Sisterly Love or Unpaid Babysitting? One Woman's Battle for Respect 🍦👩‍👧‍👦

Diply Social Team
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Imagine being a teenager, your life just beginning to take shape, only to be thrust into the role of a full-time babysitter for your older sister's four kids. This is the reality for our 19-year-old heroine, who has been juggling her sister's kids and her own life since she was just 12. The last straw? An ice cream request that spiraled into a full-blown argument about respect and boundaries. Let's dive into this frosty family feud... 🍦👧👶

Babysitter by Birth, Not by Choice 👧👶

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Double Trouble and No Pay 💸👶

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The Unpaid Job Becomes a Trap 🕳️👶

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The Ice Cream Incident 🍦👧

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Drawing the Line 🚧👧

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The Silent Treatment 🤐👧

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Mom Joins the Drama 🎭👩

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A Taste of Her Own Medicine 💊👩

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A Tale of Ice Cream, Kids, and Boundaries Crossed 🍦👧👶

Our 19-year-old heroine has been juggling her sister's kids and her own life since she was 12. When a simple request for an ice cream turned into a full-blown argument about respect and boundaries, she decided to stand her ground. The result? A family feud that's left her sister and mother to deal with the four kids on their own. Now, they're getting a taste of what it feels like to be in her shoes. Let's see what the internet has to say about this frosty family drama... 🍦👧👶

NTA. If you don't want to be responsible for watching your kids or finding childcare, you shouldn't have kids. The only people who get automatic kid responsibilities are the parents, everyone else needs to be asked. 💁‍♀️💰

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze

🚔 NTA. Threatening to call the police for child abandonment?! 😱

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NTA for speaking up, but it's time to set boundaries 👏

Life-Wealth-3399 | Life-Wealth-3399

NTA. Using ice cream analogy to set boundaries, but sister doesn't respect it 🤷‍♀️.

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Stand up for yourself! Stop babysitting. You're not the a**hole. 🙌

WickedAngelLove | WickedAngelLove

NTA. Ice cream as the breaking point 🤪🤪

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps | HappyLifeCoffeeHelps

NTA - Time to stand up for yourself and prioritize your job 🙌

Minute_Patient_8841 | Minute_Patient_8841

Escape the babysitting drama! Apply to college and gain independence! 🎓

Ambitious_Amoeba1992 | Ambitious_Amoeba1992

NTA. Set boundaries and don't let her take advantage 🙌

givemethc27 | givemethc27

NTA. 🤬 F**k them kids! Live your life and make her deal with the burden. 😱

geriatric_moose | geriatric_moose

Sibling exploitation: NTA stands up against unpaid babysitting 👊

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NTA. Kids are her responsibility. Call CPS for neglect.

General_Ad_4971 | General_Ad_4971

NTA! Family obligations vs personal responsibilities 👩‍👧‍👦

Stillunshore | Stillunshore

Unpaid babysitting nightmare 🙅‍♀️💔 Family dynamics gone wrong

StraightBudget8799 | StraightBudget8799

👏 NTA. No free childcare entitlement. Boundaries are important!

4682458 | 4682458

Setting boundaries with audacious sister for unpaid babysitting 🙌

spinmynipplenutsx | spinmynipplenutsx

NTA. Stand up for yourself! You deserve better! 👏

Dramatic_Squirrel_82 | Dramatic_Squirrel_82

Calling CPS on sister for forcing unpaid babysitting. Appalling situation.

WifeofBath1984 | WifeofBath1984

Empathy for the burden of unpaid babysitting. Enjoy your youth! 🙏

INFJPersonality-52 | INFJPersonality-52

🎉 Congrats on taking the first step! Good luck ahead! 🍀

ClothesQueasy2828 | ClothesQueasy2828

Validation and solidarity in seeking others' experiences 👍

Arquen_Marille | Arquen_Marille

Take control of your life and pursue your own dreams ✨

Several-Nerve-1458 | Several-Nerve-1458

Commenter sympathizes with kids and criticizes irresponsible behavior 😢

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"NTA I hate when people expect free babysitting 😡"

ContentedRecluse | ContentedRecluse

Setting boundaries and not being taken advantage of. NTA 👏

gr8manyThings | gr8manyThings

Stand your ground! Don't babysit until she apologizes 💪

Snape4eva | Snape4eva

Time to clock out and let her find a sitter 👋

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

Unpaid babysitting? NTA. Keep your panties on, sis. 😉

justputonashirt | justputonashirt

NTA, sister's a**hole. Stop babysitting, let her hire someone 👍


Family isn't always there for you. 😔

AValentineSolutions | AValentineSolutions

NTA, but 90% of problems here stem from saying 'yes' 😅

Leopard-Recent | Leopard-Recent

Escape the cycle of manipulation and prioritize your own happiness 🙌

vodka7 | vodka7

"NTA. Escape the chaos! Set boundaries and speak up calmly."

