Bride vs. Sister: A Wedding Date Showdown 🎃💍

Diply Social Team
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Picture this: you're planning your dream wedding, a Halloween-themed extravaganza that pays tribute to the month you and your fiancé fell in love. You've got the venue, the invitations, and a supportive crowd. But then, your little sister, the maid of honor, drops a bombshell. Her school trip to New York City coincides with your wedding date. She hints that you should change the date. Do you stick to your guns or yield to your sister's wishes? Let's delve into this family drama.🎃💍🗽

Setting the Stage 🎭

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A Broken Home 💔

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An Unwanted Child 😢

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The Power of Social Media 📱

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A Spooky Love Story 👻❤️

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A Halloween Proposal 🎃💍

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The Big Announcement 📢

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A Perfect Date? 📅

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A Special Role for a Special Sister 👭

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A Dream Trip vs. A Dream Wedding 🗽👰

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A Change of Plans? 🔄

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A Shocking Suggestion 😲

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The Cost of a Wedding 💸

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A Heated Exchange 🔥

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Bridezilla or Not? 🦖👰

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The Final Question ❓

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A Wedding Date Dilemma: Who's in the Wrong? 🤔

In this tale of family drama and wedding woes, we have a bride-to-be who's planned her perfect Halloween wedding, only for her little sister and maid of honor to drop a bombshell. A school trip to New York City clashes with the wedding date, and she suggests the bride change her wedding date. The bride refuses, sparking a heated exchange. The sister accuses her of being a bridezilla, while the bride feels her sister is being entitled. It's a clash of dreams, with a dream wedding on one side and a dream trip on the other. Who do you think is in the wrong? Let's see what the internet has to say...💭

NTA. Sister upset about missing out on being helpful.

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NTA. Teenage sister can't understand the world. Halloween wedding excitement! 🎃

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"NTA - Your date was set first. She can't understand this, but a wedding and a trip to New York at 16 don't even begin to compare to one another. You mention in comments that she's especially upset because she didn't feel included in her mother's wedding, but it's her who is prioritizing a trip over that experience. She can't simultaneously position your wedding as secondary priority and also guilt you for not giving her a once in a lifetime experience, come on." 😅

clbrownn | clbrownn

NTA- Teen sister wants date change for trip, but don't budge! 🙌

HellaHighAtHogwarts | HellaHighAtHogwarts

Wedding date clash resolved with no hard feelings 🙌

the_greenflamingo | the_greenflamingo

Wedding date dilemma: Bride's NTA, sister can visit NY later 💍

diabetic_bennie | diabetic_bennie

NTA, sister's just being 16 🙄. Enjoy your Halloween wedding!

Kinch-dedalus | Kinch-dedalus

Engaging comment and heartfelt replies about sisterhood and adoption 💞

casinoLF | casinoLF

16-year-old prioritizes everything but reality. Not the a**hole.

Bearmancartoons | Bearmancartoons

NTA. Let her enjoy her youth before adult responsibilities.

velvetmaeglass | velvetmaeglass

NAH, sister too young to understand wedding etiquette. 🤷‍♀️

girlabout2fallasleep | girlabout2fallasleep

Sister wants it all, guilt-tripping and playing victim. NTA.

Zelkilt | Zelkilt

NTA. Don't let immaturity ruin your special day! 🎃

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Don't let her ruin your special day. 💍✨

niekie05 | niekie05

NTA wants to be MOH in New York, no speeches!

Laurasaurus_ | Laurasaurus_

Understanding the struggles of a 16-year-old's perspective 🤷‍♀️

Known_Character | Known_Character

Teen sister wants both wedding and trip 🎃💍

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

NTA: Go ahead and tie the knot, she'll survive 😊

UnoRissen | UnoRissen

Bride chooses wedding date based on history, sister gets petty 🙅

afterthestorms | afterthestorms

Wedding stress is real, but bride isn't the a**hole here. 👰

ThatB0yAintR1ght | ThatB0yAintR1ght

NTA. Rescheduling is a huge ask. She's not being denied.

OhEightFour | OhEightFour

Planning a school field trip to NYC: cost and logistics.

justheretolurk3 | justheretolurk3

Entitled sister learns the world doesn't revolve around her 😂

MikkiTh | MikkiTh

NTA. Sister wants wedding and school trip? Very immature.

bdub9698 | bdub9698

Dreamy Halloween wedding plans! Congrats! 🎃✨

mackmakc | mackmakc

Wedding date change? Expensive and a pain in the a**! 😳

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

"NTA. Your sister's choosing NYC over your wedding? Disappointing, sis!"

mangonlime | mangonlime

Navigating tough choices with grace and understanding 🙏

KtotheAtotheS | KtotheAtotheS

NTA. Prioritizing NYC over the wedding, but wrong to force date change. Everyone's gotta learn sometime. 🙏

milkbeamgalaxia | milkbeamgalaxia

NTA: Have an honest conversation with your sister about the situation 🚩

paxweasley | paxweasley

Engage with your sister on wedding date conflict 💍

viniciusbfonseca | viniciusbfonseca

Empathy for the guy who had to bail last minute 😢

Deathbydragonfire | Deathbydragonfire

NTA. Help her understand the tough choices of adulthood 🤓

explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17

Halloween weddings: tricky choice between family and friends 👻🎃

bsailors24 | bsailors24

NTA. It's your wedding, you've paid for everything. 🎉

writer_girl-18 | writer_girl-18

Hold your ground and be understanding. She's struggling with abandonment.

