Imagine being a 20-year-old woman suddenly thrust into the role of a parent. Now, imagine having to choose which of your siblings you can take in after your parents abandon them. This is the reality for one young woman, who chose to take in her full biological siblings, leaving her stepsiblings and half-sibling in foster care. This decision sparked a storm of criticism from her family, leading her to question her actions. Let's delve into her story...👀
Young Woman's Dilemma: Taking in Biological Siblings, Leaving Step-Siblings in Foster Care
Diply | Diply
The Unexpected Family Tree 🌳
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Trending
A Household in Chaos 😱
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Must Read
The Aftermath of Intervention 🚨
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
A Call to Action 📞
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Life Adjustments and Sacrifices 🏠
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
The Forgotten Ones 😔
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
A Family's Criticism 🗣️
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
The Silent Treatment 🤐
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Persistent Harassment 😠
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
A Crisis of Conscience 🤔
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Innocent Bystanders 🥺
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
Brother Under Fire 🔥
damagenegative1858 | damagenegative1858
A Heart-Wrenching Decision: Is She Right or Wrong? 🧐
In a whirlwind of family drama and heartache, a 20-year-old woman finds herself in the role of a parent, having to choose which of her siblings to take in after their parents abandon them. She opts to care for her full biological siblings, leaving her stepsiblings and half-sibling to the foster system. This decision ignites a storm of criticism from her family, leading her to question her actions. Despite the relentless harassment, she stands firm, pointing out their hypocrisy. But the question remains: Did she make the right choice? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...🌐
Selfless young woman takes in biological siblings, but not step-siblings. NTA
Sydneyfire | Sydneyfire
NTA, it's too hard for a 20-year-old to take care of 5 kids 🙅♀️
Knightseason | Knightseason
NTA. You're a SAINT for taking in children at TWENTY. 😇
RainbowScissors | RainbowScissors
Engaging and supportive comment, encouraging self-care and wishing luck 🌟
Alarming-Instance-19 | Alarming-Instance-19
NTA. Taking in siblings and being shamed? Unfair and commendable! 👏
UnsureandUnvalidated | UnsureandUnvalidated
Financial constraints make it impossible to care for all 5 kids 😔
Sorrol13 | Sorrol13
Heartbreaking decision: Biological siblings taken in, step-siblings left behind 😢
leeseri | leeseri
NTA: You did your part, it's time for them to step up. 🏳️🌈
Ok_Professional_4499 | Ok_Professional_4499
Opinions don't matter if they won't help. 🙄
Stup2plending | Stup2plending
NTA. You're young, but you made the right sacrifice for family. 🙏
ellisonjune | ellisonjune
Heartbreaking decision: Biological siblings or step-siblings in foster care?
RideOnMoa | RideOnMoa
NTA. Sacrificing for siblings, ignore critics. You're an amazing sister! ✨
MerlinBiggs | MerlinBiggs
NTA, but stay safe! Change contact info or report harassment ✨
Flat_Contribution707 | Flat_Contribution707
NTA. Taking on parental responsibility while sacrificing your own education. 🙌
swillshop | swillshop
NTA: Demanding a 20-year-old to raise 5 kids? AH parents!
EconomyVoice7358 | EconomyVoice7358
NTA for not taking in more kids. Family should step up 🙅
Schlobidobido | Schlobidobido
NTA - Admirable responsibility at 20, but know your limits 💪
MissIllusion | MissIllusion
NTA. Taking on responsibility, sacrificing education, while others do nothing. 😡
Akasgotu | Akasgotu
NTA. Don't shoulder all your dad's responsibilities. Loyalty to bio siblings. 💪
flootytootybri | flootytootybri
Apply for assistance programs to support you and the kids! 👏
WestPeltas0n | WestPeltas0n
NTA. Don't beat yourself up, you're doing your best! ❤️
Super-Sun8330 | Super-Sun8330
NTA- Taking in siblings, step-family neglects responsibility. Dad and step-mom are vile 😡
RemNya_ | RemNya_
NTA. They're just guilt-tripping you to avoid responsibility. 🙅
masoj3k | masoj3k
NTA. You've gone above and beyond. Don't let them harass you! 😠
Wild_Butterscotch977 | Wild_Butterscotch977
20-year-old quits school to care for siblings, facing criticism. NTA! 👏
IAmHerdingCatz | IAmHerdingCatz
NTA: Hypocritical family criticizes your decision, but won't take kids themselves. 🤷♀️
MombieZ3 | MombieZ3
👏 You're a brave, honorable person doing the best you can!
OkRisk2232 | OkRisk2232
👏 Selfless young woman cares for abandoned siblings, faces family harassment.
