Picture this: you're planning your dream wedding, a Halloween-themed extravaganza that pays tribute to the month you and your fiancé fell in love. You've got the venue, the invitations, and a supportive crowd. But then, your little sister, the maid of honor, drops a bombshell. Her school trip to New York City coincides with your wedding date. She hints that you should change the date. Do you stick to your guns or yield to your sister's wishes? Let's delve into this family drama.🎃💍🗽

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A Wedding Date Dilemma: Who's in the Wrong? 🤔
In this tale of family drama and wedding woes, we have a bride-to-be who's planned her perfect Halloween wedding, only for her little sister and maid of honor to drop a bombshell. A school trip to New York City clashes with the wedding date, and she suggests the bride change her wedding date. The bride refuses, sparking a heated exchange. The sister accuses her of being a bridezilla, while the bride feels her sister is being entitled. It's a clash of dreams, with a dream wedding on one side and a dream trip on the other. Who do you think is in the wrong? Let's see what the internet has to say...💭
NTA. Sister upset about missing out on being helpful.

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NTA. Teenage sister can't understand the world. Halloween wedding excitement! 🎃

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"NTA - Your date was set first. She can't understand this, but a wedding and a trip to New York at 16 don't even begin to compare to one another. You mention in comments that she's especially upset because she didn't feel included in her mother's wedding, but it's her who is prioritizing a trip over that experience. She can't simultaneously position your wedding as secondary priority and also guilt you for not giving her a once in a lifetime experience, come on." 😅

clbrownn | clbrownn
NTA- Teen sister wants date change for trip, but don't budge! 🙌

HellaHighAtHogwarts | HellaHighAtHogwarts
Wedding date clash resolved with no hard feelings 🙌

the_greenflamingo | the_greenflamingo
Wedding date dilemma: Bride's NTA, sister can visit NY later 💍

diabetic_bennie | diabetic_bennie
NTA, sister's just being 16 🙄. Enjoy your Halloween wedding!

Kinch-dedalus | Kinch-dedalus
Engaging comment and heartfelt replies about sisterhood and adoption 💞

casinoLF | casinoLF
16-year-old prioritizes everything but reality. Not the a**hole.

Bearmancartoons | Bearmancartoons
NTA. Let her enjoy her youth before adult responsibilities.

velvetmaeglass | velvetmaeglass
NAH, sister too young to understand wedding etiquette. 🤷♀️

girlabout2fallasleep | girlabout2fallasleep
Sister wants it all, guilt-tripping and playing victim. NTA.

Zelkilt | Zelkilt
NTA. Don't let immaturity ruin your special day! 🎃

[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Don't let her ruin your special day. 💍✨

niekie05 | niekie05
NTA wants to be MOH in New York, no speeches!

Laurasaurus_ | Laurasaurus_
Understanding the struggles of a 16-year-old's perspective 🤷♀️

Known_Character | Known_Character
Teen sister wants both wedding and trip 🎃💍

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit
NTA: Go ahead and tie the knot, she'll survive 😊

UnoRissen | UnoRissen
Bride chooses wedding date based on history, sister gets petty 🙅

afterthestorms | afterthestorms
Wedding stress is real, but bride isn't the a**hole here. 👰

ThatB0yAintR1ght | ThatB0yAintR1ght
NTA. Rescheduling is a huge ask. She's not being denied.

OhEightFour | OhEightFour
Planning a school field trip to NYC: cost and logistics.

justheretolurk3 | justheretolurk3
Entitled sister learns the world doesn't revolve around her 😂

MikkiTh | MikkiTh
NTA. Sister wants wedding and school trip? Very immature.

bdub9698 | bdub9698
Dreamy Halloween wedding plans! Congrats! 🎃✨

mackmakc | mackmakc
Wedding date change? Expensive and a pain in the a**! 😳

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs
"NTA. Your sister's choosing NYC over your wedding? Disappointing, sis!"

mangonlime | mangonlime
Navigating tough choices with grace and understanding 🙏

KtotheAtotheS | KtotheAtotheS
NTA. Prioritizing NYC over the wedding, but wrong to force date change. Everyone's gotta learn sometime. 🙏

milkbeamgalaxia | milkbeamgalaxia
NTA: Have an honest conversation with your sister about the situation 🚩

paxweasley | paxweasley
Engage with your sister on wedding date conflict 💍

viniciusbfonseca | viniciusbfonseca
Empathy for the guy who had to bail last minute 😢

Deathbydragonfire | Deathbydragonfire
NTA. Help her understand the tough choices of adulthood 🤓

explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17
Halloween weddings: tricky choice between family and friends 👻🎃

bsailors24 | bsailors24
NTA. It's your wedding, you've paid for everything. 🎉

writer_girl-18 | writer_girl-18
Hold your ground and be understanding. She's struggling with abandonment.

