Woman 'Blocks' Family During Miscarriage: Heartless or Justified? 😢💔

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In the midst of the most heart-wrenching moments, we often find ourselves caught between our own grief and the expectations of others. This is the story of a woman who, while grappling with the devastating loss of a miscarriage, found herself at odds with her family. As she tried to navigate her way through the pain, her elder family member's insistence on being involved led to a family conflict that left her questioning her actions. Let's delve into this emotionally charged tale...

The Heartbreaking Discovery 💔

fluffypuffyz | fluffypuffyz

Breaking the News 😢

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The Unwanted Pressure 🙅‍♀️

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The Invasion of Privacy 🚫

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The Boundaries Set 🚧

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The Accusation of 'Blocking' 🚫

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The Cold Aftermath ❄️

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The Self-Doubt 😔

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A Heartbreaking Tale of Loss and Family Conflict 💔🥺

In the midst of her heartrending loss, this woman found herself entangled in a family conflict. As she tried to cope with her miscarriage, her elder family member's insistence on being involved led to a rift. The woman's attempt to set boundaries was perceived as 'blocking', leading to accusations and bitterness. With her family's reaction adding to her grief, she was left questioning her actions. Let's see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation...

NTA. OP deserved privacy and support during their miscarriage. 💔

meepmeepmeeppp | meepmeepmeeppp

NTA. Block the 'elder' and keep your private matters private. 🚫

Even_Speech570 | Even_Speech570

"Put yourself in elders place" - Boundaries and family dynamics. 💔

fluffypuffyz | fluffypuffyz

Putting yourself first is crucial. Boundaries are important for self-care. 💔

ConfettiConfessions | ConfettiConfessions

Heartbroken woman finds solace in a humorous comment during difficult time 😢💔

Obakewriter | Obakewriter

NTA: Give yourself space to grieve without judgment or intrusion. 😢💔

clumsybartender | clumsybartender

NTA: Family oversteps boundaries during a private and traumatic situation 😢

Aussiealterego | Aussiealterego

Supportive comments validate OP's decision to set boundaries. 👏

mon-keigh | mon-keigh

NTA: Boundaries are important. Don't let narcissists bring you down. 👍

idrow1 | idrow1

NTA. Empowering OP to prioritize their emotional well-being and boundaries. 👏

Annelisandre | Annelisandre

Family's lack of empathy during miscarriage sparks justified anger. NTA

heywhatsupitsme1 | heywhatsupitsme1

"NTA. Your needs come first. Why are they making it about themselves?"

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

NTA. Blocking family during miscarriage. No forgiveness, sincere apology needed. 😢💔

sewing_plantlover | sewing_plantlover

Respecting privacy: NTA's wife has right to grieve privately. 🙏

razeronion | razeronion

Supportive comment: Empathy for a woman's privacy during miscarriage. ❤️

Kare6Bear6 | Kare6Bear6

NTA: Elder's lack of empathy during a personal tragedy. 😢💔

VenusdeMiloTrap | VenusdeMiloTrap

NTA *hug* OP shares her traumatic miscarriage experience and Elder's selfishness 😢💔

4leafcloverqueen | 4leafcloverqueen

Miscarriage is personal. Family doesn't have the right to know. NTA 😢

cat_is_cat | cat_is_cat

NTA: Miscarriage is not a 'big event', stay safe OP 🙏

Babycheeks80 | Babycheeks80

Engaging advice on supporting someone through a miscarriage. 👍

TychaBrahe | TychaBrahe

Setting boundaries during a difficult time. Respect and understanding 💔

ObamaGuava | ObamaGuava

Heartbreaking miscarriage experience, justified to block family for privacy. 😢💔

raerae6672 | raerae6672

NTA: Elder's lack of empathy sparks debate on family dynamics 😢

InspiredPanda526 | InspiredPanda526

NTA: Boundaries crossed. Concern vs. intrusion. 🚫

Podlingblue | Podlingblue

NTA. Setting boundaries with family during a devastating miscarriage 💔

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Heartless family lacks empathy during traumatic event. NTA 😢💔

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Selfishness or self-care? Prioritizing your own feelings during a miscarriage. 💔

Malibu921 | Malibu921

NTA: Prioritizing your emotions during miscarriage. Support over selfishness. 💔

MsSonderbar | MsSonderbar

"NTA. Your family member made it all about them. Share on your terms. 💔"

worldwinds22 | worldwinds22

OP stands up for herself during a painful time. 💔

ofbalance | ofbalance

NTA: Protect your privacy and heal from this heartless behavior 💔

SeePerspectives | SeePerspectives

Supportive commenter shares similar experience and offers condolences. 💔

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NTA seeks support and understanding during a traumatic miscarriage experience. 💔

