Meet a brave mom who dared to challenge the 'one size fits all' approach to parenting. After adopting a 2-year-old boy from Korea, she found herself in the middle of a family conflict, with her own parents and sister questioning her parenting methods. Her adopted son, dealing with the trauma of a major life change, and her biological daughters, dealing with the typical issues of childhood, were treated differently during their tantrums. This sparked a fiery debate: is it favoritism or just understanding? Let's dive into the story...👀
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Caught in the crossfire of family criticism, this mom is trying to navigate the choppy waters of parenting. With an adopted son struggling to adjust to a new life and two biological daughters dealing with their own childhood issues, she's faced with a tough question: Is it favoritism or sensitivity? While she's been accused of treating her children differently, she argues that her son's tantrums are not just typical 'terrible twos' behavior, but a reflection of his grief and fear. As she tries to balance the needs of all her children, she's left wondering if she's in the wrong. Let's see what the internet has to say about this... 📢
Different parenting for different developmental stages. NTA! 👏
angeljumps | angeljumps
NTA. Treating a 2-year-old differently than a 6-year-old 😊
TRJLA | TRJLA
NTA. Fair ≠ the same. 🤔
yourlittlebirdie | yourlittlebirdie
Hilarious response to parents' suggestion of equal treatment for kids! 😂
brydeswhale | brydeswhale
NTA...considerate parenting, ensuring all kids feel loved and supported. 👏
x395 | x395
NTA. Age matters when it comes to parenting decisions. 👍
itsmrben | itsmrben
NTA for being sensitive to your son's growth and needs. 👍
WorldsWorstWarlock | WorldsWorstWarlock
NTA: Helping a cranky 2yo is not the same as icecream cravings 🤔
Nebsy_Websy | Nebsy_Websy
NTA, but explaining the different standards for toddlers and schoolchildren. 👍
deejay1974 | deejay1974
👏 NTA! Age difference and trauma justify different treatment. Ignore the haters!
lightwoodorchestra | lightwoodorchestra
Defending parenting choices: NTA for treating kids differently based on age and adoption. 🤔
wertilack | wertilack
NTA, but explain to your 6-year-old why the 2-year-old throws tantrums. 👨👩👦
Corgi_Splooting | Corgi_Splooting
NTA. Older daughter needs understanding and support. Food insecurities?
squeakylittlecat | squeakylittlecat
Understanding the challenges of adopting a traumatized 2-year-old. 💚
ValhallaSpectre | ValhallaSpectre
NTA: Explaining why a child needs understanding can foster closeness 👥
ChrissMiss_Mom | ChrissMiss_Mom
Reasoning with a six-year-old? NTA for expecting better behavior! 🤔
DetectivReneeMontoya | DetectivReneeMontoya
NTA - Understanding the different needs of a 2-year-old and 6-year-old 🤔
-kitsune- | -kitsune-
Debate on parenting styles: NAH, but is it too complex?
Not_Cleaver | Not_Cleaver
NTA: Age-appropriate discipline methods. Fair parenting or favoritism? 🤔
HPfan94 | HPfan94
Engaging parenting debate: Adoption, age-appropriate behavior, and love 👨🏻👩🏻
FrugalChef13 | FrugalChef13
ESH. Be patient with your daughters and empathetic towards them. 🙏
gf1129 | gf1129
Understanding language frustrations: NTA vs. family dynamics 🤔
Poodlegal18 | Poodlegal18
Adoptee shares experience, urges more understanding and research on adoption.
hurrypotta | hurrypotta
NTA: Age-appropriate parenting sparks family drama. No a**hole here. 🤔
meowglittermeow | meowglittermeow
NTA. Ice cream tantrum vs. new family stress. No contest. 👏
remiwrites2003 | remiwrites2003
NTA, but consider therapy and fun activities to bond 👨🍳
Worsethanboys | Worsethanboys
Standing up to parents' interference in raising your kids. 💪
JCVPhoto | JCVPhoto
NTA: Tailoring parenting to individual children's needs is crucial 👏
Vast_Lecture | Vast_Lecture
Age matters! NTA explains why different kids need different care. 🤔
rawsugar87 | rawsugar87
NTA - Seek professional help for trauma and attachment parenting 🤔
Reddplannet | Reddplannet
NTA: Parenting expectations for different ages can be challenging 👨👦
alliwantistacoss | alliwantistacoss
Recognizing individual needs: NTA, good parenting 👏
juniperberry52 | juniperberry52
Engaging caption: Commenter calls out favoritism, sparks debate on parenting.