Spoonbills | Spoonbills

NTA- Don't let a kid bully you. Be the bigger person 🙌

cridhebriste | cridhebriste

NTA. Teach her a lesson about compromise and understanding. 👍

allthosestars | allthosestars

Wedding over NYC? NTA, prioritize the big day! 💍

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Wedding drama: Sister prioritizes past over your special day. NTA!

EsqueletoComFoice | EsqueletoComFoice

Sister's wedding demands vs. bride's priorities: NAH, but close!

Tanyec | Tanyec

Demanding bridezilla stands her ground, but should reconsider her approach

SandwichOtter | SandwichOtter

Teen sister wants wedding date changed for vacation. NTA.

sassyandsweer789 | sassyandsweer789

NTA- Learning life's lessons: Want vs. reality 🙏

skottydoesntkno | skottydoesntkno

"NTA at alllll. Father-in-law asked me to change the schedule of certain events of the wedding WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING so his sister could leave a little earlier. To be honest your sister sounds like she's acting like my FIL."

CaptainLuxon | CaptainLuxon

Wedding time clash: A humorous observation 😂

Ok_aila | Ok_aila

Bride's sister chooses fun trip over wedding, sparks conflict 😱

coldycat | coldycat

NAH, sister's FOMO. Avoid name-calling, meet up & communicate properly 👍

Blondie2992 | Blondie2992

Heartbreaking family dynamics 😢💔

Marvalbert22 | Marvalbert22

NTA!! Young sister wants to have fun, but needs to learn to prioritize and stick to plans. 💍

here_kitkittkitty | here_kitkittkitty

Sister wins wedding date showdown! 💍

Lucretia123 | Lucretia123

NTA asks sister to move trip for wedding. Easy, right? 🤔

2blackpuppers | 2blackpuppers

Sisterzilla alert! Bride stands up for her wedding date choice

Apricottree05 | Apricottree05

NTA, offer a future trip as a graduation present 👍

sick_babe | sick_babe

Sister's entitled behavior sparks anger and confusion. 😱

jolientaboo | jolientaboo

Sister's wedding date clash: NTA, she's being selfish 🙅

QueenBoudicca56 | QueenBoudicca56

The bride stands her ground against her sister's demands. 🎃

andressamdl | andressamdl

Choose your own path in life! 🌟

Kong7126 | Kong7126

NTA. Sister wants bride to cancel plans for school trip 😱

murdocjones | murdocjones

🤔 Confused about the sister's adoption and family dynamics. 🤷‍♂️

lrw0329 | lrw0329

NTA. Don't let one person ruin everyone's plans! 🙌

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr

Not the a**hole for choosing my own wedding date! 🙌

karmaismydawgz | karmaismydawgz

NTA. Prioritizing a wedding over a school trip is reasonable.

Goldeverywhere | Goldeverywhere

Stick to your Halloween wedding, it's your special day! 🎃

ursoparrudo | ursoparrudo

Sister's absence or bridesmaid? A wedding date dilemma 💍


Teen sister skips wedding, OP not the a**hole. NTA 🙌

homurachan | homurachan

Teenagers thinking the world revolves around them 🙄

Mr_Kuchikopi | Mr_Kuchikopi

Stand your ground! Your sister's drama shouldn't ruin your plans. 💍

starwarschick16 | starwarschick16

Bride's sister prioritizes vacation over attending wedding. NTA! 😱

frankleemadea | frankleemadea

Skipping school trips for life events - NTA lesson!

pittsblorgh | pittsblorgh

NTA - Sister's mental health issues cause wedding date conflict.

Throwaway403509 | Throwaway403509

NTA. Learning life choices at 16. 👍

Notorious_RBF | Notorious_RBF

Wedding date showdown ends in a**hole-free verdict 🎃

quezondilla | quezondilla

NTA. Choose between school trip or family wedding. It's your day!

happy-thrifter | happy-thrifter

NTA - Sister's self-involved, offer NYC trip instead. 🤔

pissingoffpeople | pissingoffpeople

Excited bride discovers Halloween-themed bachelorette party ideas! 🎃👰

Ok_aila | Ok_aila

Wedding date drama: NTA, it's your special day! 💍

Ratso27 | Ratso27

Working on personal growth through therapy! 🙌

Ok_aila | Ok_aila

NTA: Shutting down entitled sister with wedding expenses 💸

brazentory | brazentory

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