HandGunslinger | HandGunslinger
NTA. Don't let guilt pressure you into more sacrifices. 💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
You and Luke Rock! Not the a**holes in this situation. 🤘
WyvernsRest | WyvernsRest
You're not the a**hole, your siblings deserve better ❤️
Enough-Feed-3153 | Enough-Feed-3153
Don't adopt! Stick to your decision and don't feel guilty 😊
jerry__xoxo | jerry__xoxo
Supportive comment, no replies yet. #NTA
Ok_Cranberry_2395 | Ok_Cranberry_2395
Not the a**hole for prioritizing biological siblings over step-siblings
LawNovel6542 | LawNovel6542
"You didn't create this mess. You're doing more than your part." ✊
Professional-Put-682 | Professional-Put-682
Not the a**hole for prioritizing biological siblings over step-siblings
J_2993 | J_2993
Heartwarming story of sacrifice and sibling love. 🥰
GO_lad | GO_lad
Taking care of 5 kids at 20? Not sustainable! 🙅♀️
Opening-Gift | Opening-Gift
NTA. Take care of your siblings and seek financial assistance.
Flashy-Experience-25 | Flashy-Experience-25
Struggling young woman chooses to prioritize siblings over her education. 😢
Zxck__08 | Zxck__08
NTA. You're a compassionate person. Don't beat yourself up. 💕
hanbnanAU | hanbnanAU
NTA for prioritizing biological siblings. Shouldn't family get support too? 😕
cassowary32 | cassowary32
NTA. Hypocritical mom's family. 🤯
[deleted] | [deleted]
Protect your peace 🌸 Block the AHs and consider legal action
Astyryx | Astyryx
NTA. Sacrificing school for family? 🏫💔 You're a good person.
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Not your circus, not your monkeys. 🙅♀️🐒
Late_Engineering9973 | Late_Engineering9973
👍 Standing up for yourself and your chosen family! #NTA
Embarrassed-Reveal98 | Embarrassed-Reveal98
NTA. You're doing more than most. Keep up the good work! 👍
Rude_Vermicelli2268 | Rude_Vermicelli2268
NTA. Taking in 5 kids is overwhelming. You made the right choice! 😌
[deleted] | [deleted]
👏 NTA! Taking on the responsibility of two kids at 20! 🙌
Tired_Mamas_X2 | Tired_Mamas_X2
Explore legal guardianship for siblings and SS benefits for support! ✨
lockmama | lockmama
Heartbreaking decision: Taking in siblings but leaving step-siblings behind 😢
[deleted] | [deleted]
Déjà vu? Different ages, same dilemma! 😮
lunapuppy88 | lunapuppy88
20-year-old taking care of 3 kids, NTAH, no reason to feel guilty 😊
Infamous-Cellist8008 | Infamous-Cellist8008
"If you put half as much effort into your 'family' as you did to circumvent my blocks in order to keep harassing me, those kids would be living like kings. Either you put your money where your mouth is or kindly f**k off." - NTA
SammyLoops1 | SammyLoops1
NTA: It sucks, but you did what you could within your means 😕
CanVegetable7392 | CanVegetable7392
NTA! Stand your ground and shut down the other family 🤐
loveforbags | loveforbags
NTA, kudos for stepping up and being a great sibling! 🙌
scvopat | scvopat
Imagine the positive influence you could have on your steps ❤️
in-the-buff | in-the-buff
Heartfelt comment acknowledges victims in a complex family situation ❤️
Shulins | Shulins
NTA. Get state benefits, go back to school! 📚💪
Individual-Ebb-6797 | Individual-Ebb-6797
Heartwarming support for a young woman amidst a difficult situation ❤️
Own_Environment_4618 | Own_Environment_4618
NTA. You're already a superhero, let them be the sidekicks! ✨
Sensitive-Fold-8569 | Sensitive-Fold-8569
NTA! Step up or STFU! 💪
FinanceProper5510 | FinanceProper5510
OP is not the a**hole for not taking in siblings
Successful_Dot2813 | Successful_Dot2813
Empathetic support for young woman taking in biological siblings 💪
La-Brittany | La-Brittany
Trash people can't judge a good person. NTA 🙌
Cjwillis13 | Cjwillis13
Secure the bag! Get child support for all the kids! 💰
Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884
Not the a**hole for prioritizing biological siblings over step-siblings
theninetynine99 | theninetynine99
Taking in siblings vs. step-siblings: A young woman's tough choice 😔
NiteGrimwood | NiteGrimwood
Not the a**hole for prioritizing biological siblings over step-siblings
serenasplaycousin | serenasplaycousin
NTA for prioritizing full siblings. Harassment from awful people.
mik8c | mik8c
NTA. Don't let their abandonment guilt-trip you. You're already stepping up! ✊
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Taking care of 5 kids at 20? Time for self-care! ✌️📵
Delicious_Mark4348 | Delicious_Mark4348
NTA. Seek financial help to balance school and work. 🎓
Dneyman859 | Dneyman859
NTA. Taking in siblings, not responsible for step-siblings. Contact CPS for visitation.
Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9
NTA. You're not responsible for your step-siblings. You're selfless ❤️
evil_moooojojojo | evil_moooojojojo
NTA: Taking care of siblings is a full-time adventure! 🙌
Evil_Sexe | Evil_Sexe
NTA. You're an amazing sibling! 🙌
LilaJax22 | LilaJax22
Taking in biological siblings is a burden, but worth it! 💜
Toni_Anne1989 | Toni_Anne1989
NTA for not wanting to take on more kids. 👏
Caffeinated_Spoon | Caffeinated_Spoon
