriend ambushed OP with MIL's emergency housing. NTA. 😠

Mirianda666 | Mirianda666

"NTA. Being cheerful doesn't make you an a**hole. 👍"

HighPriest2012 | HighPriest2012

NTA - Don't let your partner's mom take over your home 👜

monsignorbabaganoush | monsignorbabaganoush

NTA. Seek advice on r/justnomil, r/justnofamily, or r/relationshipadvice. Hope this helps! 🙂

nikflip | nikflip

🚫 NTA. Congrats, you got played! 🎭🏠🤦‍♀️

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

NTA: Kick them both out 👋

sophieinaus | sophieinaus

NTA, but r/JUSTNOSO can help with your SO problem! 💛

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🚩 Huge red flag: BF's constantly changing story about his mother

tquinn04 | tquinn04

😡🏠 Get them out ASAP! What a nightmare situation!

goodvibess2020 | goodvibess2020

NTA, bf lied and snuck in mom, your reaction is normal 👍

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Stand your ground and show your boyfriend who's in charge! 👊

MiaOh | MiaOh

NTA for all the reasons others have laid out. 👏

Marie1420 | Marie1420

NTA. Run. 👋

D3712 | D3712

NTA for not sticking up for yourself, have a stern talk with your boyfriend. 🙏

rustyshackleford1301 | rustyshackleford1301

NTA: No one wants family living with them, ew 😷

Vitruvian_man21 | Vitruvian_man21

Disrespectful houseguest? OP is not the a**hole. 🙅

thatssallfolkss | thatssallfolkss

NTA. Unexpected mother-in-law visit? Discuss boundaries before it's too late! 🙈

jdragonz | jdragonz

Dump him and kick them both out. 👋

RedWomanZ | RedWomanZ

Know your rights and get rid of unwanted houseguests! 🚩

Cosmic42Otter | Cosmic42Otter

Take back your space! Kick out the unwanted mother-in-law! 👜

Neon_litez | Neon_litez

NTA- Set boundaries and communicate with your boyfriend 👍

The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username

NTA. Toxic boyfriend and mother-in-law pushing boundaries and disrespecting you. 👎

ghostforest | ghostforest

NTA, evict her before she establishes tenancy. It's not your job.

gaysaucemage | gaysaucemage

Stand your ground! Kick them out and let them deal 👊

sylkyn | sylkyn

Gaslighting partner, red flags, and potential squatters rights. Beware! 🚨

alt-tuna | alt-tuna

NTA for standing up to manipulative boyfriend and mother-in-law. 💪

Azas23 | Azas23

Research tenancy rights to get your mother-in-law out! 👜

rescuesquad704 | rescuesquad704

Shocking surprise visit from the in-laws! 😱🏠

myscreamgotlost | myscreamgotlost

NTA: Kick them out and let them be homeless together 😷

mira-on-the-wall | mira-on-the-wall

NTA, bf and mom need to move out. Time to move on 👋

CountrySax | CountrySax

Dump his a** 👎

TemporaryTortellini | TemporaryTortellini

Take charge of your house! Find a respectful partner 👭

agiantaloeplant | agiantaloeplant

NTA. Your shared space, your rules. Kick them both out. 🚫

nightmareonelmm | nightmareonelmm

NTA. Set a date for her to leave to avoid legal issues 👜

made_you_think | made_you_think

Protecting my sanctuary: kicking out disrespectful boyfriend and mother-in-law

Frozen_Twinkies | Frozen_Twinkies

NTA: Kick them both out 👌

cunthead11113030 | cunthead11113030

🏡 Unexpected mother-in-law move-in: NTA caught off guard

QueenBee0414 | QueenBee0414

A week's stay? NTA, you're not alone in feeling that way!

bekahed979 | bekahed979

Take charge and set boundaries with your mother-in-law! 🙌

greenhouse5 | greenhouse5

NTA. Dude planned on moving HIS mother into YOUR house 👜

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OP's BF wronged her by moving his Mom in without telling her. NTA.

gobsmacked247 | gobsmacked247

BF's disrespectful move: Mother-in-law living in your house indefinitely 😱

Dana07620 | Dana07620

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