HappyG | HappyG

Heartbreaking miscarriage experience: NTA, prioritize your healing and peace 💔

CigarsandFebreeze9 | CigarsandFebreeze9

DH means Dear Husband. Good question. 👍

ObamaGuava | ObamaGuava

NTA. Elder family member made your miscarriage about themselves. 💔

A_nerdy | A_nerdy

"Supportive" family demands play-by-play during miscarriage. NTA 💔

AZC90 | AZC90

Compassionate comment supports woman who blocked insensitive family member. ❤️

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NTA. Elder's selfishness overshadowed your difficult experience. You deserve support. 💔

Peskypoints | Peskypoints

Unapologetically not the a**hole. 👏

SwimmingCritical | SwimmingCritical

Insensitive family during miscarriage? Traumatic experience. NTA.

Bangbangsmashsmash | Bangbangsmashsmash

Help wanted vs help given: intentions vs perceptions 💔

jkelsey84 | jkelsey84

NTA: Family's intrusion in your grief is unjustified and overbearing. 💔

LordofToomay | LordofToomay

Cutting off family during miscarriage: justified or heartless? 😢💔

lsp2005 | lsp2005

Privacy vs. Family Drama: The Battle of Boundaries 💔

BeautifulWorking6 | BeautifulWorking6

Family's lack of empathy during miscarriage: NTA, heartless or justified? 😢💔

thicklover | thicklover

Heartbreaking miscarriage experience leads to justified phone block 💔

gringaellie | gringaellie

NTA! Boundaries matter. Sorry for your loss. 😢💔

Enough_Friendship447 | Enough_Friendship447

Protecting your privacy during a difficult time. 💔

sadlandlordde | sadlandlordde

Privacy during a difficult time. NTA. Sympathies for your loss. 😢💔

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

NTA. Privacy during a difficult time is completely understandable. 💔

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

NTA: Your family should support you, not make it about themselves. 😢

Thin-Variation-4157 | Thin-Variation-4157

NTA. Pregnancy privacy is important. Elder's disrespect is unacceptable. 😢💔

dawnzoc65 | dawnzoc65

Heartless family fails to support woman during miscarriage. NTA.

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Absolutely justified! 💙

EffectiveStatus7 | EffectiveStatus7

NTA, OP, wanting privacy during a sensitive miscarriage is understandable. 😢

xxopalhippiexx | xxopalhippiexx

NTA: Boundaries are important, especially during a traumatic experience. 💔

candles_0904 | candles_0904

Supporting someone means respecting their boundaries and needs. 👍

KeepLkngForIntllgnce | KeepLkngForIntllgnce

Blackmailed and guilt-tripped: NTA stands up for herself! 🙌

MurkyDetective6020 | MurkyDetective6020

Heartless family asks invasive questions during woman's miscarriage. 😢

rbaltimore | rbaltimore

Grieving on your terms: NTA. 😢💔

Stuffnthings1840 | Stuffnthings1840

NTA. Boundaries are important, especially during a difficult time. 😢💔

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Induced miscarriages as a spectator sport? NTA strikes again! 😢

blackskirtwhitecat | blackskirtwhitecat

Self-care is important! NTA for taking time for yourself 💔

spacejoint | spacejoint

Empathy and support for someone going through a miscarriage 💕

Creative-Bee-963 | Creative-Bee-963

Supportive commenter empathizes with miscarriage, defends the woman. ❤️

CommercialBag5068 | CommercialBag5068

NTA. Elder's selfishness and badmouthing made blocking them justified. 😢💔

Smiley-Canadian | Smiley-Canadian

NTA. Elder relative's narcissism makes miscarriage all about themselves. 😢

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Curious commenter asks about the relation, gets surprising answer! 🤔

lexicution17 | lexicution17

Not the a**hole. Let's hear the story behind this controversial decision!

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Family's lack of empathy: NTA stands up for herself 😢

lorenlair | lorenlair

Blocking family after disrespectful behavior: justified or heartless? 😢💔

yoshi_in_black | yoshi_in_black

NTA: Relative's selfishness during miscarriage, justified to block them 😢💔

randomnurse | randomnurse

NTA: Set boundaries and keep them in the dark. 🙌

ARbldr | ARbldr

Keeping a pregnancy secret to avoid family drama 😢

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Heartless or Justified? NTA. Gender and age factors discussed.

sandtigers | sandtigers

NTA. Elder sibling's selfishness during a difficult time is appalling. 😢💔

calsey16 | calsey16

Heartless elder shows extreme insensitivity. NTA for blocking family. 😢

DocSternau | DocSternau

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