2_old_for_this_spit | 2_old_for_this_spit

Don't be an enabler! Stand up for yourself! 💪

RevolutionaryCow7961 | RevolutionaryCow7961

NTA: Standing up for yourself and demanding respect 💪

Upbeat-Pineapple-332 | Upbeat-Pineapple-332

Finally standing up for herself after years of unpaid babysitting! 🙌

PinkPrincess61 | PinkPrincess61

Take control of your life! Set boundaries and prioritize yourself 🙌

EYJacksonGilbert | EYJacksonGilbert

Sibling support or exploitation? Boundaries and rewards for babysitting. 👩‍👧‍👦

FatAmyCheeks | FatAmyCheeks

Avoiding babysitting duties by leaving first 🙌

extremeeyeroll | extremeeyeroll

"NTA, report your sister! Not your responsibility. 🚨"

Potential_Honey_955 | Potential_Honey_955

NTA. Don't let assumptions limit your future. Communicate boundaries 👍

Pristine-Leek-9576 | Pristine-Leek-9576

🚫 No more babysitting unless it's a real emergency! 🚨

SevenTheeStallion | SevenTheeStallion

NTA. Sister needs to take responsibility for her own kids! 🙄

Far_Swordfish3944 | Far_Swordfish3944

NTA. Setting boundaries and confronting sister about childcare responsibilities.

Scared_Fox_1813 | Scared_Fox_1813

Avoid her and find other places to hang out 🍦

SpruceGoose133 | SpruceGoose133

Empathy for OP dealing with awful sister. 😥

freshub393 | freshub393

Taking a stand: No more unpaid babysitting! 💪

Apprehensive_Fox_47 | Apprehensive_Fox_47

Not the a**hole. Sisterly love or unpaid babysitting? 🧡

bunnybaby17 | bunnybaby17

Commenter questions the absence of children's father and criticizes sister's lifestyle.

Matelot67 | Matelot67

She stands up for herself and wins! 👏

Time-Tie-231 | Time-Tie-231

Setting boundaries with a manipulative sister. 🚫👩‍⚕️

Ebechops | Ebechops

NTA! Stand up for yourself and demand the respect you deserve! 💪

WildChanterelle | WildChanterelle

Not the a**hole. Let's hear the juicy details!

Due-Compote-4723 | Due-Compote-4723

Stand your ground and set boundaries with your sister! 💪

SketchyPornDude | SketchyPornDude

Ice cream confusion aside, expecting free babysitting is a**hole move 🙄

Buckus93 | Buckus93

A simple comment with a strong message. 👊

Shadow_Girl1519 | Shadow_Girl1519

Age doesn't determine responsibility 👍

AfterStaff5711 | AfterStaff5711

Escape the unpaid babysitting trap! 🙌

CrazyButHarmless | CrazyButHarmless

💁‍♀️ Enjoy your child-free life! No obligation to babysit!

mad-n-sane | mad-n-sane

Boundaries needed: NTA, but stop being her free babysitter.

wanderleywagon5678 | wanderleywagon5678

Setting boundaries with your sister's kids: NTA 👍

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Don't babysit without consent! NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

6tl6ntis6 | 6tl6ntis6

Stand up for yourself and set clear boundaries with your sister 💪

Big__Bang | Big__Bang

Escape the drama and start a new chapter. NTA! 🙌

NinjaHidingintheOpen | NinjaHidingintheOpen

Threaten to call Child Protective Services (CSP) for unpaid babysitting? 📞🚫

Riyokosan | Riyokosan

NTA. No excuse for relying on you for childcare. Where are the fathers?

Take_away_my_drama | Take_away_my_drama

Boundaries crossed? The ongoing saga of unpaid babysitting 😩

az22hctac | az22hctac

Stand up for yourself and demand back pay! 💪🏼

dheffe01 | dheffe01

NTA. Toxic sister taking advantage. Draw the line and live!

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Find another babysitter, sis! You're not the a**hole! ✌️

IndicaJones_09 | IndicaJones_09

Super nanny episode and a shocking aita story 🤯

CrazeeLilDevil | CrazeeLilDevil

NTA. Set boundaries and prioritize your own responsibilities. 👍

Kindergoat | Kindergoat

Unpaid babysitting? NTA! You deserve respect and your own youth 🙌

ElleGeeAitch | ElleGeeAitch

Stand up for yourself! 💪 Demand fair pay for babysitting.

bkwormtricia | bkwormtricia

Not petty. Not your kids. Not your responsibility. 👏

SuperHuckleberry125 | SuperHuckleberry125

Absolutely, positively not the a**hole 😊

Extension-Let-4217 | Extension-Let-4217

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