Kilroy_4 | Kilroy_4
NTA but consider the impact on older siblings adjusting 🤔
RoniaLawyersDaughter | RoniaLawyersDaughter
Mixed opinions on favoritism and concerns about leniency with adopted child 😕
Gigschak | Gigschak
NTA. Age-appropriate parenting, not favoritism. Good job, OP! 👏
blacklisted_cop | blacklisted_cop
Acknowledging one child's struggles doesn't mean neglecting the others. 👍
missanthropy09 | missanthropy09
NTA: Understanding the unique challenges of each child's age. 🤔
duskiroo | duskiroo
NTA: Understanding the importance of a 'yes bowl' for foster kids 💕
KatieHJ | KatieHJ
NTA: Tailoring parenting to each child's needs 👨👩👧
Cultural-Concept-485 | Cultural-Concept-485
NTA- Son adjusting to new environment 🙏
lacyjacobs | lacyjacobs
Different ages, different reactions. NTA for understanding and supporting trauma.
NaryaGenesis | NaryaGenesis
Fairness isn't always equality, but equity. NTA for recognizing that.
simnick13 | simnick13
NTA: Age difference and adoption factors explain favoritism. 👍
GoodQueenFluffenChop | GoodQueenFluffenChop
NTA, but consider the impact on all your children. 🙏
unknownwinner10 | unknownwinner10
From YTA to NTA: A change of heart and perspective. 💜
ratboy181 | ratboy181
NTA - Reassuring your scared 2-year-old during a big transition 👍
ReadontheCrapper | ReadontheCrapper
NTA! 🙌 Accommodating different needs is important for effective parenting!
kyandflowers | kyandflowers
A heartwarming comment about a precious son. 💖
knightfrog1248 | knightfrog1248
NTA: One kid coping with trauma, the other navigating childhood.
pagancatlover | pagancatlover
Understanding trauma: NTA's approach to parenting sparks family drama 🤔
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
Understanding the challenges of parenting foster kids. 🙏
goneforcigarettes | goneforcigarettes
🍦 Tantrum over ice cream vs. trauma at age two? 🧒
Amaristemoon | Amaristemoon
Adjusting together: NTA, addressing fears, and conquering them! 💪
CescaPercie07 | CescaPercie07
Understanding the adjustment period for a child in new environment. 🤔
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NTA: Wise and astute parenting acknowledges trauma and regular kid stuff 👏
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NTA. Adoption requires extra work. Developmental differences matter. 👍
freddit32 | freddit32
NTA. Understanding the struggles of a 2-year-old vs a 6-year-old. 👍
m99h | m99h
NTA for prioritizing the needs of a traumatized child. 👏
icebergmama | icebergmama
Adopted son needs empathy and counseling for a smoother transition. 👨🎓
abby_normal93 | abby_normal93
NTA. Seek professional help for your son's grief and adjustment. 👍
Pandaherbs13 | Pandaherbs13
"NTA. Treating kids differently based on their age and needs. 👏"
Forsaken-Concern-970 | Forsaken-Concern-970
Parenting tantrums: NTA, but wait till they're older! 🤔
Federal-Emotion | Federal-Emotion
Adoptive mom shares her experience and offers support for others 💜
LitChick2000 | LitChick2000
NTA. Adopted children need love and understanding, not tough love. 💚
Mello_18 | Mello_18
YTA, consider your child's perspective during major life changes. 🤔
tossout3333 | tossout3333
Adopted baby's slow adjustment to new family melts everyone's hearts 💕
neverjuliet | neverjuliet
NTA. Adoption trauma is real. Seek support from adoption resources. 💛
FiestyMum | FiestyMum
NTA. Adoption can be tough. Sensitivity and support are crucial. 💜
curiousnerd06 | curiousnerd06
NTA - Can you adopt me? 😊
Lillian-Paige | Lillian-Paige
Supportive comment: Understanding the challenges of parenting a traumatized child. 👍
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Heartbreaking custody battle leaves toddler scared and confused. 😢
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