Spoonbills | Spoonbills
NTA- Don't let a kid bully you. Be the bigger person 🙌

cridhebriste | cridhebriste
NTA. Teach her a lesson about compromise and understanding. 👍

allthosestars | allthosestars
Wedding over NYC? NTA, prioritize the big day! 💍

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17
Wedding drama: Sister prioritizes past over your special day. NTA!

EsqueletoComFoice | EsqueletoComFoice
Sister's wedding demands vs. bride's priorities: NAH, but close!

Tanyec | Tanyec
Demanding bridezilla stands her ground, but should reconsider her approach

SandwichOtter | SandwichOtter
Teen sister wants wedding date changed for vacation. NTA.

sassyandsweer789 | sassyandsweer789
NTA- Learning life's lessons: Want vs. reality 🙏

skottydoesntkno | skottydoesntkno
"NTA at alllll. Father-in-law asked me to change the schedule of certain events of the wedding WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING so his sister could leave a little earlier. To be honest your sister sounds like she's acting like my FIL."

CaptainLuxon | CaptainLuxon
Wedding time clash: A humorous observation 😂

Ok_aila | Ok_aila
Bride's sister chooses fun trip over wedding, sparks conflict 😱

coldycat | coldycat
NAH, sister's FOMO. Avoid name-calling, meet up & communicate properly 👍

Blondie2992 | Blondie2992
Heartbreaking family dynamics 😢💔

Marvalbert22 | Marvalbert22
NTA!! Young sister wants to have fun, but needs to learn to prioritize and stick to plans. 💍

here_kitkittkitty | here_kitkittkitty
Sister wins wedding date showdown! 💍

Lucretia123 | Lucretia123
NTA asks sister to move trip for wedding. Easy, right? 🤔

2blackpuppers | 2blackpuppers
Sisterzilla alert! Bride stands up for her wedding date choice

Apricottree05 | Apricottree05
NTA, offer a future trip as a graduation present 👍

sick_babe | sick_babe
Sister's entitled behavior sparks anger and confusion. 😱

jolientaboo | jolientaboo
Sister's wedding date clash: NTA, she's being selfish 🙅

QueenBoudicca56 | QueenBoudicca56
The bride stands her ground against her sister's demands. 🎃

andressamdl | andressamdl
Choose your own path in life! 🌟

Kong7126 | Kong7126
NTA. Sister wants bride to cancel plans for school trip 😱

murdocjones | murdocjones
🤔 Confused about the sister's adoption and family dynamics. 🤷♂️

lrw0329 | lrw0329
NTA. Don't let one person ruin everyone's plans! 🙌

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr
Not the a**hole for choosing my own wedding date! 🙌

karmaismydawgz | karmaismydawgz
NTA. Prioritizing a wedding over a school trip is reasonable.

Goldeverywhere | Goldeverywhere
Stick to your Halloween wedding, it's your special day! 🎃

ursoparrudo | ursoparrudo
Sister's absence or bridesmaid? A wedding date dilemma 💍

MF_SPAWN | MF_SPAWN
Teen sister skips wedding, OP not the a**hole. NTA 🙌

homurachan | homurachan
Teenagers thinking the world revolves around them 🙄

Mr_Kuchikopi | Mr_Kuchikopi
Stand your ground! Your sister's drama shouldn't ruin your plans. 💍

starwarschick16 | starwarschick16
Bride's sister prioritizes vacation over attending wedding. NTA! 😱

frankleemadea | frankleemadea
Skipping school trips for life events - NTA lesson!

pittsblorgh | pittsblorgh
NTA - Sister's mental health issues cause wedding date conflict.

Throwaway403509 | Throwaway403509
NTA. Learning life choices at 16. 👍

Notorious_RBF | Notorious_RBF
Wedding date showdown ends in a**hole-free verdict 🎃

quezondilla | quezondilla
NTA. Choose between school trip or family wedding. It's your day!

happy-thrifter | happy-thrifter
NTA - Sister's self-involved, offer NYC trip instead. 🤔

pissingoffpeople | pissingoffpeople
Excited bride discovers Halloween-themed bachelorette party ideas! 🎃👰

Ok_aila | Ok_aila
Wedding date drama: NTA, it's your special day! 💍

Ratso27 | Ratso27
Working on personal growth through therapy! 🙌

Ok_aila | Ok_aila
NTA: Shutting down entitled sister with wedding expenses 💸

brazentory | brazentory